I am currently studying Chemistry at a very reputable public university in my area. I’m in my second semester, but I’ve already fallen behind on a few subjects because I didn’t study enough at the beginning. My grades have improved this semester, but it has come at a huge cost: I am extremely stressed out. I no longer have time to hang out with friends, watch a show, or simply breathe.Because of this, I’m seriously considering transferring to a private university (most likely for night classes). I feel like the foundation and rigor I got from the public university would give me a solid base to handle a private college much more smoothly. Plus, by studying at night, I could get a full-time job, whereas right now I’m stuck in a part-time job just to balance my schedule.Here is my main dilemma: I’ve made some great connections at this public university. I’ve made wonderful friends, met professors who are references in the field, and even my former high school teacher (who is starting his PhD there) recommended me to his old advisors. In other words, I already have doors open and valuable networking inside.I am really torn between prioritizing my mental health/free time or sticking it out for the academic opportunities and connections I've already made. What would you do in my shoes? Is it worth giving up the prestige of a public university for a better quality of life?
>>34540789A third alternative: most schools will give you a furlough (though they may call it something else) - the right to drop out for a semester or year with a guaranteed re-acceptance back. Take the break to get your head in order and then come back
>>34543501I second this, I regret not having done it myself.
You might have to deal with a lack of free time to get a good degree anon. If you're struggling this much be sure to track how you use your time, double check if you're organized, and perhaps be tested for ADHD. I also don't think the grass is greener at the other school. Take a furlough if you need to, an academic break, but I'm worried you won't get back on track and then you'll be stuck.
