How soon after doing porn detox do you stop getting constant urges to jerk it? I need light at the end of the tunnel
You won't stop getting those urges lol. The point is you can jack off but either try to fuck a girl or just jerk off to hot girls on tinder or something. But porn is terrible for you so just don't go for pornsites
>>35022918what do you consider porn detox? how long have you been free of it?>>35022936why is porn so bad for you, when you're still jerking off to tinder in this better scenario? is it because of the bigger dicks? or that some other guy is fucking her and not you? personally i think porn is basically real life now, no point denying it... and im not like someone that goes multiple times a day, for the majority of my life I've been pretty good at moderating it to maybe twice a month if that. but lately i've been depressed and seen no point in anything else but getting caught up gooning all day. feelsgud, but bad.i made this thread >>35022900even in the best case scenario where quitting causes you to instead be motivated to go pick up some chick at a bar that doesnt really know or care about you, isn't that just using her body to jack off? that could even be worse than porn from stds and shit
>>35022969>what do you consider porn detox?Reducing the amount of masturbation I do really. I have a genuine porn addiction where I've jerked off around 3x a day for maybe the past 7 or 8 years. I dont care about totally quitting jerking off or porn entirely but I want to get it to a normal number like maybe a couple times a week. I lose so much time doing this every day Im sick of it.
For me it takes 1-2 weeks before my brain switches to just desperately wanting to fuck any semi-attractive woman
>>35023146Personally I love feeling like that. It's reason enough not to watch porn.
>>35023146is this different than just having the urge to jack off all the time
>>35023273It's the same biological root imo but the increased urge to be with someone can push you to go out there more and socialize and try crazy stuff for a change
>>35023003when you say 3x a day i mean...do you just do quickies for breakfast lunch and dinner? i am currently edging right now, as i've been for the past...10 hours. I am sexcalling video chat girls, not watching porn. is that better? one of the good scenarios was just jerking off over tinder pics, well this is interactive vids that pretend to care about me and call me hot when i pay them, so is that better?i guess the root of the problem is what do you want to do with your life otherwise? what would you do with that wasted time? I feel like my life is already pretty much over in my late 30s, so it doesnt matter either way, but maybe you have a better chance.>>35023146see, me, i could control it forever. im surrounded by hot women at my work, and yet the consequences of actually doing anything outweigh the "wanna fuck" feeling. I felt the same whether i only jacked off twice a month, or these uncontrollable mindmelt all-day binges i've been having fueled by depress where i barely even eat. in fact, while i am jacking it, i dont get hungry, so it seems to be a way to stop hunger, along with falling asleep forgetting to eat dinner. today i have only had cereal, and the day is over, i better eat something.i havent even fully cum yet today, its been pretty unsatisfying.
