How normal is it for women to become bored of long-term monogamy, bored of you, bored of the flowers, bored of the gifts, and use social media, tinder, instagram for entertainment?
>>34566619Not very likely since they are more likely to leave when the man becomes bored and stops entirely with any kind of act of romance (such as flowers or dates like you mentioned).
>>34566619Bout 50%.Men get bored first usually though,
>>34566619It's more or less universal. Humans aren't designed to mate for life.
>>34566667Not OP, but what makes you say that one way or another?
>>34566667>t. divorce lawyer
>>34566619>that cranial tilt
>>34566667pair bonding exists as an evolutionary mechanism for species to mate and raise children. most of the time once this happens hormone decline and long term commitment keeps one around. its no more universal in concept than the reality that humans will always get bored of anything for long enough. doesnt mean they'd leave the person though. pairbonding in modern society is about choice commitment above all else, anyone not making that choice is a choice on its own. so its purely person dependent.
>>34566619depends on if you're dating a child or not. most men on here work give you advice from the perspective of 25+yo who date 17yos exclusively and then say shit like "all women are mentally children" unironically
>>34566667off by one, satan
>>34570826Pair bonding exists only in birds. Most mammals are not monogamous and basically all of the great apes are basically polygamous. The whole monogamy thing was pushed by religion and governments because it allows for stability in society since a poly society is one full of a bunch of 70 iq violent retards fighting over harems and their underlings committing mass rape everywhere. Kinda hard to accomplish anything when you are dealing with tribal warfare which is what societies like that seem to encourage. It also allows the average guy to have at least a chance.
>>34566667Humans are one of the few animals who don't have a mating season so this is just blatantly wrong. Get some pussy nigga.
>>34571162love is the evolutionary pair bonding for humans. i am aware of the non-monogamous nature of mammal breeding. outside of prolactin spikes existing to prevent men from continuing to fuck they would if they could. that being said monogamy for child rearing is the late term change independent of religion. religion and society fucked it but the human brain is animalistic in both ways, pair bonding and mass breeding in both ways.
>>34566619Pic related is the phase where you think the goth girl is mysterious and edgy (or an easy lay). That doesn't really translate to real life. LT relationships are like everything else - getting old is real, life being hard is real, etc. If both people aren't exceptional, it's probably just going to be tolerating each other at best. That's not to say I am against LT, it's just that it's very difficult and a luxury.
