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I am 22F. I have no friends, in real life OR online. I tried to meet people off /soc/ but I got too overwhelmed and ghosted everyone.

I live in a sea port town in eastern Canada. I definitely won’t find irl friends here. But I can’t even have an online friend?

People talk about being friends with someone for 10+ years, how? Hell, even 1+ year. What do you mean you met your online friend 3 years ago and you’re still online friends.

I don’t do anything bad that makes them not want to be my friend. The problem is maybe I don’t do anything… i don’t say anything interesting enough and the conversation fizzles out or I get overwhelmed and stop responding.

Merry Christmas, 4chan
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It sounds like you have some social anxiety, I would honestly recommend going and seeing a therapist for it, anon.
Try to make friends with people at work, the pub, or in local clubs/hobby groups.
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>>23790274
I do have social anxiety… but it’s not severe. Just generally awkward. I went to the museum with my dad the other day, our tour guide was SUCH A CUTIE and i told my dad when i thought he wasn’t listening then i looked beside me and he was RIGHT THERE. my dad said to him, “my daughter wants to be your friend” and he just playfully laughed. I wonder what that laugh meant…
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>>23790261
Online friends are pointless and if you're a woman you're just going to end up with simps who wants to get in your pants

Huge waste of time
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>>23790277
Pushing away/ghosting every friend you ever make sounds pretty severe to be honest, at least look into getting professional help.
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>>23790261
You can't be a female, women don't talk on imageboards. Also this site is so sexist against you.
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>>23790261
>Merry Christmas, 4chan
<3
people blog here often, and sometimes basically write to each other
it might be better than nothing
>I live in a sea port town in eastern Canada. I definitely won’t find irl friends here.
i live in kind of a dead-end town in the southern US
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Yo I’ll be your bud, I’m 32 and in Cape Breton, small world
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>>23790261
Fake and gay. Just ask someone out.
>>23790274
>the pub
they're a zoomer, wrong generation gramps
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>>23790286
I am new to 4chan, i think i might use this board as a blog too. Even though i don’t have friends, at least a stranger might feel like they know me in the same way a friend would
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>>23790261
friends hard
anonymous easy
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>>23790277
Go back there and talk to him more. Worst case scenario it'll be a bit awkward, best case you'll make a great relationship for life
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>>23790290
I’m also in NS, i thought i was the only one
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>>23790261
23 M but I'm all the way on the other side near the western port. You're honestly better off attending irl events to meet new people and make friends. Most online friendships fizzle out unless you're gamer buddies with your online friends so there's an easy recurring convo. I do have an online friend of over 7+ years but that's just due to sheer luck and the internet wasn't as bad back then.
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>>23790302
Are you really a girl?
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>>23790302
>Even though i don’t have friends, at least a stranger might feel like they know me in the same way a friend would
yeah
>>23790303
true
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>>23790307
>I do have an online friend of over 7+ years but that's just due to sheer luck and the internet wasn't as bad back then.
same, i only have the one left though
he works at a bolt factory now
>Most online friendships fizzle out unless you're gamer buddies with your online friends so there's an easy recurring convo.
it doesn't have to be gaming necessarily, but any sort of shared experience
i don't really know how to describe it better, but going through crazy shit together is what builds bonds, for better or worse
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>>23790261
>>23790277
>>23790302
>>23790307
When I see your flag, I automatically think all you are like that.
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>>23790319
Op is Indian and the guy that posts the no pussy wojak
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>>23790323
i doubt it
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>>23790307
How did you meet?
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>>23790323
I’m Ukrainian-Canadian on my dad’s side and my mom was born and raised in a small Latin American country, so I’m technically mixed
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>>23790317
I've got a couple left but most deleted their accounts. It's just ultimately more of a time sink and people move on eventually (cropped out all my active convos)
>it doesn't have to be gaming necessarily, but any sort of shared experience
At this point my only convos with my long term online friend is one upping each other with edgy memes and gachaslop convos but it's nice and chill
>>23790319
No I'm not a saar
>>23790329
They reached out on Reddit cause of an anime related comment
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>>23790261
>I am 22F
you mean 22M>F ?
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>>23790346
No, cis female
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>>23790261
>why don't I have any friends??
> I ghost anyone that has the potential of becoming my friend BTW..
So insanely fucking retarded that I'm actually bewildered you have the ability to sustain your own life through the act of breathing.
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>>23790351
proof?
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>>23790261
>but I got too overwhelmed and ghosted everyone.
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>>23790261

Oh my, the silly OP is literally fishing for friends. Merry Canadian Christmas.
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>>23790385
Honestly, i see your point. Writing it out, it can identify the reasons WHY i don’t have friends, but i think the sentiment i was trying to get across in my post was “why can’t i get it together enough to have friends” sorry if i sounded ridiculous
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>>23790387
Ask me a question only a cis female would know LOLZ
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You single?
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>>23790261
You're a tranny.
They have a weird things with stuffed animals.
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>>23790481
honestly you thinking any one of these anons would know anything about girls is pretty female brained
<3
no offense anons............
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>>23790481
Do you have periods? What do you think about boys? How does a vagina look like?
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>>23790652
R u srs….. those r ur questions?
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It's difficult to make friends on Bant, especially without a tripcode. I made a couple of friends on here only to be flashbanged by their underage status or they just stop posting at some point. I've started emailing Danny (a well known Bant user) through a long winded way but I try and keep the friendships on the 4chan platform as if something goes wrong you can't be accused of something you are not (it's all in the logs).

Hope you find some friends here and if you are interested in getting a tripcode follow the instructions here: https://www.4chan.org/faq#sectrip
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thinking of posting my penis in this thread
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SHOW ME YOUR HOLE YOU FUCKING WHORE
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>>23790261
You sound like a fucking niggger



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