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I had a girl I used to fuck with, she was fun and a bit of a partier. We hooked up for months and got into a bit of a weird situation. A couple months back she asked me “what are we?” And I just kinda dodged the question, I didn’t want to call her my girlfriend, but also I didn’t want to tell her nothing and have her hook up with other guys. Fast forward a few weeks and she calls me, asks me again and when I avoid the question she says it’s alright and I forget about it. She ends up going to Korea for about three months with her friend, occasionally calling to check up on me. She’s having fun doing whatever, she went clubbing a couple weeks in and lost her phone so we’re no contact for about two months. It gives me time to think and I’m thinking maybe I should start taking her seriously when she gets back.
About two months later she gets back and is almost ignoring me, she’s pregnant now and with a guy she met in Korea, come to find out that the night she lost her phone, he helped her get a taxi home and had been helping her and her friend out the entire time, this loser came in and started taking care of her, but I don’t like him. He seems weird about her having guy friends and her male coworkers, he’s very jealous and makes her cover up. He also likes taking up her time, they’ll spend hours on the phone, when he comes to the US, she’s only hanging out with him and a few other friends.

I think she needs help out of the situation, he definitely baby trapped her or something, it’s like she’s changed completely. she needs to get an abortion too, but whenever I tell her she has options, she brushes me off.
What do I do? Is there a way I can get her to get rid of the child and leave the guy or just leave the guy?
I know this situation is definitely weird and not good for her
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Just move on, you're being the biggest cuck I ever seen.
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>>34547092
>she needs to get an abortion too
According to who? You? You're a fucking cuck with a tiny cock that got cucked by a Korean, they have one of the tiniest cocks in Asia, only after Jeets I think, and then you want to kill her kid, lolololol
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>>34547092
>he definitely baby trapped her or something
I hope you're joking. For a man to impregnate a woman he has to fuck her raw and creampie her, multiple times.
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>>34547092
>refuses to commit to a relationship despite clearly wanting this girl around
>girl finds another man who is willing to admit interest and stay with her
>"this guy is clearly the problem and she should get an abortion and stick with me in a nebulous nothing situationship"
You're scum and deserve every bad thing that happens to you.
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>>34547130
bruh.. if literally only takes once
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>>34547220
I'd say it nicer, but pretty much this OP. Hope the Korean doesn't beat her ass tho
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>>34547220
>I'm willing to commit to her now and once she leaves her "boyfriend"
>the guy definitely has other motives in mind esp with keeping her away from me
>he's not even her type and she probably doesn't want to leave him since she's pregnant
>also, she told me in hs that she wants to be childfree for life/until her late 20's (she just turned 20 and the guy is 25)
i'm not doing anything wrong, the guy is coming into her life and ruining it
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>>34547463
I think you had your chance, and you should let her make her own decisions. You had months.
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>>34547235
>bruh.. if literally only takes once
Well, it takes two to tango
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>>34547092
>how dare she finds another man after I didn't reciprocate her feelings when she asked me twice!
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>>34547463
Nigga you refused TWICE when you had the chance. People aren't going to give you an infinite number of tries or opportunities so you can keep making a fool out of them, it's not a video game where you can just try again and again lol. He creampied her little pussy and got her pregnant, you missed your chance, get over it.
It's over, you lost, go find another girl to fool
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>>34547463
>>34547463
>he's not even her type and she probably doesn't want to leave him since she's pregnant
And you know her exact type? You know for certain she wouldn't be interested in a guys like him? She fucked him, anon. He must be her type.

>also, she told me in hs that she wants to be childfree for life/until her late 20's (she just turned 20 and the guy is 25)
Alot can happen in a few years. Women can very suddenly be open to the idea of having children. Nearly every woman I know who has a kid now said they didn't want kids in high-school.
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>>34547112
Is that really what you got from that? OP seems more like a narcissist than a cuck to me. Definitely a serious incident waiting to happen, but it's not surprising given the girl likely surrounds herself with douchebags (both OP and the new guy).
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>>34547092
You had your chance (TWO chances even!) and you blew it. Now all you can do is wait and see if they ever break up, or if he dies. You could be waiting a long time, which could probably be better spent pursuing other women. Consider also that if she does become single again, do you want to be raising that other dude's child? Also, depending on how old she is when/if she is single again, you might not be able to have any children of your own with her (if you want kids). Move on. Forget about her. Find someone else.
DON'T try to sabotage their relationship
DON'T try to convince her to have an abortion
DON'T attempt to induce an abortion
And most importantly,
DON'T TRY TO MURDER HER PARTNER!
Or, what do I know. Ignore my advice and we'll see you in the news
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>>34552212
Ditto. It is guys like OP that kill women and you can bet had she become pregnant with OPs child he would ghost her at best and murder her at worst.



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