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>34 years old
>had a job age 30 for approximately 8 months
>been unemployed for the rest of my life
>Family don't care about me at all

How do I change? Is it even possible? I am getting bullied by them.
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Do they bully you by feeding you and housing you
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You ask for respect, but not even you respect yourself. You are a busybody, a man that survives on the work of others is a parasite, waiting to be purged when the host discovers it's infected.
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How are you unemployed still? I am currently without a job and i dont have enough money to last me even 3 months, how are you affording to live on your own? Are you American? Sorry to derail but i would love to to never have to work again, fuck this society, i hate having to attribute to it at all if all it does is spit in my face
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>>34547520
Not responding to that
>>34547527
If you're going to sound like an actual autist go somewhere else.
>>34547576
Unemployment benefits and for most of my 20s I lived at home with my mother.
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>>34547576
Working is enjoyable because you get paid to live a life you want. I can't be a part of society and people want me dead.
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>>34547624
>If you're going to sound like an actual autist go somewhere else.
You are saying this on 4chan. If you are a normie, you should go somewhere else, this is a safe space for us autists, off you go.
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>>34547680
im not him, but nobody likes people who quite literally want to come off as a smart ass
like you just know this guy is probably a turbo incel cuck with about as many problems as the op in real life, yet he feels the need to stroke his ego off by making retarded posts on 4chan anonymously larping as mentally clever or something like that

just gay
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>>34547683
They also ignore the fact that "if you are a normie" doesn't apply to me completely.

They are just a horrible person who came here to be a dick.
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>>34547576
You are mad because you earn too little and pay too high taxes, if you werent you wouldnt have been so mad
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>>34547753
What kind of idiotic post is this? They said they were unemployed they aren't earning.
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>>34547724
>O-oh n-no, the horrible person said something true about me.
lmao

I told you the real problem, the one you yourself could not identify. The issue is not your family making fun of you, the issue is that deep down you know there is truth in what they say. If it were entirely false, it would not wound you this deeply. People only become defensive when something strikes against a truth they are already trying to avoid. Recognizing that is not cruelty, it is the beginning of change. A man cannot correct a flaw he insists on renaming as persecution.

>>34547683
You just want to circle jerk with OP and stroke each others egos. I do not need to act like a smartass, I am smart. My value is not dependent on your opinion of me. And the idea that I have the same problems as OP is simply false. I am ten years younger, I have a job, and I take care of my family. Do I have problems. Sure, everyone does. But living as a parasite while demanding applause for it is not one of mine.
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>>34547781
It might shock you but I can say all manner of hurtful "true" things to anybody at any time, I simply choose not to to be polite and respectful.

Do you think I go around saying people with big noses are ugly? Or fat people are fat sacks of shit? Just because you say something hurtful does not make it true. You are simply angry and believe your anger makes reality the truth, the reality being you are choosing to not help.

Which again, is why you sound like an unlikeable, argumentative dick right now.
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>>34547781
>demanding applause

Where did I ask for applause?
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Try to make the most out of the day towards your goals.
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>state you have a problem
>"oh my god you're asking for applause i am so much better than you by the way"

Fuck off you actual dick, self imposing asshole.
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>>34547813
>Where did I ask for applause?
When you conflate criticism with being bullied. I am not bullying you, your family is not bullying you. Welcome to real life! You need to get a job, you are 34 years old, what will be of you when your parents pass away? Will you make your siblings pay for your existence? Go to home depot, McDonalds, Subway, Burger King, whatever it is, give them your resume and get a job. I am sure your family will be happy for you.
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>>34547820
It would help if I had any goals. I don't want to be working around other people right now.
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>>34547821
>Fuck off you actual dick, self imposing asshole.
You are acting this way because what I said is exactly what you need to hear. I am sorry you took offense, and I am sorry it hurts.
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>>34547839
>Joins thread
>Just makes everything about himself
>Takes a massive shit and says I'm right

okay good job dude, you wonder why you're like my family and I am happy not to talk to you then you act like a fucking child, good job.
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>>34547848
>34 years old
>never had a job
>wants to be praised by family
>calls other child when pointed out
I am not going to offend you, just give you a mirror. This shall suffice. Do what I said and find a job.
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>>34547853
>34 years old
Correct
>never had a job
I see you can't read?
>wants to be praised by family
Why would I want praise from people like you who are unable to remove their own egos from a discussion?
>calls other child when pointed out
You didn't point out anything, you just made this all about you, you fucking huge shit.

>Just send your resume to burger king and you'll get a job
Maybe I won't because I had to talk to a fucking huge shit log like yourself just to get the weakest lamest hand-wavey "advice" I could've googled.
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>>34547838
Do something.
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I don't need to talk to my family, they never did anything for me.
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>>34547862
Okay what if I try to become a hollywood actor, fail, and waste 10 years of my life that I could have spent working at a gas station or something?
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>>34547866
Do something.
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>>34547874
Go throw a rock at a hospital lmfao
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>>34547860
>I see you can't read?
It is a hyperbole, I see that you have yet to receive an education.

>>wants to be praised by family
>Why would I want praise from people like you who are unable to remove their own egos from a discussion?
People like me? "I see you can’t read," as I never mentioned praises from me, but from your family.

>>calls other child when pointed out
>You didn't point out anything, you just made this all about you, you fucking huge shit.
I did point something out, but it went over your head. You are parasitizing your family, how do you expect to have a good relationship with them? Find a job.

>>Just send your resume to burger king and you'll get a job
>Maybe I won't because I had to talk to a fucking huge shit log like yourself just to get the weakest lamest hand-wavey "advice" I could've googled.
Find a job, pretty, please. Does this sound better?
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>>34547878
I just have one question for you.

Did I lie to you?
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>>34547864
>I don't need to talk to my family, they never did anything for me.
I really doubt they never did anything for you.
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>>34547889
>Did I lie to you?
About what exactly?
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>>34547890
It might be uncomfortable to admit some people in society are unpredictable, violent, intending to cause you harm.

But making me, who was simply born and is a clean slate somehow suffer because of it, I mean how do you not look at normal things like buying furniture, or getting an education in law or biology or just idk, saving up for a hose, how do you say "no this person cannot do that, because I am too busy thinking about how I am not allowed to acknowledge evil doers"?

I am not the one afraid to call a spade a spade.



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