I lost my virginity at 11 and aside from missing the experience I don't feel traumatized.When I mention it I get told I got raped, though I really wasn't.AMAPic unrelated
>>949164193Hahaha! You got RIP'd. RAPED. A RIP. A hippie to the hip hip hop and they don't stop rapin'
>>949164193did you seek out more of the same after?
>>949164193What's your gender?Lost it to who of what age? If you lost it to a 12 year old I wouldn't call that rape. Schoolmate or relative?Problem with the word "rape" is it has 2 meanings:1. Primary meaning involves use of force/coercion along with lack of consent.2. Secondary meaning involves no force or coercion, but is used as a legal technicality when even a willing person is too young to consent.The first meaning involves an experience with is highly traumatic regardless of age.The second meaning when applied to say a 17 year old who really should be old enough to consent but isn't because of a legal technicality, diminishes the seriousness of the word "rape". 17 year olds who had sex willingly usually don't report trauma from the experience when questioned about it.
>>949164300Obligatory rape comment, check. Thanks anon>>949164402Yeah but just with her, we kept doing it for a couple years. Well, that and other things like just playing, watching movies, etc. it was nice. Never been with anyone else, though
>>949164526M, and to a friend and (relatively close) neighbor, she was 16 at the time.Well yes it was technically rape in the legal sense, I think. Given we were both underage I am not particularly sure how strictly that would apply. Regardless I did know what was going on and she asked me a lot if I was sure.
>>949164653>Given we were both underage I am not particularly sure how strictly that would apply.It varies by state but it usually doesn't become a big deal until one person is 18 or over.I know at least half the 12 year old boys in my 7th grade class fantasized about having sex with our hot 22 year old teacher. The idea of any of us being traumatized by that is laughable to me, but she of course would get in a lot of trouble for sex with students, as other teachers have done.
>>949165377It would seem like a legally gray area. Though, yes I mostly get told I was raped in a more "you were forced into it" way, which I can guarantee I didn't. The biggest trauma I can count is simply the longing which still hasn't stopped, not only from the sex but just everything else in general. Loneliness is a bitch.
>>949164653Thats fucking hotstory?
>>949165681I absolutely fucking suck at stories or greentexts, I don't even know where to start from. It's not a no, just a simple I don't know how to say it.
>>949165497>Loneliness is a bitch.It can be if you're on the gregarious or extrovert end of the interpersonal spectrum.I'm on the introvert end of the spectrum, and was sort of required by my work to go against my nature, and interact with so many people, not only at work, but then even social gatherings after work, so I found myself longing for solitude. So, loneliness is not a bitch for me, but I can understand how it can be for people with other personality types.
>>949165811Traumatized extrovert, I do want and need socialization but due to several unrelated things happening in my life I struggle a lot to find any connections, aside from the very obvious autism.I do have some friends but they're usually busy and doesn't quite help for my need of physical touch, I don't even mean sexual, I just want to cuddle.Otherwise I very rarely interact with people as I have lots of anxiety and a severe depression, so… not exactly ideal.
>>949165681To make it clear if you want to ask anything about it you can, I'd like to talk about it I just don't do it well on my own
>>949164193I mean, missing the experience can be a form of trauma response. A lot of people don't know until after they've grown and learned more that they were living with trauma. You also haven't given us any details of the situation, which is kind of telling.
>>949166747I'm not opposed to being more specific, I simply don't know what to say.Besides that, though that's an incredibly… well, I can't think of another word but stupid way of simplifying it, yes I do have some trauma of missing someone that meant a lot to me both physically and emotionally, who helped me when I felt bad and taught me several things I still use day to day… I'd say being indifferent towards that would be weirder.
>>949166965>I simply don't know what to sayBut if anyone wants to ask I'll just answer, unless I'm particularly uncomfortable with the question but otherwise just ask away
>>949167028So what was this girl like? How did you meet or know her?
>>949164653Think you can describe this chick? Anything like pic related?
>>949167361Physically or mentally?Well as to how we met… mostly pure chance, I was having a particularly terrible day and I went running to a street where I knew nobody to cry alone, she just happened to go outside to do something but after she saw me she stayed for a good while to talk with me until I felt better. Couldn't possibly tell you how long it was but it felt like at least an hour, but it's hard to know.
>>949167471Wow, ok.Well aside from I think her skin tone? Not too similar but also not very different. It's hard to know with the yellow lighting.Aside from that though, yes very very pale skin, dirty blonde hair which was a bit longer than the girl in the picture… well, she also used glasses but half moons. More busty and less… thighs-y?… She didn't use long socks…Aside from that she had a slightly rounder face I think? Similar lips too, but not quite, I am not exactly sure how to describe it.
>>949167606That's cute. Both physically and mentally, if you have the time. Show a pic of a similar looking girl if you can.Did you get a chance to do it again with her? How did your relationship go on after that day?
>>949167606Since I already said it physically, well, she was pretty smart though very shy too, she used to speak super quietly too. Extremely kind and even if full of anxiety she loved teaching me things she knew about, or just ramble on about topics she liked. More, too but I think that's a good general idea
>>949167800Oh, yes several times, we kept seeing each other for a couple years after that. It wasn't particularly hard as she was left home alone almost every single day and no one at my home particularly minded if I didn't show up until the night since it was a really safe area.Afterwards though she got more… I guess playful? She really liked playing with my hair, slowly but basically as long as I let her. She also kept trying to hug and kiss me more, not necessarily mouth to mouth just generally kisses. Definitely more physical affection than anything verbal.We also got more open with each other about more personal things, didn't always went anywhere but it was nice to have someone to talk with. Aside from that though we used to watch movies and play videogames, mostly Mario Kart. It was nice
>>949168040Forgot the "similar looking girl"… I don't really have many pictures of anything saved but, I did come across a drawing that reminded me of her a lot, not exactly since… well it's a drawing of a character but, the general "vibe"It's actually one of the few images I have favorited on my album, it's particularly the tired eyes and the hair.
>>949167890So was she more demure or a like a goth girl? What did you get to do with her when you were doing the deed?
>>949168247Very demure, just tired eyes, though they got brighter with time.She used pretty baggy clothes, no designs just shirts and sweatpants, that kind of thing.>What did you get to do with her when you were doing the deed?What do you mean?
>>949168309How'd she initiate? How did she start the sex and what was the first thing you guys did?I'll post my first conquest when we get to the end of yours. My story is not that all that exciting, we stayed virgins after that, lol.
i also lost mine at 12 OP but it was to an 11 year old i was a year older than my grade not quite the same as your situation
>>949168451Oh, I see.Well, if you mean the first time at first it was just fondling each other (which, at that point we had done a couple times), kisses, licking, cuddling a little. When she suggested it I felt… I wouldn't exactly say panicked but, maybe more than surprised? Not at the idea itself but it actually happening, I really wanted to do it but also didn't want to seem desperate which I probably did anyway, honestly. We talked about it a little and well, we ended up doing it, missionary? Well, I was basically on top of her while she hugged me tightly and I ended up not lasting even a minute but it felt extremely intense, I retried after I gained some breath and again didn't really last. She told me it was ok and, after that I slowly built more "lasting" power, if I can call it anything. But, that day it was mostly just that, I didn't even really do much of anything but I felt drained
>>949168571Tell us the deets man!All my pics are girls 18+, officer. Just setting the mood of this thread.
>>949164193You were raped on a technicality. Doesn't really matter because the real harm comes from child support crap. I've been sexually assaulted by women and gotten no trauma from it. Divorce rape and slavery via CS is far far worse. So you got the upside of F/M rape with no downside. Congrats on gaining EXP. >>949164550Should have turned that EXP into game son, you got an early start. But it was teen sex, so honestly you can't really get hotter than that. >>949164653State determines, but this would be ignored completely because the female is older and they hate female accountability in courts. Your parents would have to have made a massive stink about it to even make it to court.
>>949168794Thanks, I think?I'm not really interested in "game" though I just really want a stable relationship.I still don't think the word rape applies here aside from legal terms though
>>949168753Did you guys do any oral sex or was being handsy enough to get you guys going? Did you already know how to insert your penis or did she help you in? It sounds like she let you cum inside her, is that what happened or did you ejaculate outside of her?
>>949168973Yes, both ways, before and after that. In big part though just handsy.She helped me but it wasn't super difficult to actually figure out, way wamer than I expected to feel though.I couldn't really ejaculate then, just dry orgasms, but still in hindsight we probably should have been more careful. I didn't really go through puberty until mid 15 I think?
>>949164193Nah you got raped, you just werent forcibly raped. That's the whole concept behind statutory raped. An older person exploited you even if you werent traumatized by it
>>949169224>Rape: to force someone to have sex when he or she is unwillingIgnore the law for a moment, just morally or anything else, how would it even be rape?
>>949168783its not that exciting tbh im M shes F, but we were friends all through grade school, and over the last year she stole her dads porno mags and we looked through them to together. wondered how any of the weird positions works she thought it was gross to put a penis in mouth. nothin really came of that too much but over the summer we slept over at each others houses and my paretns didnt care if we slept together for whatver reason. wed change in front of each other no problem and wed chill in my bed and play pokemon. at her place her parents were less chill and we slept seperately, but on the fateful night she was "scared" of some sound idk and snuck into the room i was sleeping asked me to come to her room. i followed and she told me some ghost story i honestly dont remember. i just teased her a little and tickled her which started a wrestling match which ended with her on top of me. i asked well now what and she kissed me. we awkardly took our clothes off and explored each others bodies a bit. her hands were very cold but i still got diamond hard. putting it in was harder than i figured itd be the magazines made it seem like it just went inside but it took a few gentle nudges to get in but neither of us knew what to do next really. so we awkardly lay there and kissed. even without moving though i blew a huge load inside her which immediately surpised and grossed her out. we laid together for a bit then i had to sneak back to my room. unbeknowst to me though at the end of summer she moved away. she never told me she was moving or said goodbye
>>949169224I want to be statutorily raped by a 16 year old girl who thinks I'm cute. I'd have to be 13 at a minimum to be knowledgeable/interested enough with making it as great of an experience as I could, though.>>949168753Nice. Funny how you just dry came at that time, I figure spermarche would be around that age. I bet that's part of why she picked you as a partner though, figured you were safer. So when did it end? Or are you still friends?>>949169380Fuckin' perfect. Shame you guys didn't go for another round. Bittersweet ending, that's how these things go, don't it? What did she look like? No CP.
>>949169870I'd rather not give too many specifics on how it ended. But we parted ways due to things outside of our control really abruptly, in part that's also why I wanted to talk somewhere since I've never really mentioned it to friends or much less family.At some point I guess I should consult a therapist since the longing still aches a lot but I don't really know what or how to say it. I'd rather just think of what happened and not how it ended, right now at least.
>>949164193i rapped a coulpe in my day
Alas........ I was an ugly awkward child.Even the Catholic priests didn't want to fuck me.
>>949169311>Ignore the law for a moment, just morally or anything else, how would it even be rape?If you ignore the law for a moment, it's not rape. It's only statutory rape because the law says so (in some states).But even in states where it's statutory rape, it would be extremely uncommon for either party to face statutory rape charges if both are minors (unless the parents made a really big stink about it for some reason, and even then, the parties may just receive counseling instead of a prosecution or conviction).
>>949170006I think I know how you feel. What do you want to get out that you'd want someone to know? Hoiw she made you feel? Little details about how she was or looked like that stuck with you?
>>949170714Well I really enjoyed being able to both talk with her for hours about things we liked and also stay completely quiet also for hours doing nothing but watching something and cuddling, so in good part the fact that I didn't need to pretend to be someone else and her being comfortable enough to let me see her even when she was at her messiest.Though physically I have a really big thing for tall girls and large breasts, secondly pale skin. But, I'm not closed to only that it's just a strong preference.Sadly those three traits are rare where I live
>>949169224you're just raping language. it's "statutory rape" in the legal sense only, which means there's no logically conceptual sense in which they were raped. in the case of "statutory rape", no person can said to have ACTUALLY been raped because the definition of "rape" isn't even forcible sex—it's sex without choice. "statutory" literally means "by decree of a formally established legislative authority" i.e., "the state". if some random asshole came to your house & decided you committed fraud and have to return any money you received from your employer because they misread your name on your onboarding paperwork, would you respect their definition of the word "fraud"? the word "statutory" has no semantic value between individuals, so trying to tell someone they were "statutorily raped" is about as FUCKING STUPID as it gets.
>>949171377Thanks anon
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>>949169870oh she was a tomboy so athletic body with light brown hair, light hazel eyes and weirdly her hands were smaller and her feet were longer idk why i remember that. her ears kinda stuck out a little bit and she had light freckles all over her body. she was the same height as me and she had a little bit of body hair like i did and she had a little bit of a chest coming in
>>949168783who is she?
>>949169311>just morally or anything else, how would it even be rapeBecause its a decision youre too young to make and its a moral duty of those older to not exploit the younger. Same reason you shouldn't be able to cut your dick off or get a tattoo until a certain age. Its violation of a basic a normative ethical basis and if you make an exception to this instance you make an exception for all others. Not to mention your outcome js unusual since ive known a few guys who got ss'd and they were pretty fucked up from it and thats the main reason why we wait until a certain age
>>949171377Pedo cope
>>949168783Do you have any more pictures of an 18-year-old girl like that?
>>949172498Not anyone else, just me. I understood what was going on and thought in hindsight we should have been more careful how was I exploited?Don't get me wrong, it is obviously a lot easier to force in any way an eleven years old to do anything, same with beating them up, however that doesn't mean every interaction is either forceful or traumatic. 18 is a good enough average cut off for the general population because it's more or less when most people somewhat know what they're doing, but obviously not all. There is nothing inherently special about being 18, and, yes I was physically underdeveloped even for my age but I'm only talking about forcefulness of any kind.
>>949172313>>949172576No idea, I think I found this on on /b/. This is clearly a posed model though. Look her up on Tineye I guess.>>949172237Sounded like she was a cutie! I imagine she would have grown up into a normal looking if boyish woman.>>949172498I suppose it depends on what happened and how much autonomy the kid had at the time. Best as I can imagine, little kids really shouldn't be messed with unless it's with someone closer in age that they consent to, boys being more flexible as to who they consent to.
Well I'm going to have to go for a while and probably won't be able to answer for a while, but if anyone wants to keep talking I'll leave my discord here.@redbeurrePeace and see you later /b/
How the hell is this thread still alive after an hour and a half of nothing? /b/ is a lot slower lately, huh.>>949173873Anyway that's a really good looking one
>>949164193This fucking LARP thread again>underage kids like having sex promise!kys pedo
>>949177596Ignoring everything else… I like tall women and large breast how would that even make me the pedo in this situation?
>>949177788he's a resident schizo who does nothing but accuse people of being a pedo, which in all likelihood means that he's a pedo. ignore.
>>949177890Fair enough. Well, time to keep refreshing this thread and… nothing else for now.
>>949164193You forgot to say that you got raped by a nigger at 11 y.o. LMMFAO!
>>949180288I'm sorry anon, your experiences aren't universal
>>949172541you could technically use my argument to make a pro-pedophilia argument, but then you'd be in the woodchipper; furthermore, if you think statutory rape laws are about stopping pedophiles, you're a fucking idiot. how many laws do we have on the books already about this? at least 15 at the federal level? there is no state in the US that doesn't have laws on the books specifically about sex acts with a minor, and they've all got enhancements. I just sort of assumed all of this was obvious, but I forgot where I was for a moment.
>>949164193too bad being raped didn't accelerate your sexual characteristic development as those titties are pathetic
>>949182579I think they're nice looking
>>949182579>pic unrelatedtypical
>>949164193you're a male and you got molested by another male didn't you?
>>949171377thats not really accurate.the word statutory brings into play that society, and law, have made determinations about the ability to consent due to their age.you are wrong. simple as.
>>949164653post pics of her
>>949186803Not molested, but by a girl. I'm surprised the thread is still going.>>949189969I don't even have any
>>949164193I have a similar story. M aunt took my virginity when I was 13, she was 17. She was my babysitter for years and she pretty much groomed me. I don’t regret it but I do feel like I didn’t have a choice.
>>949190206Interesting, how is your relationship with her now?
