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Seems like women will do anything but approach. Also, not talking about on the street. more in a familiar setting like a coffee shop or work
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>>34569341
No
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>>34569341
i had a crush on a guy for 2 years and yet still never approached (or even gave hints that felt too overt because i am shy) lol
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>>34569357
>yet still never approached
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>>34569341
The best advice i ever got was to be hungry but not desperate when talking and trying to have a good time. This way if she's not interested you don't waste your time getting frustrated at being rejected as you can flirt with small compliments, which btw you gage by just being friendly and giving yourself some time to make your mind up on if you this this person is into you, is uninterested or wants to platonically hang (which should be like 2 or 5 min).

The reality of dating is that half the time it's boring or awkward with dates that feel like dead ends. Take care of your hygiene and enjoy small talk you'll eventually meet someone that's into you and you're into them.
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>>34569372
>because i am shy)
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>>34569393
>just shower and be nice
woah
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>>34569357
If a girl stopped being shy and approached me, I'd respect her a great deal even if I wasn't available or interested, because it takes guts to approach a 6 ft. beast who looks like he broke out of prison.
Secretly, I'm a gentle giant. I only get vioelnt if I'm forced into it. I enjoy winning fights, but I don't enjoy drama or starting fights. I also adore small fluffy animals.
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>>34569357
You remind me of my gf. She said she had a crush on me for like a year and I had no fucking clue she thought about me at all. Cause I literally was crushing on her like crazy from the day I met her and always thought it was one sided.
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>>34569473
i mean if neither of you approached you as the man are the one who has 0 excuse lmao. but yeah it's always nice seeing two people like you ending up together.
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>>34569483
I usually saw her while she was at work and always worried about not wanting to bother her or make things awkward while shes doing her job. But also yea Im pretty shy myself lol I finally found the courage to ask for contact info after we talked about something we both were into
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>>34569521
gzzzz glad to hear that
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>>34569341
If a man is too pussy to approach, he doesn't deserve to have a gf in the first place.
Man the fuck up
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there was a guy in my aa meeting i thought was cute. i always wanted to interact and make conversation, but far too nervous. one day another guy in the meeting approached and asked for my number. now, hes my bf and not the other guy
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I've dated two girls that approached me. Didn't work out, I'm too acoustic
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>>34569685
>If a man is too pussy to approach
So, what do you call a woman thats scared to approach?
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>>34569765
A normal woman since being afraid of approaching men isn't a negative for most men.
It's okay to be a feminine man, anon.
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>>34569393
>Take care of your hygiene and enjoy small talk you'll eventually meet someone that's into you and you're into them.
when? I'm over 40 and this hasn't happened and I've always enjoyed small talk and had good clothes and hygiene
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I'm an alright looking guy and had three girlfriends, they all asked me out (as well as most of the other girls I went on dates with).
Though, none of those relationships worked out in the end, and I have considerably less experience than the average person at my age.
You are better off making moves yourself on people you're interested in, you'll have a lot more options, a lot of women don't approach so you're narrowing your dating pool by being passive.
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>>34569341
They approach Chad all the time.
Are you Chad?
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>>34569976
Most women don't approach even chads, this is more of a tranny fantasy.
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>>34569685
Hon, if a man isn't approaching you, he has decided you are not worth the trouble.
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>>34569980
No it's real.
Whether most will or not doesn't matter because some will.
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>>34569980
>this is more of a tranny fantasy.
Holy cope. You're ugly, that's why women don't approach you, sadly.
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>>34569403
>because i am shy
>tfw no shy gf
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>>34570154
cringy rage baiter
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>>34569980
He's not wrong. The average woman will only drop vague hints for a guy they consider passable. The good looking men get obvious hints or straight up get approached by women.
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I’d only ever consider dating a woman if she actually wanted to be equals instead of this “I want a stud to sweep me off my feet and make all the moves and buy all my shit and take care of me like a child” bullshit. Not making the first move is an easy way to filter those womanchildren from my life
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>>34569980
I have been approached several times anon as I was the chad in my location. Women just can't resist a handsome man and do whatever it takes to initiate contact. Of course these very same women decrease their approaches if they get rejected long enough by chads
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>>34570245
If you want to date an "equal", I suggest
>>>/lgbt/
or
>>>/hm/
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true game is realizing that you don't want the women that approach first because they're alway whores (10+ bodies)
the non whorish girls are the tough nuts to crack. Now that's not to say that all shy, reserved girls are chaste. Many of them are whores too, but some of them aren't, whereas 100% of women that approach first are
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>>34569341
yes, it happens. my wife approached me back when we were in university. been together for 14 years now.
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>>34570205
yeah, or, you know, the autistic ones never see the hints because they have autism, or don't consider it possible due to retarded world views like yours
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>>34570245
you are gonna get a lot of pushback from the ephebophiles for this lmao.
>claims all women are mentally children
>exclusively dates teenagers
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>>34569413
I think youre a homo actually. You sound like it
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>>34569341
yes be 6 ft 3"+ chad in outfit showing off your 8 pack (no brown shoes with black belt) "accidentally" show or mention your multi million dollar bank account balance. Then she will approach.



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