>meets girl, she gives me a bj>I develop feelings for her>she is worried i only like her for sex and will stop talking to her after we have sex>I try to get her to see that i am not that shallow>we have sex, she accuses me of only liking her for sex, she stops talking to me>about a week later>meets new girl, calls for a long time>meet irl, hang out, go to a march, chill in bed>I develop feelings for her>we have sex>she is worried i only like her for sex and will stop talking to her after we have sex>I try to get her to see that i am not that shallow>she is starting to use the 'you only like me for sex' excuse to not talk to me>I hope we continue to talk but.... why does it go like this brosIm not looking for specific advice besides how can I get her to idk not abandon me too. I may be enlightened.
>Have casual sex with multiple women and they ignore him afterwardsWhy are you complaining about suffering from success?
>>34541867I happen to really like these women when I know them. There is pain from them thinking I am no more than some sexpest perv, disregarding these intense feelings that come from the heart/soul, considering them no more than coomer desires. And there is pain of not being with them, of them leaving me.I am a guy but this probably happens to women (being pumped and dumped, but this is a different thing) more often, they should relate to how I feel.
>>34541857They're called sluts, OP. Sluts use sex to gain quick attention, and then when they have the attention, they throw it away because they hate (you) for falling for their ploy. Because they wanted attention for their personality/mind/heart/soul & not just their bodies. But sluts are stupid in that they lack complete self-awareness and accountability, so what they do is they market themselves as materialistic, sexualized, and sexually promiscuous for attention and then they act surprised and offended when that's all everyone ever gains from them. The truth is you are the one who is fucking shallow people. Stop doing that and learn to say "no".
>>345419411st had only given head and been fingered (if she can be believed). I (probably) took her virginity. 2nd had only had penis in vagina sex with 1 other guy (her bf, who she is still with and cheated on with me - not that they have met up in months). I dont consider the 2nd a slut and didnt consider the first till recently. I didnt realise it would be like this. I just figured that this is how people have sex. 1st definitely turned on me, maybe she did hate me for 'falling for her ploy'. I hope the 2nd doesnt feel the same way after I eventually start feeling limmerance for her too.
>>34541958Sluts are notorious liars, both of them most likely got broken in many times before you came along. Think about it logically, the only reason someone gains resentment is from experience. Those two girls routinely experienced being pumped and dumped because that's exactly what they allowed repeatedly, for attention. That's why they resented you for maybe resembling the many men they fucked before fucking you. Those girls weren't as clean as you think. And yes many sluts out there can & do lie about their body count because they know men care about sexual purity and they lie or downplay their past to keep your attention. To a slut, lying about body count isn't a big deal, to them it's like lying about their body weight.
>>34541857you want it different? then stop proving her fear right so quickly dumbassI mean.. have you tried not having sex right away? Instead of rushing into it and then trying to convince them that you actually like themmaybe let the connection come first... just a thought
>>34541857Do you ever talk to any of these women. Do you ever listen?
>>34541867Women ditching you after having sex once is pointless, you will never have a harem that way.
>>34541857you kill sperm.not braincells.
>>34541926no that's just a normal way to feel. the human race is just strongly bimodal with tons of people that can fuck a lot without feeling anything and tons of people that need sincere commitment. you need to learn to not have sex with people until you know them and trust they won't abandon you.
