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>22 year old
>5th in a line of six kids
>we grew up in an abusive and poverty-stricken home (a small trailer)
>I have one little sister aged 18 now
>I was the only sibling who wasn't mean to her and I also defended her from our abusive parents
>she's always been the only family member I'm close to
>she told me a few days ago that she's in love with me
>still trying to process it
>I obviously can't and don't want to date her
>hope that I can turn her down without traumatizing her or making her think I'm weirded out (even though I am) because this is a really sensitive situation and I know I have to be careful
What do I do? I don't want to date her, but I want this to be as non-hurtful as possible for her.
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make her happy, big bro
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>>34608095
What? lol. I can't date my sister...
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>>34609161
Damn I would but my advice is try to understand what she is going through, from my perspective it’s a deep-rooted misalignment of her subconscious. Her root chakra was never fully developed as a result of the bad family situation. She needs love and community and spiritual healing in order to to recover and build a life worth living.
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>>34609176
>>34605330
Peep this thread for more info
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>>34607077
Give her the D.
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>>34607077
Couples therapy
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>>34607077
Talk to her and explain why it is wrong to be in love with you and that maybe she's just confused
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>>34609161
i mean if incest is legal where you live why not i only have brothers so maybe thats why i say this but im sure that if i had a sister 100% the wincest would have happened
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>>34609965
I don't think it's legal in Tennessee...
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>>34607077
You point out that it's normal, especially if you have been her protector, but she has to find someone unrelated.
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>>34607077
Give her what she wants and keep it secret
Maybe do it once or twice, then say "No, this is wrong" and stop doing it
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>>34607077
Having a younger sibling attracted to me is one of my fetishes. Incest is a sin, and can birth defective children. I suggest you not do it. But I don't know if I would be able to resist it if I was in your shoes, honestly, I think I wouldn't, I thank God he only gave me burdens I can resist.
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Bump
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what on earth is wrong with most of the thread?

You should have an honest conversation where you tell her that she should seek help and that incest can't happen because it's wrong. I think you should also be very careful how you do this because you both a very traumatized and turning into a preaching or screaming session wont help you.



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