> 30 in a few months> 6'1> Gymcel> Registered 1,5 yrs ago on dating app> Talk with cute muslim girl, hit it off really stupid fast> Within a really short time marriage comes up, we both in> Parents agree /yay/> I propose that she moves to me, she learns German> I work super hard, overtime to cover legal fees, even quit gym and move to cheaper further away place to be able to get more money for the wedding and her moving here> Meanwhile i tell her that she shouldn't work, and only focus on her German studies> I fully support her hobbies, both financially and emotionally> I help their family out when they were in tight situation> I work so hard i get sick from it> She's okay, she's happy, she's really sweet> Fast forward 6 months, lives with other part of the family for 1 month, she completely changes, became negative, not supportive anymore, pure depression, sweetness gone, i feel less loved> Doesn't matter, I keep grinding hard, giving her everything she wants, supporting her financially and emotionally as much as i can, i get her pet hamster> She continuously becames more and more passive in the relationship, she's less sweet, not lovely> I still grind and give her everything, hoping that her old self comes back> Fast forward 1 year> She completely skips saying good night or good morning, we didn't have FaceTime for half a year, we barely play together anymore, we don't even do voice for so long.> I'm still supportive, as much as i mentally can, clinging to hope> I ask her to think about her position and what she contributed to the relationship because i feel lonely with her at this point for too long> She tells me she doesn't love me anymore, and she didn't love me for a really long time, blocks me everywhere> Mfl i spent around 20k on someone who doesn't even love meI gave her everything and even then, she abandon me like the rest. I don't get it at all. She was the perfect girl, then she completely turned. I miss her so bad. I wanna die.
>>34549604Likely nothing.My first relationship ended the same way. She didn't want to commit, always wondered what else was out there.Ruined me for a few years, for sure.Thankfully she ended up getting fat, which rather took the edge off.
You never met in real life?
>>34549635OP here. No it was LDR, she literally lived on the other side of the earth. I just managed to build up enough to meet her not long ago, but by that point everything was ruined.
>>34549637>29 years on God's green Earth>20k to a rapejeet catfish profile
ldrs are a meme anon
>>34549604>Mfl i spent around 20k on someone who doesn't even love meSpend 200$ on the next one, not 20k. That filters out the gold diggers.
>>34549604You glossed over one point. Did she NEVER move to you? Did you NEVER actually meet in real life? How do you know she isn't actually a 50 year old Nigerian man?
>>34549639Not catfish. I have enough data on her to know she's real. Like 5000 pictures, multiple videos, IDs, graduation books, school documents, contracts, hundreds of hours on FT with her, etc.
>>34549652Tokens are cheap, and love is expensive.
Could we please stick to the topic and not try to gaslight me into believing she was fake? Neither of you were in my place, i know as a fact that she's real.
>>34549666she was a fat indian guy all along op. also checked
There is no hope for humanity
>>34549695T. a 30 year old man who sent 20k to a 'woman' he never met
>>34549604>What did I do wrongYou fell for athird world scammer who may or may not have been a middle aged fat indian man. Which odesn't matter in the least, because regardless of whom you talked to , you were always just a chump and a walking wallet to her or him.Take this as a lesson and start talking to real women, because even the worst rejection could not possible be as bad. And STOP SIMPING for fucks sake, unless you're into findom the only thing you pay to a prospective woman is a beer and maybe a bowl of soup if shes extra nice.
>german falling for a muslim whoreplay retarded games win retarded prices
>>34549604>Mfl i spent around 20k on someone who doesn't even love meWhy would you fucking do that? Do you guys live together? It looks like you got scammed, literally. Because through what you said, you just talked to her on Discord and paid for all her shit. That's what went wrong.
>>34549666>Could we please stick to the topic and not try to gaslight me into believing she was fake?You literally got scammed, you never been with her in real life, it's inconceivable the idea of expending this much money on a woman you haven't even put your dick inside. Crazy shit
>>34549611>Thankfully she ended up getting fatHonestly, that made me feel really good. Thanks.
Paid the toll in full
>>34549604I hope this is bait
Brother you got fucking scammed. I would be taking her to court.
Were you even talking to a woman? Did you webcam or anything?Fuck dude you could've donated that 20k or something you dumb fuck, fucking retard
Where's my 20k you shitbag, I'll be a woman for you and call you nice things, fuck. Are you fucking gay dude? Do you know some people have to deal with shit and you're spending 20k on some bitch who ever sucked your dick?I fucked my Indian girlfriend the day I met her and you just gotta stop man, get a fucking therapist.
>>34550597>Did you webcam or anything?Nowadays, even that can be faked
>>34549637>OP here. No it was LDR, she literally lived on the other side of the earth. I just managed to build up enough to meet her not long ago, but by that point everything was ruined.Youre retarded. Assuming she was real and had actual intentions, the fact that you never met in person meant it was never a real relationship. From your original post you didnt have a relationship you were just employing her to learn german. You had her doing this for over a year with realistically no end in site so yeah you fucked up. Are you muslim or an expat of some sort? Why would you even be talking to someone from another country on a dating app and not someone in your area?
Just sad, even it she was real, OP would have given her money for 1 year and taught her German, and she said "Bye bye, thank you for your patronage, simp." I still think it was just a scammer, but even if it wasn't, OP did everything wrong he could possibly do.>>34550637>Are you muslim or an expat of some sort?He definitely is, it wouldn't make any sense otherwise, how can a 100% Germanic dude do something like this.
Post her
>>3454960420 bands could've gotten you a luxury vacay at Hawaii or something. My condolences
20k, imagine how many chick you could blow bareback with this amount, lol
>>34550614Hey, can I paypal you $20,000?
>>34550874>Hey, can I paypal you $20,000?Like, out of nowhere? Why would you even do that?
>>34550874Forget it, I think it's a joke about the deep fake thing, sorry, I'm a tard, be patient, lol
>>34550883>>34550885I thought you were stupid but I didn't know this stupid.
>>34549652read up pig butchering scam, they do this fulltime
>>34549652So they stole a real woman's identity (because scammers are of course just plain criminals) and then used that to con you.Well done, can I have $20k please because I could actually fucking use it instead of some fucking muslim in india
She did something wrong.On the other hand, you financed a head cloth wearing female who you had never met irl.
>>34551032>She did something wrong.Taking 20k from a dude is not a "omg i did something wrong :(" situation.Most normal people would see red if they lost 20k.
>>34549604>What did i do wrongThe part where you gave a women $20k.
>>34551126My mother's current boyfriend gave his wife like $200,000 in his divorce or something.
>>34551236Don't get married either.
>>34549604You simped too hard. Too much of anything is poison, and that includes devotion. Would you be surprised if your tree died if you gave it tons of water every single day? No, you know that there is a proper amount, neither too much nor too little. Why then do you expect differently with a human being?One more analogy, a joke this time. Give a woman a fish, you feed her for a day. Give a woman a fish everyday, and she will get sick of fish. Not saying be an asshole, just please apply the same common sense you would apply to everything else to women, dogs and children. Thank you.
>>34551244Not without a prenup, love can make it work.
>>34551274Those get thrown out anyway. There really isn't a reason to get married, it's just a huge risk that people undergo because other people are doing it.
>>34551279If you know you are not going to leave this person you are with, there are tax benefits to being married.Also some people just do it because of the big wedding and stuff.
>>34550597Yes we did FaceTime for hundreds of hours, sometimes longer than 24 hrs, when we were sleeping, did movie watching dates and shit, i ordered her food and we ate together while having cams on, and watching movie.
This has to be an ironic post.
>>34551432Ah man, she was using you for money.
>>34549604>jeetgirl scammed me and I'm sad boi now>20kDo Germans really?
>>34550956>I thought you were stupid but I didn't know this stupid.I'm smarter than you, that's for sure. I'm no OP, dumber.
>>34551364>there are tax benefits to being marriedJust marry a volcel friend on paper
