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She wants to hang out, she wants to go to bars with me, she wants to watch TV series with me, she wants to cuddle with me, she wants to have sex with me, she wants to meet my parents, she wants to kiss all the time, she wants me to tell her about what's bothering me, she wants us to be exclusive, but she doesn't want to be my gf.
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try mushrooms
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>>34544514
>she wants use to be exclusive but she doesn't want to be my gf.
???
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>>34544531
she gets jealous when I talk to other girls
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Translating:

She wants to fuck other people
She doesn't want to see you fucking other people

You should give zero fucks about her, keep fucking other people while you have her as a side piece.
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>>34544514
Okay, so you're dating someone exclusively and she just won't use labels because she's retarded. What exactly is your problem?
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>>34544569
she doesn't. she literally refuses to hang out with her friends if she has the chance of being with me instead. once she even joked about having kids with me. BRO JUST MAKE UP YOUR MIND!!!
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>>34544573
I want a gf. People will start thinking I'm a cuck and a loser if I don't
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>>34544577
Alright, then it's this one here >>34544573

I don't know man. She may have had some traumatic experiences with exes, or she is using this so in the case she cheats she says it wasn't a real relationship and yada yada yada. I can't know for sure with the info we have. But I am between one of these two hypothesis.
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>>34544594
what more information do you want? she has no trauma as far as I'm aware
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>>34544601
>what more information do you want? she has no trauma as far as I'm aware
So how are you so sure she is being loyal and exclusive as much as you are? How are you sure she has no trauma? Have you asked her if she has any trauma or toxic exes?
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>>34544612
she doesn't owe me loyalty. she doesn't have to pretend because I don't care. she's the one insisting on this. she has no previous bfs
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>>34544619
>she doesn't have to pretend because I don't care
>she's the one insisting on this
I don't understand, do you or do you not want to be her bf? Could she be ashamed of being seen with you? Are her parents strict? Are you from the same ethnicity?
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>>34544635
I do. No. Her parents died. yes.
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>>34544645
>No
Then why make this thread? You don't want to be her boyfriend, then you don't accept being exclusive. But you'll have to accept that she will fuck other guys, possibly black guys, and that you could get an illness. Good luck though.
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>>34544663
retard. no to the second question. I do want to be her bf
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>>34544669
>no to the second question. I do want to be her bf
I thought your "I do" was for my "I don't understand"

>retard.
No, you!

>I do want to be her bf
Are you sure she is not ashamed of you? Has she presented you to her friends? Has she posted pictures in her social media with you? She is definitely hiding something. For how long have you been going out? You said she did not had any relationships before, did she had any other sexual partners?
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>>34544676
yes, she presents me to everyone and talks about me all the time, we've been intimate for 8 years bro
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>>34544577
get her pregnant that's usually what settles a wild filly like this down
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>>34544762
I don't want to raise children with a girl who won't commit bro
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>>34544583
Ah, so you are also retarded and obsessed with what others think rather than enjoying your own life. I believe I am starting to see the issue here
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>>34544696
>we've been intimate for 8 years bro
WHAT THE FUCK! Just.... WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK. Now I understand why you made the thread. This is not normal, she probably doesn't want to commit and definitely has some trauma, not necessarily related to toxic exes, but from other parts of her life that spilled to the love sphere.


>>34544771
>I don't want to raise children with a girl who won't commit bro
You're right, don't follow that stupid advice.

My advice is: run, berry, run.

Just kidding, have you asked her to be her boyfriend formally with a ring and everything? Maybe she is waiting for a formallity.
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>>34544793
I like her. I won't run. But if she gets scared of just talking about it, giving her a ring would be worse
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She doesn't want to hang out, she doesn't want to go to bars with me, she doesn't want to watch TV series with me, she doesn't want to cuddle with me, she doesn't want to have sex with me, she doesn't want to meet my parents, she wants to kiss all the time, she wants me to tell her about what's bothering me, she doesn't want us to be exclusive, but she does want to be my gf.
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>>34544514
>but she doesn't want to be my gf.
She already is your gf you faggot. You're supposed to treat a girl as if she's already your gf even at the beginning.
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>>34544826
you fucked up two of the things
>>34544827
My parents berate me when I spend money and invite her to holidays though. I want her to stop acting retarded
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>>34544514
You should probably fuck other girls right in front of her to prove a point.
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>>34544860
what point?
she has more libido than me, I don't really need to
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>>34544866
That she can't get commitment if she's not gf.
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>>34544870
this site is worse than reddit omg
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>>34544877
This is the advice board, not the good advice board.
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>>34544879
where's the good advice board at? I tried going to >>>/gadv/ but I got a 404 error
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>>34544514
Thanks OP. I will screenshot your thread and show it to my parents when they ask why I hate women and won't give them grandchildren. Finally I have ammunition on the femoids
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>>34544822
>giving her a ring would be worse
It wouldn't. You are acting like a pusy. She is waiting formality.

>>34546518
>where's the good advice board at? I tried going to >>>/gadv/ but I got a 404 error
Well, it's not accessible for you because you're not chosen, buddy, sorry. It's only reserved for the cream of the crop of this website.



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