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How do i stop feeling resentment towards women for having such easy and privileged lives?
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they have easy and privileged lives but they could also be easily killed in an instant by an angry man socking them in the face
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>>34547341
But they almost universally have easy and privileged lives while almost universally facing no such repercussions because a man socking them in the face is in exchange for his life and that's never worth it. They know that and it just emboldens them. It's not a balanced trade.
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Well that's a redhead woman. It's the inverse for redhead men. They are almost always portrayed as evil or gay.
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>>34547337
>having such easy and privileged lives?
Try meeting a woman and speaking to her. If you genuinely think this then you have little to no meaningful engagement with reality. Your perception of real life is based on memes.
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>>34547379
you will never be a woman and will likely join the 41% army
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>>34547337
the level of ease and comfort has to do with social skills. socially skilled men have mostly frictionless interaction with the world too.
life isn't so easy when you're a socially retarded woman.
other women become extremely hostile and middle aged women especially hate you for absolutely no reason.
men tend to run away from you as soon as you open your mouth, they don't even try to pump and dump you because it's hard work to follow your train of thought and understand your behavior, often forgetting they're speaking to a woman.
you often fall prey to malicious female friends because nobody warns you about them and it's all hush-hush and when they bully you nobody does shit because they always use subtle tactics.
living kinda sucks and the grass is always greener on the other side.
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>>34547337
get a hobby play a video game, just forget about it man
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>>34547369
Redheaded men only think this when they don't live around black women. Go to Memphis, black women will throw themselves at you, you don't even need to have a job
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>>34547337
Realize that happiness only comes from wisdom, and that women are almost never wise. Spoiled children have easy lives too, but that doesn't mean they have good lives. The more spoiled a person is, the more upset they get at the smallest disturbance. Ask yourself genuinely, how many women have you seen who are calm, patient, at peace, serene, easygoing and gentle towards others? Almost none, right? Well those are all the indications of a happy and well lived life, so if women were happy they would have those qualities. But they don't, which means they aren't.
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>>34547337
They don't. You're monitoring the hot ones who have the freedom and time to post online. You're being fed the worst examples of women the world has to offer while others are enduring the same numbing toil and mistreatment we all are out of sight. Get outside your bubble
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>>34547337
Just know that you will never be as much of a sub-human as the white foid. It doesn't matter how privileged you think they are, it's just other cumskins being nice to help her not realize how much of a sub-human she is. White foids literally needed DEI to stand a chance in the workforce because of how incompetent and overall retarded they are. You likely do not need such a thing. Take pride in being a fucking man and not a degenerate foid. If it's really too much to bear, go the Elliot Rogers route.
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women have to shave their bodies and wear makeup to adhere to arbitrary cultural norms, in a lot of cases they cannot get jobs unless they're sexy enough,
women still aren't paid as much as men are for a lot of the exact same jobs,
women menstruate, which is not only messy and disgusting, but also incredibly physically and psychologically painful,
women are frequently killed by boyfriends and husbands,
1 in 5 women are raped (not sexually harassed, full-blown raped),
women don't receive the same respect as men in hospitals and are sometimes even given antipsychotics instead of painkillers when suffering from the same problems as men who receive morphine (my mom had appendicitis and the doctors told her she was overreacting until they gave her a CT scan), often women don't receive morphine at all despite requiring about 30% more morphine to feel the same effects of morphine as males,
women are the primary victims of human trafficking,
women are viewed as inherently lesser than men in judaism, christianity, islam, buddhism, hinduism, and most folk religions, and so are systemically oppressed and denied the same rights as men, if not by the government, by the individuals who comprise the majority of the cultures they're living in.
I might be wrong but I believe it wasn't until the 17th century that any nation begun to allow women to vote in elections. sure, we're living in the 21st century now, but don't you think culture might be playing catchup in a few ways if civilization has existed for over 6000 years and women were only viewed as human enough to be allowed to vote within the last 400 years?
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>>34547648
>Umm.. akshully...
Interpersonal violence isn't a leading cause of death for either gender in the United States. and men are significantly more likely to be murdered overall.
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>>34547337
you don't, you take all that anger out during sex by fucking them hard and slapping them. the kicker? they get off on that too. women are designed to never feel bad.
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>>34547337
you say that but they always talk to me friday afternoon so they can come to my place to suck me dry and drink my piss to have money to party later
it's not as easy as it looks, they just don't show it
a lot of them have kids too so they have to be a mom half the time, a slut half the time, fight with her mom who stays at home taking care of her grandkid all the time.
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>>34547537
>go to memphis
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>>34547337
By understanding that when you say
>such easy and privileged lives
you mean
>an easier time finding someone that wants to have sex with them.
They are subject to most of the same trials besides, with the additional mutator that if they're ugly or dysgenic they are also assumed to be incompetent.
Do you think your mother has lived an easy and privileged life, out of interest?
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>>34547337
Can stop by realizing they have to put up with all sorts of weirdos mad at them for things they didn’t do, or for not talking to someone they don’t know the way the think they “deserve”
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>>34549348
What trials? Everything hard in life, like getting a good career or being charismatic is done by men with the goal to get laid
What reason do women have to do these things?

>>34549354
>People are mad at me
And you care because?
Is this really the extend of women's "problems"?
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>>34549585
>What trials? Everything hard in life, like getting a good career or being charismatic is done by men with the goal to get laid
I don't really know what to say to this desu.
What was your foreign policy?
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>>34547337
If you had any real problems, something like this wouldn't cross your mind.
You may still end up thinking women are bitches or disloyal or whatever, but you wouldn't have this insanely faggy princess complex.

Go outside and get a life.
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>>34549585
Why are you jealous of women's happiness when you don't even know what happiness is?
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>>34549585
Legit serious question, what type or retarded are you?
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>>34549638
>>34549655
So mad at me you double posted
alright then, who else are you trying to impress with your career and your social skills?
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>>34547341
>they have easy and privileged lives but they could also be easily killed in an instant by an angry man socking them in the face
Are you implying men don't die from being knocked in the head all the time?
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>>34547337
I know multiple women whove had mental breakdowns.
I Know a few women who have very hard lives (ugly).

Overall I get where youre coming from, but your beliefs are like a childs.
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you cant do anything about it so dont think about it
besides, its the only time in human history where this is true
in few years, liberalism will die and islam will take over and we'll be back to status quo where women are slaves of men forever
africa, india, islamic countries are the only ones growing and women there are all essentially pets for men - as demographics change it's all going to go back to medival times, we're just born in this shitty generation thats too late and too early to have decent lives
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>>34549673
I only posted once. I don't have a career or social skills. I live like a monk and spend all day either reading, praying or taking care of my home. I'm happy because I've learned how to live in stillness, which is something that practically no woman who isn't a nun knows how to do. If women had happy lives they wouldn't be neurotic, obsessive and irrational. You just need to learn what actual happiness is, and then you'll cease to be jealous because you'll realize how rare happiness actually is. It's a treasure that only belongs to the wise.
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>>34547537
> black women
Come on anon, you know that's the lowest tier of women.
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>>34549792
It's not really. The problem is the poverty, someone who is detached from all of that would be great.
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>>34549781
I used to be like that in my 20s, but now i realize i was just running away from my problems and am filled with existential dread about having thrown away my youth, this will also happen to you btw
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>>34549803
I don't have any problems to run away from, and my youth is already long gone. I can't imagine a better way of life, I'm thankful every day that my path brought me to a life of contemplation and self discovery. I think it's likely that you were just ruminating, and not meditating. No one who truly meditates ever ends up with dread or anxiety.
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>>34547337
Does the carpet match the curtains?
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>>34547337
My lust died the second I wrote the average feminine nature on paper and stratified it according to its moral nature. I am now convinced that the only thing you are supposed to do as a soul and as a man is to wrestle your own flesh into submission, find God and develop a prosperous and altruistic relationship with our creator in order to escape this prison. 99% of women are half humans with no souls, everything they strive for and enjoy is ultimately evil in its nature. The very core of femininity is absolute evil that seeks to devour good men with the same glee and joy you'd get from stomping out some dorky kids sand castle.

Once I realized why women are the way they are, it's like I've finally been enlightened as to why hermit monks become hermits in the first place. It's all a lie, its all a joke. This planet is a prison, women are archons who genuinely don't give a fuck about anything but they have to pretend to have interests beyond themselves just so men don't become suspicious and notice the huge disparity in the nature of each gender. It's not a complimentary nature, it's completely one-sided and parasitic. The entire role of women is to entrap a mans life force and pull another soul into this false reality incarnation trap. That's all they were designed to do. Satan takes a hold of their hivemind vessels with comedic ease and no resistance. They are all beyond corrupt, they fall apart once a month and endure pain unless they fulfill their ill-natured task. There is nothing in this world worth striving for besides Gods love. There is absolutely NOTHING in this world that is worth your place in heaven.
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>>34547337

The same way you stop feeling resentment towards anything, you introspect, forgive, and move on. Become friends with women(people).
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>>34549835
Why don't you find out yourself?
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>>34549869
Ok, what does god have to offer that is better than getting laid
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>>34549886
Love. Truth. Happiness.
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>>34549795
There are groups of Asians who have experience with poverty. I would still rather the Asian woman.
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>>34547648
>women have to shave
So do men
>women still aren't paid as much as men are for a lot of the exact same jobs
They shouldn't be, because they don't do the same work even in the same job
>women menstruate, which is not only messy and disgusting, but also incredibly physically and psychologically painful
Good, at least they know what it's like to put up with women for a week every month
>women are frequently killed
No they're not
>1 in 5 women are raped
1 in 5 women claim to be raped. How many can actually prove it?
>women don't receive the same respect as men
Good, they shouldn't
>sometimes even given antipsychotics instead of painkillers
Have to treat their obvious psychosis before you really know how much pain they're in
>doctors told her she was overreacting until they gave her a CT scan
That's not a female problem
>women are the primary victims of human trafficking
They primarily put themselves in harms way
>women are viewed as inherently lesser than men
That's objectively correct
>oppressed and denied the same rights as men
They should be, because they're not equal. Unfortunately they're not in the West, they have endless special privileges I might be wrong but I believe it wasn't until the 17th century that any nation begun to allow women to vote in elections
Women shouldn't be allowed to vote. We've been speed running toward societal collapse ever since
>but don't you think culture might be playing catchup in a few ways if civilization has existed for over 6000 years and women were only viewed as human enough to be allowed to vote within the last 400 years?
Not if it thought about it rationally for two seconds
>
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>>34547337
Women have the misfortune of leading bland meaningless lives we have the blessing of living hard but fulfilling lives.
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>>34549902
I'll take any race, I like them all.
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>>34547337
They're genuinely helpless retards without a man to guide them, it's a sad life
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>>34549894
Overrated, gets old quickly
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>>34549917
So are lots of men, nobody grants them any privileges
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>>34549911
A good looking woman can get a meaningful job, it's on them whether they find it fulfilling or not. Same applies to men.
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>>34549924
Anon, you do not need a job to find fulfilment. You need things like being well read and cultured and intellectually cultivated. You need to go on adventures like solo travelling and going to red light districts and getting in to sketchy situations and you could become a world class athlete or an inventor or an artist. These are all things not available to women.
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>>34547337
I know right it's so unfair! All women do is sit around and be pretty and pose for photographs that I fap to. That's literally all I see them do all day long! But I started taking estrogen, I'm saving up for feminization surgeries, so I have a plan at least.
I mean, if you can't beat 'em, join 'em, amirite?
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>>34549934
Try stop thinking about tranies for 30 seconds
After that, try one minute, then two
Try to work it up gradually and maybe one day you wont think about them at all
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>>34547337
Deep down, you get off on feeling resentful towards women, because it distracts from the resentment you feel towards men and how your daddy abandoned you and popular crowd of males ignore you and/or bully you.
Expressing resentment towards women on the internet brings you validation and a feeling of belonging. But if you talk about your real resentment: that your male peers reject you and always have and always will, you'll get laughed at if not punched in the face. Conflict between men and women is sexy. But conflict between men and yourself, that's when shit gets real, and you're too cowardly for reality.
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>>34549933
>getting into sketchy situations
>men should do this
Why, you want them to get sent where someone might rape them in the ass?

>an inventor or an artist
>not available to women
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>>34549919
You've never experienced them, if you think that. In reality, sex is what's overrated and loses its appeal the instant it's acquired.
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>>34547337
>>34549934
>>34549950
The incel-to-tranny pipeline is real. Just today I looked at a mens rights discord linked to by a men's rights subplebbit out of morbid curiosity; First thing to see was links to tranny and femboy discords, kek.
The future is female chuds.
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>>34549953
I dont think about men, they dont have anything to offer to me
Stop projecting your gay urges
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>>34547341
So can you. And you are more likely to, so there is not point to what you said.
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>>34549970
Of course you avoid thinking about men, because it reminds you of how inferior you feel when you are in a group of males. Imagine all the men in world enjoying their hobbies and comraderie together, helping each other get ahead in in their careers and being wingmen for each other. Playing sports, getting dressed up and going out to clubs and getting laid. You don't know what's like, it's not even a dream for you, so you pretend it doesn't exist. You know entering a male friend group means you're instantly getting roasted and being cemented as the bottom bitch of the group everyone else has fun clowning on, so you pretend having positive male friendships doesn't even exist.
Meanwhile in the delusional part of your conscious personality, you don't think men have anything to offer, but at the same time you feel entitled to women's attention and attraction.
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>>34549989
>Haha you have no social proof
so in the end its about women after all, gotcha
And me needing to do anything to be "entitled to a woman's attention and attraction" literally proves my point of women being privileged, when they just need to exist
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>>34549886
Do not reply to that guy. He is a schizo who keeps reposting the same shit whenever he gets the faintest wiff of a woman on here.
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You, you don’t, you stay bitter and alone. Which is better for society and women
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>>34550460
>Which is better for society and women
I should care because?
I will care about their problem once they care about mine
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>>34549691
>>34549971
I only have to sit down on you KWABs and a couple of your bones are broken
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>>34547337
I just don't understand this, are you gay or just a shitty person?

You fuck women, you dominate them, any feelings of resentment or hate should be resolved after this happens.

Also you could just go to prison and see how easy and privileged your life really is once it's taken away from you.
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>>34550008
Go to a gym and get that chip off your shoulder.
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>>34550571
Im already fit
Still not good enough for the modern day nobility, im not good enough of a jester for them i think
I will try to max out that stat as well by completely restructuring my personality, and then we'll see what else im missing after that
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>>34547337
Hey OP,
I got you fren, allow me to impart some hope to you. Hopefully by the time you finish reading my post you'll feel better.
I'm a professional women hater, have been for many years, so I know exactly what you're thinking.
I also have a gf that really loves me and wants me to breed her, and agrees with my views on women.

Here's the correct way to think about women ,life, and yourself.
1. Life sucks, think of it this way, women are crippled only in 1 leg, you are crippled in 2 legs. you are both suffering, you just suffer more at a certain age range until you turn 20-30.

2. not all women are beautiful, if you are an ugly woman you are far worse than an ugly man. and beony that, most women aren't as sexy and cute as the girl in the picture, most are average.

3. Women start with a big buff early on in life on avg if they are avg looking or beautiful, but this buff goes down as they turn 25-30 and ends at 40. meanwhile men start getting their buff at around 20-30 and only grow until forever, men are far cooler and more desirable by both men and women to hang out with.
Meanwhile women only suffer decline past 25, imagine thinking your best years are behind twice as worse compared to a man for most of your life, your beauty and youth gone.

4. life isn't just about sex and being pretty, the hobbies of guys and male companionship is more meaningful, powerful, interesting and fun compared to women companionship.

5. our mind are free to relax, think about life and problem without emotions attached to them, and have more control over our lives compared to women.

6. they are for real afraid of going outside in the dark. while we have little issue going for a walk or a jog at night, not fearing rape.

7. few want to have female friends including women, while everyone want to have guy friends.

8. your brain and body are build better to withstand life's hardships, you're smarter, stronger, faster, better analytical thinker and generally more easily pleased.
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con't

9. your comparison is wrong - You compare your life to a life of a beautiful sexy girl in her prime. compare instead a 30yo guy to a 30yo women, for women the sexual desireability age ends at 30, for you it never ends if you play your cards right.

10. women don't like guys for being beautiful.
true that some women do, but I know well below avg guys, even fat guys, who had good character and reputation with other males and thus were able to get a woman who looked better than they are. women are attracted to character so you can always make a comeback as a charismatic guy, even if you are fat, short, or ugly.
I've seen it work, it requires work, but that's something women can never have

11. you are never afraid of a woman physically, while for women they will always have that silent feeling they cannot win physically and are intimidated by any avg guy.

12. you got support from other men.
While women get support from women and society, women aren't as loyal to other women as guys are and many don't have friends like you do. they are miserable creates that are not taught how to make friends and be likeable because early in life they don't have to.

13. life isn't just online, media, and cherrypicking - you never hear the stories about miserable women who were just like you and got a shitty life thinking exactly what you do. many women are in the same spot as you are, they just want to meet a guy and are reasonable. you don't see them because they don't open youtube accounts or hang out online as much, they are just avg janes.
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con't - last part

14. women are followers, not leaders, they are instead looking for a leader - you. So you get the responsibility but also privilage and power to lead the relationship and both of your lifes and set the terms, not her, she is looking to follow you as a soldier, you are her general.
it's much better being a general than a soldier, but requires more responsibility.
were you a women you'd be at the mercy of your boyfriend who you'd push to lead you, but you feel like you'd have much less control in life.

15. you need better education and a perspective about your options as a man, you think the menu of life you are looking at is all there is, trust me, it's not all there is, not even close. avoid retards like andrew tate of faggot charisma teachers. i can only recommend to you Patrice Oneal that will teach you to put your happiness first, (RIP). there are just over 10 episodes that were made 15 years ago, listen to them, and get a better perspective about life and relationships.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LPq7CyHqQ2I&list=PLh8oUx_ONafXHhcA45m43A7eNGf9vIrpX

I've gotten so many good things that allow me to feel much more confident in my relationship, highly recommended.

Speaking truth is one of them. I was able to find a good woman who subscribes to my world view, and never had fear or trouble explaining myself or my view of women, moreover she agrees with me and find my world view sexy, honest and attractive because i'm not afraid of telling her the truth.
I can be honest, i can tell her i hate her when i feel that I hate her, I can cuss her where I feel she's being a cunt, I can tell her how disappointed I am when I am. I don't have to tell her "i love you" every time she tells me she loves me if i don't feel like it. she then knows that when I tell her I love her it's real.
we're both working towards getting married and having kids
hopefully this helped you see life isn't easy or perfect for women and made you appreciate your life more.
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>>34547337
Only the pretty ones are priviledged. That's why the stereotypical hardcore, misandrous feminists are all butt-fucking ugly.
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>>34550590
Maybe try being less of a shitty person then. Shit wrapped out with a pretty bow is still shit
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>>34550791
Shitty people get laid all the time
Also stop talking like you know me
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>>34547337
rape
you'll feel much better afterwards
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>>34547337
1) Women experience much more negative emotion (in psychological terms, 'neuroticism') than men. They have more difficulty enjoying their relative privileges as a result.

2) Women's lives get less privileged on average as they age (and become less attractive), whereas men get more privileged on average (as they accumulate wealth and status).

Given that, if you ask me, I'd rather experience hopefulness and a sense of purpose moving into the future, rather than an almost instant peak followed by ever-mounting hardships.

So rejoice! You were born a man.
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>>34550876
Probably the only way it’s possible
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>>34549965
>The future is female
It's not. There is no future that's female. Either we go back strictly controlling you stupid gashes or society will collapse in short order, and men will go back to kidnapping, raping and killing you for a time before we start it over and strictly control you stupid gashes.
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>>34550590
You are a violent and selfish male who should be locked up before the time comes where you end up attacking a woman.
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>>34550894
>Women's lives get less privileged on average as they age (and become less attractive), whereas men get more privileged on average (as they accumulate wealth and status).

This is bullshit, older women get more taken care of than older men. Older men often are found living in their own filth and squalor with nobody. Older women get put into care and protected.

I'm not even woman hating, you just made this shit up out of your ass.
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>>34550971
Women love violent and selfish males, so this is probably op's best strategy
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>>34550959
You are replaced by AI and brown people and no one misses you. Even if society collapses, you will still be at the bottom of the social pecking order.
You talk about "we men" on this anime basketweaving forum because you can't say "we men" in real life. You fantasize about being a man with with power, meanwhile you don't count as a man at all.
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>>34551184
Did you say something? Make me a sandwich bitch.
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>>34547351
>daily underlying existential threat of being killed/raped (even if remote)
vs.
>being mocked

Meanwhile retards like >>34549691 unironically imply that since men also beat other men up, that men also live in fear
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>>34551540
Some men do live in fear. And most women don't. Fear comes from the one doing the fearing, it doesn't come from the outside world. It's impossible to blame another person for your fears.
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>>34551250
Why don't you ask your mother to make you a sandwich? She's right there upstairs. It doesn't make sense at all to ask a random person on the internet to make you a sandwich.
Oh right, because if you did she'd smack you in the head and tell you to wash the dishes. Because you're an unattractive 5'5 beta future tranny who gets off on fantasizing he's mister internet tough guy under lust-provoking 4chan pic. Meanwhile in real life the only females you have access to are mid at best, mostly feral hambeasts who see you as beneath their standards.
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>>34551250
There's no way you were born before 2010
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>>34547341
Chud the builder almost died if he didn’t have a fire arm at hand. And no, he didn’t say anything to the angry black man that tried to murder him. It’s been documented.
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>>34552278
Also white men are treated like shit so he’s going to prison for life while the black man has raised $300k for attacking a random white guy. Now a white woman wouks not carry a gun and be murdered but if she defended herself she would be treated better.
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>>34547337
Asks for advice, has a tantrum when given advice kek
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>>34549718
>islam will take over
You mean Christo-techno-fascism, right?
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>>34547337
You think what you become
Think more about women, and you'll become a woman
Choice is upto you really
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>>34552399
I don't think thinking about big strong men all day is a great solution here pal
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>>34547337
When you realize envy doesn't serve you.
Stop seething over the supposed advantages of others and cursing your misfortune. Go struggle and live your life.
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>>34549869
Bro you're deluding yourself by believing there's some sort of invisible daddy taking care of things out there

But if you need that to have a reason to keep going, whatever.



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