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>gf gets mad at me because I cooked something badly a week ago and because I tend to be sluggish in terms of my processing speed (literal diagnosed autism)
>goes on a rant about how I'm a shitty person and an idiotic child and can't take care of her
>says she finds me unattractive and that I should hit the gym
>says she won't go with me
>previously asked me if I would love her after gaining weight and asked for my permission for her to gain weight and let herself go
>says I'm like all men and that all men are the same, being happy while their GFS suffer
>says "fuck you all"
>tells me I'm making her life a hellhole and deletes the entire chat
>starts a new one three hours later
>give her a reply that's dry humor
>she says ""Don't make me hate this chat and delete it too. You're already being sarcastic. The other chat was shitty and got deleted. I started this one off neutral and you're like let's make this sarcastic and make this another shitty one. Why do I even bother."
>don't reply within 3 mins
>Okay, thanks for making it clear that you don't want to talk. I'll delete this too"
I already told everyone she broke up with me because she basically spent the entire chat today talking about how great her life will be when we break up before deleting literally everything. I assumed she was done.
Anyways, is she a sane person?
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>>34619835
Maybe she is sane, but she doesn't sound nice or well-adjusted
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she sounds like a keeper
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>>34619835
She is not a nice person.
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>>34619835
Either borderline personality disorder or had decided to make you break up with her for one reason or another long before-hand if she's acting like this

Be glad you're done with her and do not accept her back, when she does come back. And she will, say no.
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>>34619835
>Anyways, is she a sane person?
That's not an important question. Sane or not, you should break up with her either way: she isn't right for you.
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jojo
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>>34619835
Seems like she's using emotional manipulation to maintain some sort of control she doesn't believe she has. It also seems to me that she is heavily projecting her insecurities and short comings onto you.

You most certainly are not the problem. These are trauma responses from her. She clearly doesn't have a very good self image and she's using you in an attempt to make herself feel better.

I would recommend as the others have said and go your own way. She will bleed you dry emotionally and you'll never be able to recover. Best of luck.
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You should always maintain the image of a strong, caring man. That is how civilizations used to hold together. Now modern men let themselves go, get fat, and complain about the consequences on the internet. Women will often say what makes them look better, not necessarily what they actually think. If, in your prime, you ask her if it’s okay for you to get fat, she might say yes because she respects you in your prime and wants you to like her. Once you actually become weak, there is nothing left to respect.
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>>34619835
is your gf an ai chat bot by any chance?
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>>34622410
AI chat bots can't get fat, can they?

But more importantly, OP you don't have a GF. You hate women are making up fake stories to express the hatred over the internet.



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