How does one get a girlfriend in their late 20s/early 30s?I'm 29, I've been single for about 10 years, and haven't had any physical contact with a woman in at least 6 (might be 7 I've lost count).I've grown very lonely over the past decade but I've recently realized that I don't actually know how to pick up a girl.Even on the rare occasions when I have the courage to say something to a woman, I quickly realize that if she actually said yes I wouldn't even know what to do, especially if it turned sexual; it's just been too long.Any tips, anon?
>>9427662951. lower your standards. if you're this inexperienced, you won't land girls like in the pic. you should go for normal looking kinda cute but not the type that turn heads. when you're in a relationship it doesn't matter that much, so don't shoot yourself in the foot.2. use online dating sites, it's less stressful and after a while you can find your "style" of communicating.
>>942766554>when you're in a relationship it doesn't matter that muchwhat do you mean by this?>use online dating sitesarent these just hook up apps? Why put serious effort into a girl who's already slept around with double-triple digit worth of guys? Serious question
>>942766680>what do you mean by this?when you're with somebody you care about, whether they're a super hot girl or just normal and cute, doesn't matter that much. you're just making your life harder if you go after the girls that everybody wants.>arent these just hook up apps? Why put serious effort into a girl who's already slept around with double-triple digit worth of guys? Serious questionthere's plenty of sites that are more for dating than hookups, i've used bumble successfully in the past, for instance.as for the bodycount, i think it's one of the stupidest things for men to give a shit about. as long as it's safe (no stds), why in the world would i give a shit who she's been with in the past? it seems like loser talk, like you need her to have no experience so that she'll think you're ok. if anything it should be the opposite, if a girl that's been with many men wants to be with you, that means you're worth it, plus she'll know what she's doing in bed, so that's a plus.
>>942767905Idk, man. It seems like a bad deal is all. Like, why would I pay full price (commitment/marriage) when others guys hit and quit the girl? Like why pay full price for a car when it had 60 previous owners and 300,000 miles on it already? That's just what comes to mind, not that I'm not ok. This is pretty much why I've been wanting to stay single. I know it's a compromise on my peace and lifestyle to date, so I feel it should be worth the trade.> you're just making your life harder if you go after the girls that everybody wants.I guess life is just harder with any girl regardless. This is why I've stayed single. Life is pretty easy living alone. I even make good money so I hire someone to meal prep/clean at my place every weekend. Sometimes it just gets lonely and I think to get back in the swing of it but idk maybe it's just a young person venture. Better off giving up by college years. Just not worth it if you're only getting scraps after that.
>>942766295easy just date the friends of younger siblings theres always a decent chance ones got older brother fever. as long as you arent a digesting wretch shell gaslight herself into liking you
>>942768703If I had the opportunity might be dating but sadly my whole friend group have no pretty younger sisters. Picrel is me from a couple days ago, not gonna be turning any heads but still trying to stay in ok shape
>>942766295just say stupid shit, never overexplain, never ask how they are, never ask what they like, just say shit, i like this, i like that, ask a little about what they do on their day or they watched the new normie trend movie, then after a few days ask her out bluntly, "wanna get a drink?", "want to go out with me?", thats it be blunt, if you do all the "manual" shit whores and dudes say online you will not just waste time but they will probably friendzone you, whores respect more the dude who is blunt and direct than the dude that plays nice to get a date, also listen to this nigger >>942766554 go for fat bitches they usually have their bar the lowest, good luck
>>942768607you should stay off the places that put that incel mindset in your brain, man. all of this happened inside your brain: you decided that you're better off alone based on some totally made up concept of what a woman's worth based on the past. the past doesn't exist man. you just made a decision to be worse off.you can decide to not give a shit about the past, and try to connect to other fellow humans (women in this case). or, you can stay in your path and decide to be alone for literally no actual reason whatsoever. the door's there, your choice.
>>942769229you should be fine looks wise but do the sisters not have friends? also average and ugly girls have tight holes too my man and they are usually more open to being a submissive good wife
>>942766295>Make OKCupid account>Upload a shirtless photo>Send the same copy paste message to every chick about how how beautiful they are and how you had to reach out and ask if they're looking for a FWB>If they don't respond who cares>If they say yes you fuck them>If they say no, that means they're open and tell them no worries if you ever change your mind let me know.It's a numbers game. Fucked so many different chicks this way. You'd be surprised how many who say no eventually reach back out. Really easy to have a rotating list of fuck buddies.
>>942766295Is that Sadie?
>>942766295Just get a hooker here and there, women aren’t worth the hassle
>>942766295volunteer work like helping out for charity walks, holy shit, I did that like 2 years ago I fucked like 5 girls in a month. Two were married, one was a nurse, the other two were college girls and one of them was a screamer!
>>942770643what kind of volunteer work? Used to help in orphanages and retirement homes just to do something good, never dated from it though. Maybe dog shelters? Not sure.
>>942770775food banks like unloading trucks or putting food in trunks. charity walks like handing out water bottles and shit. Look on craigslist for volunteer work. You also can't be a dork, play it cool and casual.