I'm a dude and not gay but this friend of mine who I've been gradually talking to less and less sends numerous messages to me over the weekends when he gets drunk talking about how much he loves me and can't live without me.It'll be totally random and I haven't even spoken to him in a month, we used to be relatively close friends and I enjoyed spending time with him as a bro but then he got all faggy but I don't want to hurt his feelings by simply cutting him off entirely.He'll apologize in the middle of the week for saying shit and I'll be like, >yo it's cool bro just chill with thatI've even told him straight up I think he's just completely idealizing some version of me that doesn't exist and then he'll start crying and saying shit like>but no one makes me feel the way you do>I don't love any of my friends like I love you>I don't want to live if I don't get to be with youLike he hasn't outright said he'll kill himself if I stop talking to him but the implication is enough that I'm really concerned about hurting his feelings if I tell him to fuck off. I've tried setting boundaries, I've even straight up ghosted him a few times but then he'll suddenly pop up somewhere I'm at like he's fucking stalking me, I can't get away from him.
>>34549991Have you considered being gay?
>>34549991Cut him off. Some amount of homophobia is healthy. This is why.
>>34549991If you have to tell him anything, tell him that you can't be his friend because of his insistence on repeatedly making unwanted romantic advances towards you.
>>34549991I had a gay friend in high school and he would try to "molest" me when I got really wasted. I feel like you can treat a gay bro like a bro to some extent but it's very difficult. I actually stay away from being friendly with gay guys because of the one friend I had in high school who was way too comfortable crossing boundaries.
>>34549991>What do I say to a guy that's in love with me?love you to bro, no homo
>>34550029>>34550368>>34550237Okay I told him what anon said about not being able to be his friend and he responded by asking me >Are you bipolar? You're not acting like yourself. You need to get therapy because your mood swings are unstableLike what the absolute fuck I'm actually starting to hate fags.
>>34549991Tell him you are into women?
>>34549991let him suck your cock (no clothes off) so he will let his obsession with you out of his system. Maybe you'll become friends again and laugh about it in 20 years or so. about how you jizzed inside his faggot little mouth and then he got cured of homosexuality. Maybe both you wives will laugh as well if you remember old times during a Thanksgiving dinner or something
