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>meet somebody on an imageboard
>gradually, they become more and more abusive
>I leave
>repeat
Why is this? I noticed this with women, especially. Usually men are aggressive from the start. Sick of the loneliness. Advice on how to find online friends?
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>>34541612
??? Are you seriously looking for friends on 4chan? My friend, stay out of trouble
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>>34541617
Where else would I be looking, man. You're probably right, however. Guess I'll have to live with loneliness.
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>>34541621
Don't give up. I'm currently talking to another anon in a different thread about social life, making friends etc… loneliness sucks and in fact I'm thinking today it might be the single worst holding us retards back in life, but I seriously think you're better off trying to make friends irl. The one piece of advice I can give you from my limited experience is to immerse yourself in places where there are people, don't try to unnaturally latch on to individuals
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>>34541612
You're misreading people
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>>34541674
I appreciate your words, anon. I'm trying to find a friend IRL, too. Success has been limited, as well. I'll need a break for a time. But once I've fully recovered, I'll try again. Thanks for your words, however.
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>>34541612
> gradually, they become more and more abusive
You are probably clingy, annoying and don't take accountability for your behaviour and actions.
Recommend you do a personality test to find your weakness.
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>>34541698
Yeah I feel you. Just keep looking for friends and also regularly check in on those friends you already have. I mean I have to be telling this to myself as well
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>>34541612
>Advice on how to find online friends?
Play games, specifically multiplayer games, specifically mmos. Get good at a class, join a decent guild (or work your way up to a decent guild) and befriend those people. You wont have to risk interacting with retards, because retards usually dont last long in environments like that since they have to spend time with eachother every week, sometimes multiple times a week.
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>>34541702
OP says abusive. But it's probably just people trying to have banter and playfully bully each other. That's what friends usually do.



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