I have been wanting to ask this girl out for a while similar to picture. She works at a cash register. Should I just do it? And fuck it if she says no?
>>939602900Yes. You have nothing to lose.
Worst thing she can say is no.If she does, then move on.If she's hesitant then you have a chance if she says yes... well perfect
Okay, I am going to do it. I will get cigarettes now and hopefully she is working. I'll post an update.
>>939603013Remember cigarettes are not as cool as you think they are
>>939603023I know but that is the only reason why I come there
>>939603054What else do they sell?
>>939603081Drinks, snacks etc
>>939603098Ehh ok cigarette are fine.But be open to change your habits
>>939602900Tell her that you have some spare melanin at your house that she can come over and pick up anytime.
She was not there guys. Maybe in the afternoon then I'll go again
>>939603212Lol, I think it's attractive
>>939603237if you're not confident, it might be better to wait. if you're confident and she says no, then you should just be cool about it and move on
>>939602900always askIf she says no dont be a cringe faggot like some other autistic retards and dont be weird about it, keep going to the store if its part of your routine and just treat her like a normal cashier
>>939602900Just do it. You'll never know if you don't.I just had a dream last night that I was at a bar with a girl that looked like this. She was sitting at the bar and I told her I wanted to dance.
>>939605502do it. if she says no and you decide to fuck it if she says no, it's probably because you already knew she wasn't going to say yes and you were just playing with her.
Try telling her your name is something cool like “Maverick” or “Blade”.
yeah man just politely see if she'd like to have a coffee with you, and forget about it if not. repeat that process a few times and you'll have a gf in no time. most men don't have the balls to do this, know that you're doing good if you're able to actually approach like that
>>939603013Retard. People cannot flee job positions. You are forcing an interaction in a forced setting that she has no power over, what you are doing is uncouth/uncool. Not to rain on your parade of optimisms/autisms.
OP here. I am going this afternoon after the shift of the other guy is over. I'm 90% positive she will take the other shift because she has been there every day since. Anyway I am just going to do it. If she says no, it will only make me feel more secure aswell because I did it.
>>939607680Do you think it's like that? I mean she can just say "no" right
>>939603098Do they have whippits?
>>939607752Nope no whippets
>>939603221Sad. Gross. Ick."My casual target wasn't there, let me lazily try again when I need smokes"How romantic and strong
>>939607780Whippits* autocorrect
>>939607792You got a better idea, im up for that
>>939606535Nigga if he don't got looks he needs an ins, without an ins you are sabotaging the odds of success.
I got the looks. Just never asked a girl like this. It always happened at a party or with friends etc
>>939607704So you think she WANTS to say no/dash a hopeful niggers pressurings while working, on display, with other potential customers in line... Imagine yourself having to turn down some pitiful option while working minimum wage and being like (it happened again on shift, can't I just work my dead end job I am forced to do to survive in peace and have my job JUST be the job, which isnt turning down prospective lookers, the job is cashiering/stocking /id checking... Just put yourself in their shoes and try to hype it up less so you can be more normal/effective at banter.
>>939607680Stop being a retard, no one is getting their day ruined by being asked out for coffee, its a 30 second interaction where you can say no and its solvedThe problem is when people who cant take rejection do it, just take it like a man and fuck off
>>939607824Just be the guy that knows where/is invited to parties. Casually ask them along if they seem the type. Or ask out for coffee and "no expectation" . Also I dont wanna do all the work for you... You should be attracted to someone beyond their looks primarily. Maybe take notice of local job openings and suggest she go for it when one she could qualify for opens: if it did change her life for the better, whether you get the girl or not, she'd think highly of you for helping and wanting nothing in return in a no pressure way. But here I am spoon-feeding you on how to be a "sweet/considerate" man.
>>939608070Right? Its not weird asking that?
>>939608022Fair point, now what lmao
>>939608070You don't know her. You aren't herYou don't know how many other hopeful niggers there are like you, plotting, chatting with others, on how to strategically "catch" this fish in the sea. If she's genuinely pretty compared to others, she's probably oppressed by retarded hopeful niggers. You say it's 30 seconds but that's just YOU and YOUR efforts, you are ignoring the other 12 thirty second attempts every shift. Stop assuming you're the only guy trying to "get at her"
>>939608270I'm not, but I can atleast give it a shot right
>>939608270whos plotting? Are you an absolute fucking idiot?Literally this thread is"i think shes cute, do i ask her out" and everyone is going "yea bro try for it and if she says no, gg good try"From OPs response it seems shes working in a small shop since hes getting cigs, so shes not ringing 20 people per minute out at costco. Even if she is the hottest cashier in the world, shes not getting asked out 12 times a shift every shift, dont be a retardMany successful relationships and families started from people just approaching other people theyre interested in, and OP should shoot his shot, as long as he doesnt behave like an autistic cringe faggot, not harm will come to her state of mindOpinions like yours bring nothing but pitty from me, watching opportunities go by because youre too scared to mildly inconvenience someone with a normal interaction. Pathetic
>>939609040Thank you
>>939608234Its only weird if you make it weirdRealistically her answer will most likely be a no, but its always worth a shot.Just be a normal human about it and dont be pushy or creepy. A "hey youre cute and i was wondering if youd join me for coffee some day" is more than enough. Anything other than a "yea sure" or thereabouts means you gotta hit her with a "all good, i understand" and close that doorRemember a lot of people are shy about rejecting others, so if you feel any energy that isnt a clearly stated yes, it means shes trying to tell you no in a nice way
>>939602900If she says no then makes little joke of it by telling her that you’re going to ask her again. Keep it light. The next time you see her, you’ll know if she really isn’t into you and if she isn’t, just conduct your business with her normally. Rinse and repeat.
>>939602900Everyone here is saying, “just ask her out,” blah blah blah. I’m going to share my two cents. If you have talked to her beforehand and she seems keen or interested in talking to you beyond the casual “hello. Thank you,” then go for it. Ask her out.If you have never gone beyond saying hello and goodbye. Don’t ask her out. Instead, actually make some small chat and get to know her a bit. Make yourself familiar and then ask her out. No one in their right mind will say “yes” to go out when they don’t even know the other person beforehand.
>>939607687How are you going to ask her out? Have you actually had a few short conversations in passing with her? Do you know any of her hobbies?How much luck do you usually have with women? I'm asking these questions for a reason. I used to be a kind of a man hoe until a few years ago when I got married, so I'm one of the few guys on here that has a fairly high body count (~56-62 women. You lose track after a certain number)
>>939610275>No one in their right mind will say “yes” to go out when they don’t even know the other person beforehand.>No one in their right mindThis is a super important thing to remember when it comes to real life or bullshit pickup videos you see online. If someone says yes and they dont even know you, does that sound like a quality girl? She's probably insane, or acting for a video and saying yes was part of the script.
>>939610275>>939611873Yea OP, i would hope this is kinda implicit with the "ask her" comments, you gotta at least have some rapport built up, ideally at least some hint of her enjoying your presence
>>939609312>A "hey youre cute and i was wondering if youd join me for coffee some day"Unless you're both still in middle school, do not call a girl cute when asking her out. Adults don't do this in reality. If she even would say "yes" to this, then you are dealing with a woman who enjoys feeling validated based off acceptance of her looks and you do not want that. Unless youre in a movie, you only call a girl cute when you are obviously more attractive than she is and all you want to do with her is bang. Or if you're already in a relationshipwith her, of course.