How to cope with loneliness? I've been thinking about how I want a girl to hug me for the whole week. I don't have a social life and I feel so lonely and I can't help but keep thinking how good it would be if a girl comforted me or told me that everything is going to be okay. I'm having this fantasy or adjacent fantasies for the whole year now.
>>34786975everything is going to be okay.*hugs*feel better?
>>34786975hire an escort and tell her you just want to hug, cuddle and have her say comforting things. a professional one would absolutely do that for you and genuinely try
>>34786980is it possible to do this but with sex too? I kinda want to hire an escort so that she'll train me in better sex for a real gf
>>34787003they will, and i'm sure this is a regular ask; but i don't think this is going to make you any better at finding a gf.are you in university?
>>34787003If you're respectful I think most would do whatever you wanted, outside of things they specifically say they won't do (rawdog is a common one). Just be sure you are looking at quality women. Cheap hookers are much different from good escorts. I'm not saying you need to spend $1000.
>>34786980I'm not sure. Sounds exciting to be finally able to do the things I want but at the same time she wouldn't love me back, it would be unreal and I wouldn't be connected to her.
>>34787021You need a friend. Romance is great and all but honestly first you should try and make a couple of friends that you can talk to or share your hobbies with.
>>34787021You're right, she probably wouldn't love you back but you aren't paying for love. You're paying for a human connection. If you find a nice girl and ask her to hug you, she'll sincerely give you a heartfelt hug. If you ask her to twerk on your cock, she'll do it with the intention of making your cock feel good. Stresser on *good* escort. Some are what we call clock watchers. But no you aren't gonna be able to pay a girl to fall in love with you. But if that's what you want, bro just ask out a dozen women in public, eventually one will say yes. Go on some dates and boom, girlfriend.
>>34787015no if i were still in school I wouldn't have to resort to paying to find girls. well, maybe i would, tinder/apps didn't exist back then. I had longterm gfs in college but we never actually had sex. a lot of foreplay and making her cum through clothes, but never real sex. i'm not saying the escort would make it easier to find a gf, but prepare me to actually be better at sex with her if i do. i don't know if you can/should eat out a prostitute though. I hear you're just supposed to fuck them with a condom and not treat her like a real lover. No kissing no foreplay just fuck her holes and leave
>>34787074this guy would make a great wingman
>>34787051I agree. Still, it is frustrating. I would have to turn my life in 180 degrees, since I currently don't talk to anybody and am too shy. But what are friends like? And are you implying that you can be as reassuring as when you cuddle with a girl? (I mean, I don't know from experience but I think that cuddling would be super reassuring)>>34787074Socializing at all is difficult. I'm far from possibly getting a girlfriend in my current situation.
>>34787087focus on getting a girlfriend.dont eat out an escorts pussy. thats an offense against your mouth.how old are you? what would you rate yourself out of 10?sign up for a dating app and join a club/group if you don't have the confidence to cold approach people in public.if you do, go to bars, events, fairs and walk up to someone. compliment them, ask them how their day is, ask them another question off that if one stems. when the convo tends to die down, you ask if they'd exchange numbers with you for coffee or a walk sometime.i got a confidence boost even when people rejected me because at least i did it. you just have to have a yes i can do this attitude like >>34787074 doesmost people here calculate the risk, tell themselves nope or find a bullshit excuse and don't do anything.
>>34787094>I'm far from possibly getting a girlfriend in my current situation.Look at it this way, right now you're in your comfort zone. Going outside of that is scary but by doing so you will expand your comfort zone. Sure the first couple times you ask out a girl in public, you'll probably stutter, be frozen and sweating, your heart racing. But if you keep going, you'll get used to it, eventually you'll get a "yes" and that will be a big confidence boost. Then one day you will look back and be happy you did it and how far you've come
>>34787094if you read this board, 90% of male OPs stories start the same way as yours.the only obstacle is you and your brain. you just have to find the switch to shut it up for 30 seconds and talk to someone.the best therapy is exposure therapy.at worst, you fuck up a conversation and never see the person again.so just talk to them. compliment, ask questions, ask their number/coffee/walk
>>34787112im this guy/thread OP >>34786002>how old35, but been told i look early 20s. i would rate me 7-8 and i've gotten similar from rate apps, but i dont know if thats actually true, especially in todays world where even brad pitt is considered mid.reading that linked post, do you think those girls were actually showing the kind of interest i should've gotten their numbers? or just being nice?
>>34787185listen to yourself.why would you get banned from a restaurant for asking her number? mgtow must be putting signals out saying a question is the first sign of rape.>sites onlinei agree and don't use them anymore but i know people have had a lot more. i hate phone texting so dont use them.>nice ladiesi don't know if they did or didn't. i'm pretty good at asking a question so usually by the time they've told me about their day or the compliment i have another lined up, like why was your day bad?>asking outi usually don't ask for number first. i think its best to ask if they'd like to go out sometime. i prefer walks because im cheap and find them more exciting, but coffee is probably the best since they feel safer in an established place for first time.i mean at some point you gotta imagine you're a bird doing the song and dance for the female and she might shoot you down. if it happens, you just accept it and move on like you failed a job interview.you just gotta break your virginity on asking. i feel better after asking because i did it even if i get rejected so i don't feel bad for rejections.
>>34787241heres ways i think the simple act of asking can go wrong:> "eww no sorry/i have a bf" then go on about our day (the easiest one, worst she can say is no, right?)> except in my situation she can block me from picking up orders at her store and i lose a potential local earning site forever> even if i can come back, it's awkward for all involved now> another random guy stops/laughs at me/bruh what are you doing you think you have a chance/is her BF> she records this interaction for her tiktok, puts me on blast with her social ring or a board specifically for this kind of thing i know they're out there, like per city they have facebook groups just to warn/judge men> oops, she's actually a teen, now im a creep and pdo for thinking her attractive at allIf done to a girl at work:>harassmentWell I guess it couldn't go worse than those though especially if no one knows me around here. maybe i will.you ask if they'd like to go out sometime, how do you do that without having her phone number?
