think about you getting a 6/10 girl with a normal IQ but she struggles with everything due to untreated mental illness (such as adhd, Autism, bipolar, bpd, agoraphobia, dependent personality disorder, etc) but her only goal in life is to get married and form a family.would you consider having a basically extremely attention seeking, hardcore kinky, people placer that probably her whole social life would be you wife?
are you asking if I'd marry someone too stupid to work? because that's a hard no
>>949183501Yes, absolutely and without question. That's basically everything I'm looking for in a woman.
there's a massive difference between mentally disabled and mentally ill. but yes
>>949183501probably yeah
>>949183501No skitso, bipolar, or anything dissociative like that. Personally I would not be able to provide the kind of care that person would need.I already have agarophobia; I drink whenever I go outside. But I'm pretty sure that's because I'm a neurotic no fapper and that issue would resolve with sex.I totally would adopt a cute loser mentally messed up girl who wants to breed...
>>949183501None of the things you mentioned are deal breakers, anon. But ask yourself this. Will you grow resentful of her shortcomings? When she has an emotional breakdown or panic attack, and you have to make that your priority on a Sunday afternoon when there were projects you wanted to get done? Can you forgive her and be patient with her? Or will you grow resentful?And more importantly, in the moments when you do feel a bit of resentment creeping in (thinking to yourself "Fuck, why do I have to do everything around here," or "I get she's upset but do we really need the weeping and whining and throwing things around?"), the will you be able to tell her?Because that's the only way to prevent serious resentment. When small resentments come, can you say to her, "Hey hon, I am happy to be there for you, and I choose to make sacrifices for that. But I also wanted to let you know that I was frustrated that I didn't get the project done, and I was feeling some resentment towards you."And can she hear that without getting defensive?This is the important stuff. How well can you be honest with yourselves and each other about difficult emotions.
