I know I’m venting, and I don’t really care I just wish I hadn’t been born into a situation where I wasn’t expected to do anything, yet nothing was ever truly given to me either. Now I’m at a point in my life where I feel like I don’t know how to do anything at all. I have no real ambition or sense of basic direction, and I blame a lot of that on my parents. I sense that they never actually cared what happens to me now or in my future. I'm such a lazy fuck that I don't even know how and where to start living a life ngl Because of my lack of education, skills, and motivation, it feels like I’m destined to be a wage slave for the rest of my life. Any tips how to actually get a will to live and maybe improve? I don't even know why I am asking this here ngl
Recall the moment when your will to live was the strongest
>>23872649I don't even remember really. I feel like I was just existing in a bubble for years without doing literally anything.
>>23872637I don't have any answers but i wanted to say that this is all too relatable and that you are not alone and everything will be fine sooner or later.
>>23872677God, I hope so because the situation I'm in is starting to turn in a really shitty direction.
>>23872657Well, in any case, believing in yourself is a precondition for any degree of success. If you don't believe things can get better then certainly they will not.Set a small goal and achieve it. What exactly it is doesn't matter as long as long as there's a tangible measure of progress. e.g. Do the laundry. When the laundry is done then the hamper is empty. Then set a slightly bigger goal and repeat.Seeing progress unfold right in front of your eyes is a powerful motivator (for most)https://inv.nadeko.net/watch?v=CUvZD34_MVkglhf>>>/adv/
>>23872680Do you want to share want to share what in particular troubles you? Just talking about it is often enough to make you feel better.
>>23872695I might need to get into some form of therapy before even considering setting any goals. But thats actually not that bad of a thing for later.
>>23872721I made this thread, so I might as well share more info about the topic. I was raised in a household with, well, shitty parents, to say the least. I don't have any memories of my father ever because, for years and years, his drinking was more important than family. My mother, on the other hand, liked playing the victim for a lot of the time while being overworked and careless with money at the same time. I literally parented myself for all of my life. My other family members didn't put much effort into actually helping me either. I lived all my life doing nothing; I have a giant memory fog. I didn't do shit all my life, and I mean literally anything. I have no hobbies, achievements, and such.
>>23872777your therapy before planning idea is pretty good and a break in general could do a lot of help actually. you need to keep some sort of routine and interact with other people during all of this however or you will feel terrible.not sure what else i can say as its the same way for me.It takes a while but it does get better. I pray things get better sooner rather than later for you.
>>23872881Will do so probably
