About five years ago my cousin had a wedding in France. She did not invite me. She invited my dad and his girlfriend, and probably my little sister.Years later, another cousin (the previously mentioned cousin's brother) had a wedding in Ireland. He invited my dad and his girlfriend, and probably my little sister. My little sister does not talk to me (which looks fucking fantastic when people know your little sister won't talk to you) so I do not know for sure if she was invited.This pattern might be continuing, as some relatives have mentioned another cousin is getting married in September - idk how they would know if they were not invited.What the fuck am I supposed to do? I actually do not want to go to this upcoming wedding because I dislike that cousin. But the two I mentioned - it really made me said that I was not invited. I tried asking both of them why I was not invited, and got no response.
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>>34547255>What the fuck am I supposed to do?Cut them off from your life, they picked your sister's side, including your parents. But don't do it if this will make you miserable and sad.
You should ask your dad and/or sister what the deal is.
>>34547287My dad acts like he got offended when I ask questions like this. My sister does not respond. (I don't even know her number.)
>>34547295>My dad acts like he got offended when I ask questions like thisWhy don't you talk to your sister? Did you do something to her? Something is off here
>>34547255Why exactly are you estranged from your family? Are you British by any chance?
>>34547286The male cousin talked to me a lot after my little brother killed himself. The female cousin did not talk to me or said some bullshit like "I just know something good is coming your way!"So I keep the male cousin. I said some shit to her about her baby looking Asian and asked if she fucked a Yakuza. I told her to go on birth control and get her cunt filled with her husband's cum so the next one does not turn out like that. I translated this to French and sent it to her. She ignored me before that, and ignored me after that.I do talk to my parents because I can't bear to have none of my family to talk to, along with no friends to talk to. My two high school best friends got married without inviting me, and they don't respond much.
>>34547304I told her when our brother killed himself. I might have said some rude shit too, I was losing my mind. My uncle said to write a letter to her, so I did, apologizing about that. Still no response. For all I know she posted the letter on instagram.
You should cut them off. I’ve noticed recently more and more families from first world countries cutting off their children because they didn’t meet expectations. This usually happens in Asia and thirdie countries but it’s happening in the west because of the shit economy. Also boomers, Gen X, and millennials and phenomenally horrible parents. People like us need to separate ourselves from the world because I will give it 10 years before the world starts literally coming after us
>>34547310Nope. Irish.
>>34547312>For all I know she posted the letter on instagram.Your letter or your brother's suicide letter for engagement?
>>34547311> I said some shit to her about her baby looking Asian and asked if she fucked a Yakuza. I told her to go on birth control and get her cunt filled with her husband's cum so the next one does not turn out like thatBy reading this, I'm starting to think the problem is (you)
>>34547316My letter to her apologizing about how I broke the news to her. She had two friends next to her, sitting on her bed, so maybe she felt embarrassed. I felt the need to make sure she knew what happened.
>>34547319After she didn't invite me to her wedding, and wouldn't even talk to me, I decided to be rude to her. When I was nice, she ignored me and did not invite me to her wedding. So if you are going to do that to my good side, then I show you my bad side.
>>34547319She also made fun of my brother behind his back, when he was alive.
>>34547325I think she was still well within her rights to want nothing to do with you after you said that about her kid.I didn’t wanna simply answer this thread with “this is happening because you’re a frogposter” but, like…
>>34547416Well yea it makes sense for her to not talk to me after that. Before that though, it made me feel ignored. I still feel ignored but feel better that I got back at her for it.
>>34547416> I think she was still well within her rights to want nothing to do with you after you said that about her kid.And before that?
>>34547255Why do you even want to go there in the first place? Wedding events are horrible.
>>34547311>I said some shit to her about her baby looking Asian and asked if she fucked a Yakuza. I told her to go on birth control and get her cunt filled with her husband's cum so the next one does not turn out like that.Wait, did you tell this to your male cousin's wife, your female cousin or your sister?In any case, I suspect the issue isn't just you saying that particular thing, rather, that you saying that was the last straw.
