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When a guy and a girl are dating each other, which one should be the one to ask the other person to be their exclusive partner or boyfriend/girlfriend?

I’ve been seeing this girl I really like for a few months and we both have confessed to each other we have romantic feelings. I want her to be my gf but I’m not sure if I should ask or should I wait for her to ask.
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??? That's not something you ask unless you're in elementary school.
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Straight up ask her what she thinks your relationship is. You seem like you will be fine because both of your intentions are clear.
>>34550163
>t.never been in relationship
Some women will see their man for over several months and refuse to be called a girlfriend.
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>>34550128
Whichever one decides to bring it up first. There aren't rules about these things. If you want to be exclusive, say "hey, I want us to be exclusive"
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>>34550226
>>34550494
I can’t help but feel like if I bring it up first I’m a simp?
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>>34551751
you wouldn't be operating from abundance mindset. woman should always advance the actual relationship progression. it's important to make them feel feminine that you had other choices but they reeled you in
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>>34550128
>ask to be boyfriend/girlfriend
Are you a child chasing girls on the playground? You don't have to "ask" its something that just happens.
>we both have confessed
Have your brains been stunted from watching too much anime?
>I want her to be my gf
If she wants to be your gf then she'll be your gf, you won't have to ask she'll just slide into the vacancy like it's hers for the taking. If she doesn't then doesn't want to be your gf.
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>>34551751
You got that right. Never do it.
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>>34550128
>When a guy and a girl are dating each other, which one should be the one to ask the other person to be their exclusive partner or boyfriend/girlfriend?
Why should anyone care, have a preference, or have an opinion on this?
Just ask if you want to and stopped basing your decisions on what other people will think. Those other people aren't important to you or the relationship you share with the person that you want to be exclusive with.
Your priorities are backwards and you're being neurotic and self-sabotaging over imagined perceptions of people that aren't directly involved. Grow a spine.



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