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Im 19f and never had any romantic experience or any of the "teenage" experiences. When my little sister who's Q16 tells me she has been talking to this guy it fills me with frustration that it is happening to her and not me. How do I get rid of this feeling?
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>>34538831
You're worrying over nothing. I don't usually pander to gender politics, but on this one 'problem' you have it on fucking easy mode as a female. Your sexual and romantic value increases the longer you remain pure, chaste, virgin and untouched especially at age 18 - 25. You are freaking out over being virgin and untouched at age 19 as a female? Absurd shit OP. Your only task at hand is to not be mentally ill, that's literally your one and only challenge as a female of your status.
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>>34538847
yeah but is my "value" still useful if im ugly?? I mean guys dont even wanna make eye contact with me
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>>34538877
Yes, there's still plenty of value because there are some men who are realists and not idealists. Realistic men understand that everyone becomes ugly in the end, in old age. And they would rather make sure they chose a pure and clean woman of good character to grow old with rather than the annoying town slut.
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>>34538877
I guarantee you look better than you think you do, and you really don't realize how attractive being nice is to men. I would rather date an average woman that's nice than a 10/10 that's a combative cunt all the time. Of course, I don't mean be a doormat. Set boundaries, but enforce them respectfully. Treat men with respect and that you actually like having him around and you'll get far. Don't get fomo and rush into a relationship with a shithead, at 19 as a virgin you have many years ahead of you where you are literally at the top of the dating hierarchy.
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>>34538831
>Im 19f
>never had any romantic experience or any of the "teenage" experiences
>How to accept ill never experience romantic love
WTF are you talking about? You're a "teen", you can still fall in love and your options are greater than your sisters because of the age thing... You're probably cute, you should just put yourself out there. But I suggest you to only do it after marriage btw, don't throw away your virginity for a fck loser.

>>34538877
>yeah but is my "value" still useful if im ugly?? I mean guys dont even wanna make eye contact with me
I doubt, you're probably so cute and hot they're scared to death to make eye contact. That's probably what's happening, trust me.
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>>34538942
>I doubt, you're probably so cute and hot they're scared to death to make eye contact. That's probably what's happening, trust me.

Also this is true OP. Men typically avert eye contact from women they find attractive. Eye contact is easiest with ugly women because you never worry about creeping the ugly girls out (nothing of value lost if they are creeps out). But for cute girls we don't wanna give eye contact right away in case we fuck our chances up.
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