>27>bottom of the barrel loser in every area of life>just diagnosed with ADHD, AvPD, and PDD (dysthymia)Give it to me straight.Is it too late for me?Or can I still turn this around?
>>34542931If you think it is too late it is. Work will set you free.
>>34542958I want to give it a shot, but I'm not sure that I'll ever get where I want to be in life.
>>34543013I mean if you think of it less about potential failure and more about improving your character from trying your best no matter the outcome versus doing nothing than that fear won't matter to you at all. >t. blew up my life out of ego and have years of toil ahead to fix my mess despite having everything handed to me
I was diagnosed with AvPD as well and I'm still a virgin recluse with 0 social life and nothing going on at 34
I won’t read laundry list of woes threads. Read the archive or get to the point quicker
>>34543338Unfortunately, I feel like that's going to be my fate as well...
i'm "diagnosed" with "adhd" and "avpd" as well. i turned it around at 28. are you going to let arbitrary labels that only describe how we fit into society, ie how we are convenient to "normal" people, dictate your life or are you going to take control over your own situation? let a diagnosis be an explanation for why you are where you're at, not a defining factor in how you can be. your life is yours. you're not helpless. if you believe you can't be where you want to be you won't get there. if you believe you can, you will. because why shouldn't you? your brain tricks you into thinking you're worse or less capable than other people so it's easier for you to not even try. but trying and doing is the only thing that's going to get you anywhere
