I'm still fat but slowly losing weight. A 20 year old has gotten interested in me from a dating app called boo. She's young, bitchy, and nothing to look at. Me being 37 do I cut my losses and accept her flaws seeing as it's been so long since someone has been interested or do I continue losing weight, getting older, and hope I find someone who's more compatible?
>>23803042wdym bitchy?
>>23803047She's slow to reply when she feels like I wasn't 100 giving my attention to her. Like today, wished her a Merry Christmas then was spending time with family etc. not looking at whatsapp. Looked and saw she had replied about 2 hours ago with something like "is something wrong" and so immediately replied explaining that I was doing stuff with family and that nothing was wrong and she just didn't check whatsapp. She said she likes it when her men get jealous but I'm just not the jealous type. There are so many red flags but it's been a damn long time since I've had any kind of relationship, even a shitty one.
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>>23803062I'm answering my own question aren't I. Just wondered if anyone had been in a similar situation
>>23803042idk man its a tough callwomen have a way of completely derailing a man who's on a pathdef keep working on the weight, but do that shiz for yourself>>23803056personally I wouldn't let that chaos coaster in my life....you might just keep it causal though and protect yourself....it might drive her crazy for you that you are not the jealous type even though she says she likes it (women are a trip)at the same time, do you think you'll regret it if you dont give it a try?
>>23803076>idI have a more developed identity than any of you have
>>23803065Sounds like a waste of time to me. have you even met the gal in person? >do I continue losing weightyou should continue improving yourself. in no way should some insignificant wassap fling impede your escalation to betterment. regardless of outcome, continue becoming and being the person that makes you wanna look at the mirror.
>>23803076Yeah the weightloss is still happening for myself.Part of me thinks it could be fun, but the aged man in myself knows she's full of baggage and might just sap all energy I have. For a reference, before the erectile dysfunction happened the last time I have seen vag irl was back when I was 23 and found out I had erectile dysfunction (that lasted 8 years).Maybe I keep her around but don't get attached but I'm not an asshole so using her for a while isn't in my nature. It's difficult.
>>23803091Haven't met in person but sent pics to eachother. The meeting is happening in January.>do I continue losing weightI should have said something along the lines of "regardless, I will continue losing weight, getting old etc." I don't intend to stop losing weight even though she "prefers" bigger guys (apparently she feels like she'll snap skinny guys).
>>23803100>apparently she feels like she'll snap skinny guyshope you dont mind being the girl, or lesser of the relationship. woudnt be surprised if she wants to be top all the time and keep you in a collar. better get to pondering what colour collar you want...gon, not gonna lie, you give off impressions of having had a vroom vroom race car as a bed growing up -- even during your 20s....
>>23803093damn man sorry to hear about the ed but if its been that long i would say maybe give it a chance and see what happensis the ed still a problem that you know of...or do you think it was performance jitters? that happensjust dont really have much in the way of expectations that this will go very farno need to be an asshole and 'use her' but just make sure you guard yourself and dont compromise too much so you do not get hurtbe willing to walk away from it too...it is difficult, im of a similar moral compass
>>23803107valid points. Thanks for your input, however degrading.>>23803108Other than my sex drive being low (like before I would see a vagina and instantly get rock hard, now it's just like "That's a damn nice vagina bro 'thumbs up emoji'") there's no other issues with my dick. I have a perscription for sildenafil just in case too.You might be right to remain guarded with her and realise it's not going to end in marriage but enjoy the company while it's there. Tricky situation really.
>>23803129Gern geschehe~~~n!!! Happy to help, Gon--orrhea...
>>23803042Pump her, dump her
>>23803042>17 year age gapyou could be her father lol
>>23803267kys you literal nigger
>>23803268>literal niggernothing you say can compete with whatever fresh hell is going on in your deviantart pagei dont know what im looking at
Nothing to look at?
>>23803268>his hormonal coctail makes me sound like Aisha clan clan
>>23803278I mean she is beautiful in her own right, just not conventional beauty.>>23803267If it helps she looks older while I look younger. I'm just hoping we don't look weird together.
>>23803042do not proceed. you should keep losing weight and try to meet someone irl.if she's bitchy and not attractive that's unacceptable, women should only be allowed to be one of those things and never both at the same time.>>23803056if shes already doing shit like that when you aren't even together yet she's probably going to be a total fucking tyrant and probably abusive.trust me dude you are far better off being alone than with someone who makes you feel lonely while robbing you of the comfort of solitude.
I always thought you were a tranny
seriously don't do it gon I've made this mistake multiple times and its ended up horribly every time
>>23803547>>23803565Thanks for the advice! I'll take it to heart.>>23803554Cis heterosexual male soz babe.
>>23803605good <3ur a sound cunt even if ur not particularly attractive u can do better than some psycho minger from a dating app just on personality alone
>>23803650Thank you mate! <3
>>23803042Were you a real Big Bazza? An absolute unit?
>>23803759Nah never that big. The heaviest I got to was 160 kilos, I'm down in the low 140's now and still losing.
But to answer your question. If she's not a complete psycho, i would rather have an annoying woman than the lonliness ;_;
>>23803778I'm 178cm too
>>23803780this is a good point but being stuck with a succubus is probably worse than being alone. I've got some thinking to do...
>>23803778Did you mean pounds? That sounds like UNIT territory in kilograms. I'm 170 lb and have a beerbelly already at this weight.
>>23803790it's kilos so I guess I'm a UNIT. it must change.
>>23803790>170 lb77 kilos is my ideal weight
