I feel compelled to use online dating because its the only thing with options. I don't think real life works anymore. Even more frustrating, most apps don't let you filter out women with kids by default. I am interested in mostly hispanic women in the age of range of late 20's - early 30's. Online dating feels like shit because any woman who seems normal has kids already. Even the women who are particularly haggard have kids already. I am very honest with myself though and I never try and message women who are out of my range basically. Its just frustrating because most women seem to have kids already. What can I do? I don't want to use online dating but I don't know what my other options are. Real life I would love to try but I don't believe that works anymore. different question, what the fuck is up with women with kids already in online dating? There are so fucking many man. I don't hate women with kids I just don't know if I should date them or not. I know for a fact, their kid would cause me to resent them. I would eventually want kids of my own though. Fuck. Its always hispanic women too.
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it's fucked badly and full of scammers. open your heart to love and it will be torn out.
>>34550039I never realized how many accounts are actually bots in online dating. Its hell on earth for any dude trying to use the apps to meet women and date properly.
>>34547999>I am interested in mostly hispanic women in the age of range of late 20's - early 30'swhere do you live? I live in SoCal and that is 90% of the people you see. As to the kids problem hispanics tend to have them as young as possible and the ones that dont probably arent dateable to begin with. Also I have no idea as to what your intentions are, if you are looking for a long term relationship and have kids of your own then having a step kid isnt a big deal. If you just want to get laid then youre never going to have to see or deal with their kids anyways. Dating single moms is easy and stress free unless you go out of your way to be a step dad.
>>34550506I live outside of NYC. There are many Hispanics where I live. My intention is long term dating. I can't do one night stands. They sort of freak me out honestly. Its just so fucked that so many have kids already. However, my friend basically told me that its so common because well... men consider most women attractive and all a given woman has to do is say yes. So even though a lot of them get played, they wanted whatever man at some point and got railed. Basically, women are getting dicks thrown at them non-stop. Whether or not they say yes is up to them obviously but the sheer amount of opportunity is apparently insane.
You need to ask your friends if their girlfriends or sisters or whatever have any single friends. If you don't have friends then make friends.
It's probably women with kids being more likely to have to resort to using a dating app. The single women without kids are probably having no trouble meeting men through their social circles or just through living everyday life (Getting hit on at the gym, getting hit on when they're shopping, meeting someone through their work etc)
>>34547999Too damn expensive
>>34552243this is not expensive. offline people rent luxury cars for 500$ a night just to score. or spend 200$ on a dinner and hotel room. fucking condoms cost 20$ a pack.if you are that broke you need to fix our life before thinking about getting your dick wet.
The problem is that online doesn't let you practice your social skills. You have a better shot going to the gym or to classes and trying to meet someone there. You'll probably fail but at least you'll re-learn how to talk to people.
