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you guys ever start missing someone so much that you start shaking though
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>>23639787
I’m like this with my fren gud, he was the realest nigga in the gmod server till I got banned for calling cops niggers
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no im not a queer
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>>23639805
I know a guy called gud in cord server, he tried to get me to cut his name on my thigh when I larped as a 11 yr old
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>>23639787
sounds like a manipulative abuser
best to move on and work on yourself
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>>23639846
i cant move on
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>>23639880
how long ago?
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>>23639924
too long
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>>23640036
is there something specific you miss or just lonely
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>>23639787
I really miss a friend I have an on and off friendship with, but this time i really think i ended it for real. I'm really sad because I basically don't have anyone else. He was the only person I felt relaxed around and could bullshit with.
What do I do know? He blocked me on everything. Should i move on?
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>>23640105
forgot the image
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>>23640105
>>23640109
why did he block you?? Dont fucking move on if you value that friend you need to make things right before you regret this for the rest of your life
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>>23640105
So you are gay
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i miss many of my friends so much too, but i dont think theres any coming back for most of my friendships. its just over. i wish i wasnt a bpd idiot
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>>23639787
*hug*
>>23639805
rip
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>>23640127
>i miss many of my friends so much too, but i dont think theres any coming back for most of my friendships. its just over. i wish i wasnt a bpd idiot
you can always reach out to them again, but it may or may not be a good idea
just don't think it's NECESSARILY "over", you could change it on paper if you forced yourself to
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>>23640105
>>23640109
>but this time i really think i ended it for real
what did you do?
i havent had a friend in over 15 years

>>23640127
forming and finding friends is hard

>>23640131
too scary
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i wish greek anon will be happy someday.
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>>23640131
>>23640149
im a horrible person. some things are better left untouched
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>>23640119
>>23640149
>what did you do?
I chose the side of another friend that i don't even talk to and told them I lied about believing them.
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>>23640149
>>23640183
that is fine
shouldn't try to force yourself if it seems like a bad idea
but the nice thing is the option will always be open, even 10 years from now :)
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>>23640185
unless it was about something very serious, this sounds like petty drama, and im sure your friend will understand and forgive you, if you show that he means a lot to you. I don't think this is a good reason to end a real friendship.
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>>23640194
>10 years
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>>23640183
i doubt you're as horrible as you think you are
unless you rape and/or murder then no
>some things are better left untouched
this can be true, but we learn and we grow
have you ever heard the 'hot coal' analogy?

>>23640185
mistakes happen and apologies go a long way
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>>23640299
but the hot coal analogy is about holding on to anger trying to hurt others. im trying to stop the cycle.
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>>23640299
I did apologize, but nothing came of it. They seemed set on cutting me off.
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>>23640305
>hot coal analogy is about holding on to anger
its an analogy about hanging onto something, so resentments, anger of self, doubts, hate, or towards others all apply here
>trying to hurt others
its more about the self, not others
holding that hot coal in your hand it will smolder forever and continue to burn you and hurt
until you open your hand and let it cool

easily said <3

>>23640310
thats on them then, sorry anon



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