Came back from Germany recently and Im mentally crushed about the fact how theyre so fucking tall especially the zoomers like Im talking 180cm or 190cm + whereas Im a manlet that doesnt even reach 165cm and Im supposed to be moving permanently there soonLife is so fucked up
180 is the average zoomer male height sis, since when 180 is fucking tall
>>23347503First of all Im not your "sis", I am a manSecondly, its tall compared to me
>>23347510you would get mentally crushed in any other part of the world (outside of asia) the same way if you're actually below 165, it's not even that rare for zoomer women to be 170cm+ these days
>>23347522I know zoomers are tall, but in Serbia it wasnt this apparent but Germany basically killed any hope I had for romance
>>23347529all my peers that have ever visited serbia always tell that all serbians are 2 meter tall football jocks and that they all feel tiny compared to them despite being like 185 so i guess you just got fucked genetically and you should just reallocate your mental energy from finding a partner to breed with to getting money and becoming rich and successful instead
>>23347541Im not smart or lucky enough to focus on earning lots of money, I just want sex and a relationship
>>23347548nah i'm sure you will be fine, everything is possible and achievable if you put your mind to it and lock in and having sex usually correlates with being successful in life and having money so if you pull yourself up in one domain of life all the remaining neglected ones will soon follow, it is scientifically empirically proven to work almost all the time
>>23347565If this was actually true how come chads have sex daily even while technically are losers of society but I never even held hands with a woman
>>23347570that's the thing though, most conventional chads are extremely normie minded and they don't just sit around and post on social media, they go out and do shit and constantly brew in their social circles and constantly socialise and make connections, if you spent all your high school and university years doing that i guarantee you you would've experienced relationships at the very least once but the truth is a lot of people are just not built for this type of exhausting social activities and it's absolutely fine especially if you're under 25, if you're above 25 then well there's a lot of single women of your age that would immediately jump your ship if you just tell them that you don't drink and have a stable job and a flat you consistently pay out mortgages for and you don't have to like scan all the local night clubs 24/7 and socially whore yourself out in order to meet these women, you just have to exist and life will throw you a bone eventually and opportunities will arise you just have to recognise them as such in time
>>23347583Im 19 and have autism
>>23347596that complicates things a little but you literally have your entire life ahead of you, being 19 in this economy is like being 16 or 15 ten years ago so you really should just stop stressing out about all that irrelevant crap and focus on your future and your career and your wellbeing and things will come or you will at least understand yourself and the world around you better as you grow older and the things that bother you now will seem completely laughable and childish in just 2 or 3 years
Every time I see these 2 flags together they're always talking about big chad men
>>23347601Well I am gonna migrate so thats something for a better economy, but its still soul crushing being a khhv chud manlet while everyone else is a sex having chad with soft haremsI dont want hand me down scraps of pussy
>>23347495My dad is 165cm tall (Same height as me) and He still managed to breed a bitch with fat tits (my momI think you Not being able to breed is a Skill issue, you can compensate height with Other stuff
>>23347601Why are you hopemaxxing with a 19 yo autist in Europe, don't you have any less cruel things to do
>>23347619i'm sure ethnic german women or even other immigrant women in general are way more open minded about non-chad men and virgins and people with autism, won't know if you won't try >>23347707our global society would be way more healthy and there would be way less schizophrenics both in real life and on the internet if people understood and were more aware of these simple truths
>>23347744This is a very isolated issue and there's no really fixing it except for coping and accepting that some will have to put in way more effort than others for suboptimal results
>>23347744I think the Main issue Here is really Just the autism usually German women Like men from These dirty poor yugo countries even If they are ugly as sin To be fair though He would have greater shots If He was bosnian and Just went to some Muslim Girls father and asked If He could buy her (that comes with its own Set of issues though)
>>23347761most of your issues really are just in your head and it's always a matter of perception, you could be completely asexual and be devoid of any like social feelings and emotions and expectations and still live a perfectly normal fully functional life and be happy with your situation, people always look at these things as a strict "you're either a chad or a beta incel autist" dichotomy but you can just always chose the third option and not play this game at all be be normal and live your life proactively and not reactively
>>23347495>Im a manlet that doesnt even reach 165cmshave your ass and prepare to bottom for the germ 190cm chad. your alternative is either that or some working immigrant girl from 4th world country like portugal, laos, phillipines or whatever else
>>23347847I know a few autists, some better and some less. I can tell you that none of them are virgins I think but none of them have any chance at a non toxic lasting relationship either. Or don't tell me you actually thought this was about me because I AM NOT AN INCEL MANLET I always said the issue lies with ME
>>23347879>he immediately derails the conversation and makes it about himself out of nowhere holy narcissism and you can never say for sure because you just have no idea what might happen in the next like 10 years, maybe those autistic non-virgins wouldn't even want to be in a relationship after all of their youth bravado and pussy lust fully fades out and dissolves and that's what i'm arguing for here - just don't stress out and live your life slowly and quietly and mindfully and eventually things will sort themselves out or you will at least get to the mental maturity condition where you will be able to efficiently sort those things out yourself without like going crazy and losing your mind, most people really just have no fucking idea what the fuck they actually want out of their lives and it's completely fine and you shouldn't go radical or nuclear about that and do dumb inconsiderate things at the expense of your mental or physical health
>>23348064I want a wife and kids
>>23348064While I agree with the mindset at the end you can't choose what you want, and while the pussylust may fade only extremely few lucky people can actually enjoy their life as solitary creatures without love, affection and attention. The effect where you desire what you don't have or didn't have during youth only makes this worse.
>>23348077At 19?Sorry but perhaps really consider getting a stable job First, a own Apartment that has Space for 2 people Take Ur Patience with finding a girl that fits to you, its Not a Race Also Take into consideration that If you really want Kids you will have to Provide, you will infact have a Lot of financial worries because people actually depend on you and you will have to send Ur Kids to private Kindergarten (unless you want em beaten By Muslim Kids) so that are also expenses to Take into consideration Put Ur Focus on Work First and remember If she isnt talking about marrying you within 1 year of dating she is Prob Not that interested
>>23348077if you genuinely want to start a family and have kids because you view it as some absolute ultimate virtue then you will absolutely achieve that if you start making small step towards that by just going out and physically seeing people and being a nice person to be around, if you only want to start a family because people around you do that and tell you to do so or if you feel pressured into finding a partner because i don't know what will happen then that's not a really good incentive and it will just make you more frustrated with things and lead you to become more alienated and demoralised and hopeless which is not a good thing so you gotta know to distinguish between that >>23348079you can't straight up command your mind or emotions most of the time but you can definitely train it and you can have a great degree of control over it if you just understand that all that matters in this life ultimately is your wellbeing and being sad and depressed over things that are mostly out of your control like your appearance or your height or your genetics or other people's opinions about you or how they treat you is a bit counterproductive and bad for your wellbeing and overthinking about that usually does you more harm than it could actually cause you in reality
>>23348106You say the mind can be trained to follow the rational pursuit of wellbeing, but in the end even your desires are irrational. How does it make sense that having sex boosts ones wellbeing despite it being such a waste of energy and time in terms of socializing? It's simply because one thinks so. Happiness and fulfillment are interchangeable. Of course dwelling and agonizing over things that will not change are the most inefficient and short term gratification way of coping, but that wouldn't even be necessary if society wouldn't gaslight children on fairness and equality so hard
>>23348152the desire to live a good and happy life is absolutely rational and it's like the second thing your mind defaults to after the regular basic plain survival and all i'm saying is that why just not make it easier on yourself by pruning all the unnecessary irrelevant fears and thoughts and feelings and just being content with what you are and what you feel right now in the moment, you can try to turn down your humanity and just kill yourself or live some extremely destructive and miserable life but 99% of people usually choose to not do that because coping and surviving no matter what is the fundamental principle of our existence so whatever makes you tick and go on will always be rational it's just that you're the one who perceives that and you're the one who decides what's good and bad for you and usually things that positively affect your life are way easier to find and experience and they're always way less complex and less sophisticated you just gotta condition yourself to see and understand that, you have to really go out of your way to have a shitty life in 90% of the countries and societies of today's world since life is ultimately positively biased because if it wasn't then we'd all be dead
>>23348211I don't want to further talk past each other but it's great you're doing better and I hope you can actually implement your optimistic ideas in your life
>>23348234bro just got tired of yapping, i've addressed enough of your points and i've already layed out all of my points so i didn't want to just repeat the same thing again that having things in your life that don't make you kill yourself is good and you should stride to cultivating more of these things in your life because everything that keeps you going is rational and everything that worsens your life is irrational and it's completely fine to be bipolar and feel shitty and suicidal one day and then hope and rational maxx the next day
>>23348252I wasn't yapping I was trying to apply Schopenhauer's arguments to your posts but you where just talking all over the place and I've grown out of my teenage disagreeableness towards optimism anyways. But I still have to mention that rationality has little to do with what is best for you, it's actually just accepting the truth weather it benefits you or not. He said "You may use rationality to calculate the best way to satisfy a desire, but you don’t rationally choose the desire itself." but I already brought that up anyways. Not like this is an objective truth either so whatever
>>23348276i think living is the one objectively unconditionally good and desired thing no matter what moral and philosophical compass you adhere to and dying is the one objectively bad and undesirable thing so everything that helps you live will always be morally good and rational and everything that makes you die will always be immoral and irrational and your opinion is as valid and correct as mine or everyone else's it's just that your individual personal desires may be irrational or dumb or short sighted or whatever but they should always be overwritten by your main most important desire to just exist and be in good health and have good things in your life and be surrounded by good people once they surpass this bad for your mind threshold and tread into the bad for your health/threatening your life territory and this is where i say that you can easily train your mind to avoid having these desires and ideas and it's not that hard and you really should always just zoom out and understand that your life is not unique in and of itself but it's uniquely yours and you will never have a second chance so doing everything that is in your power to maintain your best health and grip on reality will always be the way to go that you should default to when you're going through a shitty period in your life and think that you don't amount to anything or that nothing matters and you're just somehow destined to live this shitty life forever which is just never true and it's always just some cognitive distortion thing that isn't real and can easily be self-treated through just being honest with yourself and understanding all of the things i've mentioned above
>>23348439Erm buddy this is simply not true. Virtually every philosophical framework that is not influenced by Christian values came to the conclusion that it is better to be dead and at peace than to live while suffering. Many even going as far as to say that life is not worth living. We are not animals, you know why? Have you ever seen an animal that died for something such as "honor"? While we might be the most rationally thinking creatures, ironically, at the same time we posses the most irrational desires
I should add that the ones that don't affirm that way of thinking are philosophies that literally romanticize suffering.
>>23347495no woman will ever love youevery woman is a whore, buy a fucking hooker so you stop obsessing over retarded whores you dumbass tar black nigger slavshit retard
>>23348477uhm you can structure your life in a way that you won't have to suffer no matter what happens to you unless you're literally homeless and like dying from aids and your legs are rotting off due to frostbite which usually doesn't happen overnight and if that happens to you then well you definitely made a few wrong turns somewhere in the past and i do understand that my world view that i'm pushing here is absolutely not the most all-encompassing and it might not be the most academically sound one but it's at the very least consistent and easy to follow and understand and yeah people die and get killed over the most dumb and irrelevant stuff all the time, this is just life and it's an important facet of it that i'm not trying to ignore here it's just that you have no fucking agency over that (unless we're talking about the honor thing and patriotism and self-sacrificing and stuff like that which is once again a matter of perception and values you uphold) and i just don't wanna think about that and stress myself out over it and i recommend doing the same to everyone in here which was my original point, there's a lot of things in life that you don't have any say in and it's fine and you have to learn to cope with that if you don't wanna go crazy
>>23348540NO, YOU CAN NOT SIMPLY RESTRUCTURE YOUR LIFE IN A WAY THAT YOU DON'T SUFFER IF THE CAUSE OF YOUR SUFFERING IS THE ABSENCE OF SOMETHING YOU CAN'T ATTAIN
>>23349101bro is a modern day philosopher i swear to god and i don't really wanna "win" this debate and i didn't want this to be a debate in the first place because you can easily just stir it into the realm of real philosophy which would immediately spell my defeat because i don't even remember what was the last real philosophical work i read and how many moons ago it was so i guess yeah suffering in some form is inevitable but you sure as hell can minimise it and just not care about things you cannot attain
>>23349147I would never dare to call myself a philosopher since all I am is a pleb who hopes to get answers that don't exist without the capacity to create anything of value on my own. An actual philosopher would try to discourse differently
Okay but how does this philosophical argument help me get sex
>not reading the restI just did an internship at an Oberschule (basically American highschool without the 17 and 18 year olds). Quite a few of the students were just below my height. So they still had to look up at me. But at 185cm at 26, it's weird that I'm looking rarely eye-to-eye with a 16 year old boy or girl.
>>23347510sorry but with that height you are a "sis"
>>23349297that's how you become an actual philosopher, you plebmaxx for 30 years in a row and eat up all the science table scraps and then one day you wake up and magically turn into a famous accredited peer-reviewed mainstream writer >>23349365it will help you realise that it's all in your hands and you're the master of your own destiny and if you're really desperate you can always just whip out your wallet
>>23349391>>23349395Respect my manliness damn itSucks that society hates manlets
>>23349441I have never seen a normie manlet that was single... Your enemy is the autism lil bro
>>23349441seething schizophrenics on 4chan and ragebaiters are not the society though and innacious banter that you might experience in real life is just innacious banter
>>23347495>165cmshow tummy
