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>>34842804
join a social circle and they will do all the heavy lifting for you. all you have to do is find one and show up.
where in this idea is the difficulty slider ramped up too high for you?

>>34842804
go extremely out of your comfort zone like travel to a far off country

>>34842825
don’t listen to this faggot. jack it one more time. play some fallout. it’ll get you through 10 more years

>>34842825
not OP but how do yo go about finding and joining a social circle?

>>34842825
>join a social circle and they will do all the heavy lifting for you. all you have to do is find one and show up.
lol no, it's called, being a third/fifth wheel.

>>34843764
meetup, facebook groups, eventbrite, timeleft... there's others. discord and other social sites sometimes host events and meetups.
meetup kinda went downhill trying to charge for everything but it's still where the bulk gets posted.

>>34842804
Sounds like you know what to do. It's time to go to school. Law, Engineering, Med. Pick one and grind.

>>34842825
Losers can only get into social circles with other losers

>>34843790
Dude, that's discord tranny shit, you get what I mean? That's like an old forum circlejerk, get it?

You go into this group, they're already coagulated around a bunch of assholes, not the prettiest people either, plain manipulating assholes. The asshole clump is already full, when you arrive to the group you're nothing so you just tag with other loose losers. That's no improvement, nobody really goes out of their way to fix your shy bullshit, everyone is self-serving and you're so full of mental fog you can't see a way out.

So what then? Let's say you join a troon discord meetup and what I say is going on. What's the next course of action to avoid coalescing into another loser group like destined? how to make best use of that troon group?

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>>34843866
nta, social anxious autist here, every social group is a circlejerk, learn social dynamics, avoid discord or internet circles.
Open groups are thematic(ex book club, running club etc) they let anyone in but people come and go so its kinda difficult to make stable connections with people, if you succeed there with at least other person then a semi-closed group starts to take form but maybe you wont find anyone so quickly.
In that case then maybe you will identify semiclosed groups around you and feel alienated, in my experience just keep showing for 3 months more or less(n=1) depending of the type of group and at some point you will be in and have stable connections , not real friends yet, but potentially.
Closed groups are those with actual close friends, where you can be you without mask. Only available after befriending someone from that semiopen group before. Trust me I had it worse than you and that plan worked, Normies do this shit intuitively . good luck excuse esl

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>>34843866
join one of the non discord groups
what happened to your hump day anon?

>>34843866
>You go into this group, they're already coagulated around a bunch of assholes, not the prettiest people either, plain manipulating assholes. The asshole clump is already full, when you arrive to the group you're nothing so you just tag with other loose losers.
Foolish mistake. The Discord is where you drag the (male) friends IRL whenever you want to play some shitty multiplayer game together while also circlejerking. Only the "sane" and "overly-adjusted" would enter some 500k member server and not expect to be met with human dregs.

>>34842804
>jerk off, smoke cigarettes, or play fallout
So just do anything else then. Socialshit irlshit for maxx return but ye