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i'm being stalked and harassed online, what do i do? the person who is doing it has the mindset that they are in the right and also they are getting away with it too
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>>34548372
How exactly are you being "stalked" by a computer? It can't walk.
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>>34548380
Lolz true xD
the person who is stalking me is looking through my socials for anything new. i have blocked their accounts, but they just look on another account i'm not aware of. it feels like blocking doesn't even work. and sometimes if i block them they will take it as the slightest bit of attention and harass me over it.
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>>34548443
How do they think they are in the right? Also if you get paranoid about anyone being able to view your PUBLIC posts maybe you should be making them less.
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>>34548372
mmm, physical violence? I am being serious, people think they can get away with things online but if you run in to them assuming this person is some one you know IRL beat them up or if this is too much call pizza delivery on their address and put something in the delivery note that is a wink saying you did it. I don't really know what type of person you're dealing with but if you want them to stop scaring them seems like the thing to do or annoying them to the point where they will stop like send Jehovas witnesses to their house or write their phone number on craigslist sex ads remember you only lower yourself to their level because they started it.
>>34548380
Phones are computers and they're in everyones pocket and they have a microphone and camera and actually are fairly easy to hack. I don't want to sound like a schizo but this type of thing does actually happen. Back in the old days before smartphones people would actually plug out their usb mic and camera when not in use. With a phone you can't even do that.
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>>34548453
they think they are in the right because their harassment is "retaliation" (their fancy word for revenge) or whatever and they stated they dont care if what they are doing affects my mental health. i don't post publicly anymore, but they still get so pressed whenever they see me do anything on a PRIVATE social media account???? :'D

i should also mention they are going after my friends too
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>>34548456
i have actually had thoughts of finding their address, posting it on multiple telephone poles advertising for people to go send pizza to their address.

also i dont know this person IRL, and im incredibly glad i dont xD
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>>34548462
God, this makes me glad I'm a guy and I don't have to deal with this type of thing.
>going after my friends
So is she friends with your friends like a frenemy?
>>34548477
Mmm, well if she decides to keep "retaliating" the war is on and you are perfectly in your right to send a few food orders to her house during unfortunate hours of the night maybe even.
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>>34548486
>So is she friends with your friends like a frenemy?
oh he used to be friends with me and my friends BUT in february he broke up with one of my friends. and NOW he has been giving us PETTY BREAKUP DRAMA for MONTHS. Like give me a break of this guy...
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>>34548462
Very clearly something you are not saying. Random people should not have access to your private posts. You have also given no indicator as to what the actual harrassment is and how this is damaging your mental health..
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>>34548497
oh confusion on my end XD i meant my friend broke up with the guy who is harassing.
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>>34548499
sorry theres like so much to this its like an iceberg
1. i USED to have public posts which he could see. now, he cannot see my posts because i have deleted/privated my accounts on platforms. he is also stalking my friends' public accounts
2. he has harassed me and my friends by block evading us, what he said is like insults or calling us cowards for not wanting to participate in his drama
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>>34548516
OMG i forgot to mention, he wished death upon my friend group on four separate instances :'D there is probably other things that he said/did but i'm so tired
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Ok guys i'm going to sleep.... Goodnight. Thank you all for your advice tonight, I really appreciate it :'D
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>>34548520
You should not expect to be able to bring any sort of resolution to this situation. You cannot control the actions of others and face no real threat from him. Definitely do not waste money and people's time on these childish "food games" suggested by this fellow who has typed "mmm" on two separate occasions. If I am wrong can you tell me what goal you are trying to achieve? Getting him to stop looking at you and your friends' posts and saying things is completely unrealistic, you understand that right? Are you even an adult?
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Okay, I slept and cleared my mind.

>>34548534
>You should not expect to be able to bring any sort of resolution to this situation. You cannot control the actions of others and face no real threat from him. Definitely do not waste money and people's time on these childish "food games" suggested by this fellow who has typed "mmm" on two separate occasions.

You're right, there's nothing I can do about the stalker's behaviour and at best I can just ignore him. Wasting money on the stalker is immature (it would also just bring me down to his level) and I could use it for other means, like college, housing, etc.

>If I am wrong can you tell me what goal you are trying to achieve? Getting him to stop looking at you and your friends' posts and saying things is completely unrealistic, you understand that right? Are you even an adult?

I'm not sure at this point, I just really want this guy to stop harassing me and my friends and trying to get us to participate in his breakup drama. I just wanna know how to deal with it, if I can't make him stop. Also, I just turned 18 this April.

Thank you again for your words :D
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If he becomes an actual danger to you or your friends IRL, you can get his details off whichever friend was dating him and you or your friends can take a restraining order against him
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>>34548372
Learn to shoot, get a license or permit, and buy a gun
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Nobody has called schizo yet?
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>>34548534
mmm
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Blocking doesn't work, but you could make a new account. Just give it a different name, tell your trusted friends and don't post your face on it. They probably won't find it.



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