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How do you come to terms with the realization that nobody likes you? I haven't had an IRL friend in over a decade. My online "friends" only talk to me or play games when I reach out first. I'm the only one that tries to get anyone to do anything and I have to remind them when we make plans in such a way that it feels like I'm forcing them to hang out with me. I've never had anyone tell me I'm doing anything wrong so I don't even know what the fuck is wrong. I know I'll never find love so I'm not worried about women anymore but it's fucked that I can't even have friends. Do I just stop bothering, delete everything, and go full hermit mode?
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Just treat them as tumbleweeds rolling into your life, you can kick them around for a bit, have some fun and then let them keep rolling just as easily.
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>>34539682
People priorities things differently and see things differently, enjoy that type of friendship for what it is, don’t try to force it into things that it isn’t, and don’t be afraid to branch off into new things and interests, put yourself out there and start new hobbies or new thing where you can meet new people and slowly turn conversations into more meaningful ones and see how it goes. People come and go l, enjoy the time with everyone for what it is instead of worrying about what it isn’t
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>>34539682
Others will only like you as much as you like yourself. Nobody likes a self-loathing faggot.
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>>34539903
Yes OP, learn from this guy, this is how what you turn into when you become miserable and unliked, avoided isolating and don’t get that bitter edgy vibe
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>>34539903
that's not true though. back before puberty i was basically Sheldon Cooper for dinosaurs and very enthusiastic about science and wanting to tell everyone about the things that i liked and that was the period of my life where everyone disliked me the most
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>>34539682
do something that makes you like yourself more, besides masturbation.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Af-k9sTAYEQ&ra=m
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>>34539682
Opposite for me. I have a heart of gold and everyone wants to take it from me.



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