tldr in the endWe've been together for about 2 years, she's into 3rd year of med school and lives alone.We were planning to tell them about our relationship next year but her family found out about us accidentally, and ever since, her mom has always been against me.Her mom told her I have no future, she told her she needs to get out with her cousins more often and try to find another guy, she told her my degree is worthless, told her my family isn't on the same level as hers so she needs to break up with me, told her all kinds of shit, every day she calls her and it's the same thing.A bit of background on me, I am 23 years old and she's 21, I have finished business administration which isn't a fancy degree but I have been doing well in my life, I haven't asked my family for money and I can provide for myself. Funny thing is, her husband has also done business administration, and she calls it a useless degree.I don't think her mom is looking for any arguments or facts, she simply doesn't want me and every day she stresses her only daughter, trying to control her life and threatening her saying she is going to die of blood pressure if she doesn't break up with me.My girlfriend tries every time to argue with her mother, but I have been trying to tell her that giving arguments and facts to her is just pointless, she needs to simply hang up. She tried doing that and she called her more than 20 times, used her dad's phone to call her, and in the end threatened to call the cops.This has resulted in my girlfriend being constantly stressedI simply do not know how to manage this situationTLDR: My girlfriend's devouring mother relentlessly harasses her daily to break up with me. The extreme emotional manipulation is destroying my girlfriend's mental health and straining our relationship, and we don't know what to do?
>>34873982if she is willing to do so, i'd cut off all contact with her. block as many numbers as necessary. not forever but for a while, maybe a month or two, until she calms down. it is extremely difficult to be that angry for an extended period of time. it has worked pretty well for me with my own exceptionally retarded parents.
shit test. it's what women do to figure out if you're weak, if so, you'll fold and lose her (as you should). if however you are really into her daughter and want to marry her, you must hold your nose, and withstand the shit tests. it's a very good sign because if you pass, her mom becomes like a good friend and will always be on your side after.
>>34874127continuedand if you think the shit tests are too prolonged, what you have to do is actually meet up with her mother and very calmly tell her that you are going to marry her daughter because you love her and want to do this, and that when you are married, you won't tolerate any more shit tests--this is the final one. make your choice. if the phone goes silent after that, you're golden.
>>34873982cut the mother off, simple as. shes an evil controlling withc as you yourself said.and never look back
>>34873982sounds like Asian lol.is she Korean? if not prolly Chinese.
>>34873982I rmbr datIf she's so against you then she should go find a guy herself for your partner to switch to
thirdie shitwhite people dont have these problems
>>34873982Your girlfriend is brown isn’t she
>>34877873White people going extinct lol
>>34878043idk man im on my 6th kid
>>34873982>I am 23 years old and she's 21YIKES. What are you a pedofile?????
The mother will drill the daughter mad with questioning doubts about you abd your relationship, if she does not side with you its over. Dont for once bend over backward for them either they are likely retarded chasing status which you dont have on the outset since you are young.
