Menbros, am I heading into disaster courting women with a stronger personality than me? It's just so easy. I'm generally a chill guy and also a coward so I naturally attract strong women who apparently want a guy on the softer side. I've never gone all the way but it feels so tempting. Am I just setting myself to be a cuck in the future?
bad idea
>>34546909Introvert with extravert is a good match. If that's what you mean.
>>34546909I’m on the same page as you in the sense that I prefer a woman I admire and see as superior to me, cuz I have a very strong submissive side and find fulfillment in pleasing and serving someone above me… And personally, I don’t go for super extroverted women because they require a personality with a bit more assertiveness, plus they put themselves out there a lot, which creates insecurity, and in that case, you really have a high chance of getting cuckolded.What I look for in a partner is mainly the girl’s intelligence and capabilities. I see someone smarter than me as being above me, and I feel comfortable engaging with her... plus, girls like that are usually more reserved, which is good because you will never fell insecure with a computer nerdy girl that never leaves her room.
>>34546909Only if you select a bad one.I have the same preference for women, mostly because I've found all women want what they want, but only the confident ones actually have the good grace to tell you what that is.As such, I am strongly attracted to quietly confident women, and cannot be arsed with quivering little waifs that will silently hate me for picking the wrong dinner spot, instead of just spitting out the fact they want pizza.
>>34546909Yes.
>>34546909It's an ugly thing to see IRL, kinda the same way two men holding hands is repulsive. You're not just going to get cuckolded, you will undergo a process of emotional and mental destabilization so damaging you may never recover. It may start out with her dominating the conversations and social outings, but slowly grow into resentment and character attacks. Women can be abusive in ways you have not seen.
Well it depends. Assuming you are seeing one of these women, or if not, consider women like that you have previously dated:How does she react if she asks you to do something, or wants something from you, and you say no?If you have a disagreement over something important, like a financial decision that has to be made, and you can't compromise, who gets the final say? Does she always get her way in the end?Is your relationship reciprocal? Do you feel you are both investing significantly into it? For example:Does she expect you to stop whatever you are doing at the moment at the drop of a hat, even if what you are doing is important, to attend a trivial need of hers? And if you need her help for something important, will she refuse, even if she isn't doing anything important herself?Do you feel that she respects you?Does she belittle you in front of other people, or online? Do you suspect she sees you as a walking wallet?On the danger of being cucked:How does she act around other men in public settings? Is she friendlier and more flirty with other men than she is with you? Does she give them more attention and talk with them more than she does with you? Does she go out clubbing by herself, or does she say she's going out with 'the girls', but you never see them picking her up or dropping her off? Does she go away on business trips with a male co-worker or her male boss? Is she close to any of her exes, and goes to see them without you? Does she compare you with her previous partners? Does she mention them being taller, earning more money, having a bigger dick, being better in bed?Are there things she has done with her previous partners that she refuses to do with you? Did she make you wait a long time before being intimate with her, but fucked other guys as soon as she met them? Does she complain about you being bad in bed, while making no effort herself? Does she get other people, your and her mothers and sisters, her best friend, to gang up against you?
