She's 35, I'm 23. Just found out it's triplets on top of that (yes seriously). She wants to keep them, as her and her husband have a history of infertility and don't have any kids yet. And no, I didn't know she was married at the time. Advice?
>>34542152Get ready to be a dad and get ready for a lot of drama.
If this is true: it's a high risk pregnancy. Triplets are always high risk. Go ahead and subtract whatever 9 month due date and assume the baby will be born around 33-36 weeks gestation.None of the options are good. But it's not the kids fault. Honesty will likely destroy their marriage. It's also suspicious it's triplets I wonder if she was on fertility drugs otherwise it's very rare occurrence. Did she use you to get preggers?
I know this is a bait thread. But if it was true, I would tell you to tell her husband, but then you would be fucked, bcs you would have to either marry a 35 year old roastie that is already full of wrinkles and in a few years will become barren, or you will have to pay pension for 3 fucking kids you didn't plan to have. I hope that you're not black and both of them are white, otherwise you're fucked.
>>34542198>If this is true: it's a high risk pregnancy. Triplets are always high riskShe can do a cesarian nowadays, not really risky.
>>34542198I think her plan is to pull the wool over his eyes, which will be difficult because she's already nine weeks and has gotten her first ultrasound obviously. I don't feel good about it morally but as >>34542199said, I'd be fucked if word actually got out. And yes we're all white which is good I guess. Here's the good news: I have a really good remote job that she doesn't know about. 120k/year with a lot of travel. We met at the bar that I have been bartending at part time since college. I kept it up even after I got a job just because I could, as far as she knows that's all I do, which gives me an open door to move across the country and change my name. Don't know how I could pull it off though, and getting tracked down 20 years later when I have a loving family seems like a nightmare.
You better fucking pray nobody does an ancestry test.
>>34542233You're officially in a mess. On a moral level she should tell the husband the truth. But it sounds like she's not going to if she doesn't have to. Kids finding you later probably wouldn't be the biggest issue. I'd be more worried about the husband going crazy if he finds out.
Almost as unbelievable as the late night radio talk show I heard where some guy supposedly was banging his girlfriend, her younger sister, and the mom all at the same time. Just like my japanese animes!
>>34542152Are you black? If so you can just leave. If not, you might be fucked.
She indeed probably used you to get pregnant, having triplets is incredibly suspiciousYou didn't really do anything wrong as you didn't know she was married, so I'd just send a letter to warn her husbandSimilar thing happened in our neighbourhood: they divorced and I don't think she ever named the guy she cheated with, so he wasn't hurt in any way
>>34542152Make sure the cuckold doesn't find out that you impregnated her. You should probably not meet the woman much anymore.
>>34542199Awful advice. Keep the lie up. These things OP brought up happen way more often than people realize.Also in sparta getting a younger stronger male to impregnate your wife was encouraged and even required often.
>>34543059>In SpartaThey also sucked each other off on Sparta. You gonna suck dick then?
>>34542152See a lawyer. Sign a contract giving up your paternal rights and her giving up any claim for support. Walk away.
>>34542152If you dont want troubles, find ASAP a lawyer and sign some paper in which you denounce any paternity duties on any kids that woman will have, in the case she will try to trap you as a provider in the high likelihood she will be outer as a cheater and subject of a fault divorce. She probably guessed her husband was the sterile one, but didnt want to divorce and so looked for a clueless sperm donor. She frauded you as much as she frauded her husbandIf you are also a moral man, you should also report the poor husband that hes married to a whore, and offer to do a paternity test in case she will deny the affair