for the past 15 - 20 years (lost count honestly) i have been doing almost nothing but playing video games, smoking weed (on and off) and watching stupid shit on youtube and netflix...i don't pay for any of it, my parents pay for everything...the thing is, i don't even want to be living this way, i would so much rather be able to reasonably support myself, pay for anything that needs to be paid, pay for groceries, etc. ... i would very much like to, one day, have a son or daughter...but all of that does not seem like a realistic option at all, considering i'm 35 and still can't survive without my parents paying for everything...what steps should i be taking to get closer to having my shit together?
>>950846944Get a job
>>950846944You need to get out of your patternVolunteer, get literally any job (even those scam jobs) and join a gymMake yourself uncomfortable
>>950847053>volunteerdon't care about people>join a gymhave in the past, it's a waste of money
>>950847129It doesn't matter what you like to do, you need to do annoying things you don't like, uncomfortable thingsOutside of your comfort zone because it's killing youI've been in your shoes, literally just pick one annoying thing to do. Build a bird house, fucking something difficult
>>950846944Sounds like a prompt for chatgpt. But you posted it here instead of there?
>>950847991you wanna push my shit together?
>>950847053I got an uncomfortable job and everyone just hates me there.
>>950848348the other anon doesn't know what he's talking about...i am not understanding how putting myself into uncomfortable situations is supposed to fix anything
>>950848385>I don't understand how not eating tendies and playing Xbox is going to do anything You losers are a joke
>>950846944Kill yourself. Solves your problem and ours.
>>950848837let's just say i don't eat like a pig, or play video games...then what? what would it change, not doing those things?
>>950846944Get a comfy gf to enjoy doing nothing with. Make art and such. Hang out where the cops wont get you. Also don't do drugs.
>>950848960Literally doesn't matter any suggestion you're going to write off as stupid because you're depressed.You're what they call a drowning baby
I like how no one asked if you’re a man or woman.
>>950849054didn't answer my question
>>950849054Nah. He's fine. You're gay. "They" are gey 2.Just get fit. Being a slave is overrated and you don't save anything doing it.
>>950846944you're fucked you'll be alone for the rest of your life
>>950849389do i have a mental disorder or something?
>>950849068That does matter. If you’re a women there is hope, but if you’re a man, it’s over.
>>950846944I was on my way to becoming this when I was 22. I just wanted to sit at home and read books all day. I knew I needed to change. I needed the kind of change that happens when the choice to run and quit is taken away from you.I went to a Navy recruiter and started the enlistment process. I got exactly what I wanted. Being a lazy piece of shit was no longer an option. With an ASVAB score of 92 I pretty much had my pick of career paths so I picked CTN.Now I'm 42 and weighing the options of retirement vs continuing my career. Honestly I just want to sit at home with my wife and read books again. It's been a hell of a career though.
>>950850924Wow. You threw away your life for money. How stupid.
>>950850954Oh no! I'm 42 and all I have to show for it is a wife and two children, 20 years of technical and leadership experience, a retirement pension of 40k/year, a fat TSP account, a health VA disability rating and a guaranteed 150k/year civilian job. Nice troll, but I've seen better.
>>950851250I have that exact same stuff but also a unicorn. Lying on the internet is fun.
>>950846944Are you the dude who posted something similar yesterday but with a pic of Himiko Toga? Heed the advice that was given and fuck off
>>950849068Women don't talk about getting their shit together. They talk about finding a man who has his shit together
