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>Men i actually like dont approach me or just want to cum and dump
>Get approached only by men i am neutral with or that just outright repulses me

This is my entire dating history and its making me insane.
How do i fix this shit?!? Please i will accept any tip. I Just want to love and be loved in return. It is too much for a girl to ask??
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Meet more men.
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>>34547028
Are you bisexual
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>woman only wants what she can't have and doesn't want what she can have
Holy freaking cr*p are you serious????????????
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>>34547028
>I just want to love and be loved in return
>>Get approached only by men i am neutral with or that just outright repulses me
lel this cope
No. You don't want love. You want prince charming to battle a dragon to save you. He also has an 18 inch cock, 12 pack abs, is 8 foot tall, makes $10,000,000 a day. I bet you get approached by plenty of men who have the ability to love you and make you feel loved. You just filter them by the dozens because you think you're a Disney princess. You're not special. Realize this, become humble and maybe you won't need to freeze your eggs.
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>>34547028
You attract what reflects your personality. You have have unrealistic expectations of what you deserve. Sound like to me you are a classic cum dumpster with zero value to offer any rationale man. Good luck seeking Mr.Perfecto that doesn't exist
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Go talk to this guy
>>34547077
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>>34547028
>How do i fix this shit?!?
Yor dating above your level. It's impossible to fix now that you are a roastie. You lost the ability to bond.
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>>34547137
>Yor
You're*

My keyboard is broken
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>>34547028
Hey im the male equivalent to you,i dont really have any tips since as a woman you want to go for a smaller percentage of people than i would. I just want a woman who isnt fat and isnt a bitch a majority of the time.

Such is life. We cant have what everyone else wants unless you are exceptional.
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It's funny that while this is bait because there are no women here if there were any they'd make the exact same post.
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>>34547037
>>34547042
>>34547120
>>34547137
>>34547174
I asked for advice, not for incels whining. We are in the same boat (you want sex, i want love, both cant get what we truly want)
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>>34547247
Try being lovable?
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>>34547028
>>34547029
Take this advice and stop dwelling on men who have used or rejected you.
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>>34547247
Have love.
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>>34547247
>you want sex, i want love, both cant get what we truly want
I don't want sex, I want love as well. But women can't give me that, because they don't love anyone but themselves and maybe Chad.
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>>34547283
How about with me *smacks lips* *shakes penis in his pants*
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>>34547247
>emcel coping because she'll never be wanted
Lol get to freezing those eggs!
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>>34547247
tell me where it hurts baby
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>>34547028
Age and how big the tits
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>>34547028
Maybe approach the men you like?
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The penis is men's antenna for happiness, sis
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>>34547028
Why don't you approach the men that you do like?
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>>34547028
Don't begin relationships with sex.
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>>34547028
If you simply wanted to love and be loved in return then the latter option wouldn't be so intolerable.
The truth is you have a standard you want met. Nothing wrong with that. It's normal to be selective. I cannot say whether or not your criteria is unrealistic, I don't know enough about you or your potential suitors to make that assessment. I can say that you are clearly looking for something in specific (regardless of whether or not you are consciously aware) and should drop the "love and be loved" conviction as it is dishonest.

I think for now you should focus on the common thread connecting the dudes you wish would approach you. What about then do you like? Have you met them before you developed interest or are they practically strangers? Are they particularly handsome? Have you shared words with eachother? Good chemistry?

How does this all contrast with the men you are disinterested in?
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>>34547284
>How about with me *smacks lips* *shakes penis in his pants*
*puts hands on shoulders* Brother, at this point, I think love filed a restraining order against both of us
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I'm not gonna lie, role playing is hot af, lol
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>>34547028
What are your stats? Your stats matter for men wanting to attach their identity to you. Men have really low bars for casual sex though.
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>>34547247
>You disgusting incels only want sex and nothing else!!!

I'm sorry, but this is one of the many reasons to why you're single and why you're such a fucking retarded bitch.
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>>34548007
Them*
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>>34547247
Do not insult people who you are asking advice from. YWNBAW.
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>>34547028
you're the female version of a incel. men are the gatekeepers of relationships. you cant meet man you want a relationship with that wants one with you. its time for you to settle with a man on your level. that or you can die lonely and alone.
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>femcel
>still fucks and has dates
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ius that you in the image??#boyoyoing!
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>>34547028
>Men i actually like dont approach me or just want to cum and dump
Yes. You don't match up to their standards. So they put you into the "recreational" category. They'll bang you when they've got nothing better going on at the moment.
> Get approached only by men i am neutral with or that just outright repulses me
These are the guys whose standards you do meet. They are probably pretty close to you in relative smv.
> How do i fix this shit?!?
The real problem is in your head. You think you're more attractive than you really are.
> I Just want to love and be loved in return.
You said the opposite of this just five sentences ago.
> It is too much for a girl to ask??
It is.
You are not owed a "good" man. You are not owed a relationship. You are not owed love. You are not owed a family, or children. Nobody owes you these things. You are not entitled to them, you don't deserve them.
If you want them, you have to work for them. You'll have to put in the effort to be attractive to the kind of men that you are interested in. That probably goes beyond looks.
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>>34547247
men don't owe you love, entitled creep
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>>34547028
Nah I don't date women who feel the need to be a main character.
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>>34547275
Severely underrated reply
11/10
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>>34548318
What this Anon is saying.
What he didn't mention is that you should improve yourself, if you are chubby lose some weight, learn skills that will make you desirable by future partners, improve your personality, fix your wardrobe. Basically if only thing you can offer is just your body, hot guys will just pump and dump you, less hot guys will try to pump and dump you, and ugly guys will try to get into a relationship with you.
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>>34547028
You are ugly or mid so invisible to most decent men.
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>>34547028
Accept that you're substandard to your competition, and either increase your value or lower your standards.
You're not playing in a league you can win at your current Elo
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>>34547028
Good tip I heard was dress like the person you want, if you want a preppy guy, dress preppy, if you want an alt guy, dress alt, etc.
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>>34547028
You probably aim higher than who you are, that's why you attract all of this low level men.

Other men that want to love and care for you are probably either incapable of finding you because you lurk in places where they're few (i.e. 4cuck) or you just aren't attractive to them. For example if you go out in provocative clothes, or only interested in stupid shit, you'd attract the fishes you drop their bait. This idea that by showing your body, or only having it as a value, will somehow attract your white knight, is foolish. Show attributes that a man seeking a wife and a mother for his children will want, and you'd get one. Show attributes that a man seeking a cum dump will want, and you'd get one. And to the other point, don't lurk where retards lurk, because even if you are a nun there's enough retarded men out there that have more blood go to their penises than their minds. You better get out of social media, or dating apps (the worst), and lurk in good places and good communities IRL, and have high value attributes, and you'd easily find that kind of man, as that kind of women is more valuable than anything to any decent man.

Just a be a flower, and you would attract butterflies, be a turd, and you would attract flies.

Good luck anona, don't listen to incels here, I only come here for the keks and to shitpost, and sometimes to advice others. Maybe get out of 4chan? that will be a good start, but like we all know, (YOU) are here forever, kek.
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>>34548828
so much this
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>>34547028
Any man who approaches you will not meet your standards, and that is an inevitable result of your attitudes towards men.
I'm sorry the world lied to you and told you everyone was the same underneath. That's simply not true. Men and women are different, and it's better to accept this than to constantly disappoint yourself by expecting men to be just like women, which they are not.
You've internalized a lot of negative stereotypes about men, probably from movies and angry roasties on reddit. I would suggest trying to unlearn these and avoiding social media echo chambers. What other women say is a reflection of their frustration from their inability to overcome the same issues you yourself present with, and exposing yourself to that will only exacerbate your issues.
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>>34549431
I forgot to add.
When listening to someone, ask yourself: Is this person happy? If not, then why do I think I'll be any happier by following/believing what they say?
Social media echo chambers have become such a huge problem for women's mental health over the last decade, because they take each other's 'side' as a reaction to perceived hostility instead of asking themselves if what the other woman is saying is going to be a healthy influence on them.
There are a lot of miserable women out there, and misery loves company.
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>>34547028
Trap the rich and handsome men. It’s an age old strategy for a reason.
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>>34547275
>>34548828
absolute kino replies holy shit
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>>34547247
dog YOU are the incel whining,coddling you wont change anything you need to step up and become good enough for the men you like or settle you bum



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