I find my gf unappealing after she gets repeated sexually assaulted in public (assgrabbing, catcalling etc). She was also raped as a child which further weirds me out. Its not her fault but she kind of brings it on - cutesy demeanor, attractive enough for men to want to assault her but not atractive enough for them go think there will be an repercussion. Its the fact that dudes will look at her and see her as for the taking, feels like she doesnt belong to me. Theres literally nothing i can do to prevent it. Ive tried stopping her from going out, and even though she disobeyed me and probably will continue to, it happens in her workplace regardless. The fact that she has been groped countless times when we are in a relationship makes me resent her. I fantasise cheating on her daily. Im moving to central Europe on an exchange soon and seriously plan on fucking an angelic fur coat wearing eurofoid. My parents and friends are all acqauinted with her so its too much hassle to break up, I dont want to have to reintegrate yet another girl into my circle. She takes care of my “emotional needs”, I just dont see her as a valid sexual object.
>fucking an angelic fur coat wearing eurofoidGood fucking luck with that you absolute buffoon. Dump her, no girl deserves to end up with a misogynistic, unempathic pos like you.
where the fuck do you live lmao
>>34540932You sound like an autist who is getting played like an idiot by some BPD-coded chick who, after every time she cheats on you, lies and tells you she was "randomly" groped and molested every time she walks outside. What's happening is she is going out to fuck with her new "favorite person". That's why she is hell-bent on going out alone without you and 'disobeys' you, it's because she is fucking other people on the side, but she knows you have a bleeding heart for victims so she pretends to be one so you are none the wiser.
What can I say. You're fucked, OP. This is, why men had their women stay at home in the past. But that is water under a bridge, right. Regardless. It is time to cut your losses. You have to dump her. You see, whenever she's "groped" and she sees you're not acting, she loses respect for you. Causing her to be "groped" more. Causing you more pain. You have to end it ASAP, before it gets out of hand. The relationship's over.
>>34541739By the way, do not try to cheat on her. Dump her and move on.
>>34541722>OP wants to cheat on his girlfriend and is still staying with her despite not being attracted to her, not telling her the truth>people still see OP as the victim
>>34541749OP is clearly only coping. Somebody who's staying with a women, when she tells him to his face that she was being groped, is not somebody who has options. He's only coping.>OH BROTHER I'LL SHOW HER WHEN I WILL BE ONE BEING GROPED BY WOMEN THAT'LL SHOW HER
>>34541762shes only saying that because she wants to feel protected by him desu. OP is a retard and not getting the memo
>>34541749I don't see OP as a victim. People who get cheated are not victims, they are dumbasses with no self respect, zero boundaries and complete social obliviousness who can't see red flags for shit. OP is a retard, and his GF sounds like a mentally ill BPD psychotic mess.>>34541828>shes only saying that because she wants to feel protected by him desu. OP is a retard and not getting the memoLike this shit right here. That's not normal at all, that's not cute or clever or innocent. Lying about being groped or sexually assaulted to gain someone's pity or attention is psychopath-shit. It's not a "teehee girl, such a mood!" Shit. If you go to a psychologist and admit that shit you will get some type of cluster B personality disorder slapped on your shit and it would be deserved.
>>34541852People who get cheated on are victims. What are you talking about.
>>34541918>People who get cheated on are victims. What are you talking about.No they're not, and I'm saying that as someone who got cheated on before in my youth. Being stabbed makes you a victim. Having your home invaded and looted makes you a victim. Getting your head caved in with a hammer makes you a victim. Getting robbed at gunpoint for your money makes you a victim.Getting your feelings hurt over a stupid cunt who can't commit does not make you a victim, it makes the cheater a cunt who should be dumped. That's not victimhood that's just pest control, same way as you remove a infestation of cockroaches from your home, you dump the cheater and clean up your life from trash. No one with a home infestation calls themselves a victim over it. People who get cheated shouldn't call themselves victims either, give me a break. Just remove the social parasite (the cheater) from your life and move on with life
>>34541852anon she probably wasnt lying you're taking this way too personally. OPs girlfriend is getting screwed over by OP
>>34541971I'm taking OP's face value observation and simply running with it. According to him it's a girl who (repeatedly) gets ass grabbed in public, is magically 'molested' every single outing she has without OP around. And to anyone with a brain that spells "Cheater". Because in real life, real rapes and sexual assaults don't happen abruptly and spontaneously and repetitively like that. I also happen to have experience with two exes who were serial cheaters, who would lie about being abused or bad touched to cover their asses when ever they were caught.
>>34541960No, it is victimizing you. It is a betrayal that is a form of abuse. The betrayal trauma is not a figment of the imagination. It is real. Look it up. Back in the day, infidelity was a crime punishable by death. Why'd you think that is?It's the gynocentric, misandrist mainstream mindset that is speaking out of you. >Get over yourself, bro. It's only in your head, bro. You are at fault, because you should've somehow seen it, when you might not have had the experience, bro. It is not your fault, man. You were the victim of a crime and, yes, you are deserving retribution and a costly compensation for it.
>>34542006>No, it is victimizing you. It is a betrayal that is a form of abuse. It was a betrayal but I don't count it as abuse. I count it as inconvenience, a waste of time. >Betrayal trauma is not a figment of the imagination.It's not a figment of the imagination but it's still weak. When a 9 month old baby starts to stand on its two little legs only to fall on its ass, the baby cries and screams as if it just endured the worst thing it ever possibly could endure. And the truth is, it did, as far as it's little 9 months experience is concerned, that was indeed the worst thing ever to happen to the baby. The trauma of falling on its ass isn't a figment of the imagination either. But it's still fucking irrelevant in the big picture.Getting cheated on is the same thing. When it happens in your youth you will cry your little heart out and you will call it a trauma. In reality it's not the end of the world, it's just a matter of discarding the cheating loser as though they were human garbage. >Infidelity was a crime punishable by deathSo was stealing bread. You think the bread maker needs a shrink for bread theft trauma?
>>34541722>>34541852There is definitely signs of bpd in the form of random uncontrollable outbursts of hatred. Shes a very promiscuous girl so i wouldnt be surprised if she gets off on being groped and brings it on intentionally. Then again she gets upset when it happens. There is no way to ever know whats actually happening. Either way id want one of two options: if it is happening i dont want to know or B be with a girl that does not assaulted regularly (real or fabricated). And C, stay with current girl but get equal retribution. I would still fuck her but she isnt "wife material" because of all the reasons ive mentioned. >>34541545if i wanted a reddit response i would have gone there instead.>>34541762>OH BROTHER I'LL SHOW HER WHEN I WILL BE ONE BEING GROPED BY WOMEN THAT'LL SHOW HERi mean yeah dude pretty much, theres literally nothing i can do about it other than return the favour. >>34541960there are no victims here. I dont feel sorry for myself or for her. Maybe her girlfriends do. There is no outlet for me to help this feeling of being cucked by random dudes that i can do nothing about. Im not an angry or violent person so i wouldnt do anything to her or the people that supposedly grope her. Id rather silently even things out for now.
>>34542071>There is definitely signs of bpd in the form of random uncontrollable outbursts of hatred. Shes a very promiscuous girl so i wouldnt be surprised if she gets off on being groped and brings it on intentionallyIt's called "cheating". That's the name for when you deliberately engage and socialise with people who bluntly show sexual attraction to you despite already having a boyfriend or girlfriend. That's what that's called. >She gets upset when it happensShe gets upset when she is caught. Or when she feels she could be caught. My ex would pretend she had a stalker who was sexually harassing her, but it turned out she was the one who stalked him and initiated everything sexually with him. I eventually found all of the chat logs and texts, and the reason she told me the fake story was because the guy who pissed to find out she had a BF (me) and was threatening to tell me so she wanted to control the narrative where she was a 'victim'.
>>34542056Yet, here we are. You remember it. Even if it happened *decades* ago. There has to be a punishment.
>>34542104Remembering something doesn't mean there's pain or suffering. I remember falling off a bicycle and hitting my head, doesn't mean I have to bitch about it as if I were still in pain. As for punishment you simply just make a consequence, dump the cheater, and consider them as living dead and treat them as if they had passed away, cut them out of your life and that's their consequence. No need for punishments, cheaters do that themselves just fine via self sabotaging behaviours. Their punishment is they will never know lasting love, that's their own fault. Boo hoo.
>>34542123>consider them as living dead>as if they had passed away>cut them out of your lifeI do not understand you boomers. No, there is a need. On the one hand, there has to be justice. On the other, it would be an improvement of society. A reason,why people are not marrying and having children is this issue.
When I found out my ex got raped as a kid, I told him to leave.The difference was that he was becoming unappealing before I found out about his rape.>>34541722I suspected that guy was lying about being raped too for victim points. Many rape victims are just lying.
>>34542150>I do not understand you boomers.I know you don't. But you will understand it when you get more life experience, you'll see. It's not hard to understand anon, just live long enough to watch the people you care about wither and rot to cancer or any other abrupt diseases of the body, live long enough to have everything you care about being taken from you with no reason or rhyme to it. Then you will stop caring about justice for petty shit like dating a whore. You will instead care about avoiding them so they never turn up in your future, or at the very least you will just cut them off and discard them the minute you figure out that's who they are. Because by the time you gain actual knowledge of loss and meaningful pain, you will know one thing: Your time is important, and it is finite. And if you waste your time over vengeance fantasies you are a fool. Especially if you're doing that for a two-bit slut. Cheaters aren't worth the effort so just send them packing.
>>34540932>she kind of brings it onNO woman ever "brings it on"
