As a young man I've lusted after many girls my own age, wanting to use their bodies for pleasure..but it wasn't until I felt genuine affection from an older woman that I learned how to love, not lust. I think about her all the time, not her body but her character, her richness and warmth and her inner beauty. How everything feels different when she's around. I want her in my life so bad, I want to hold her hand and kiss her nose and tell her how I feel. But I know she doesn't feel the same way, she sees me as a child like I remind her of her son. I'll probably never be more than that to her.
>>23880283what do you think would happen if you confessed this to her?
Faggot
i'm in a similar situation funnily enough
May a man ever talk about me like this
>>23880283You're a disgusting freak pervert. Any man dating a woman older than himself has severe mental problems and should be euthanized. There is something inherently wrong about feeling sexual attraction for women older than you, like unresolved mommy issues that took a perverted turn. I can talk and maybe even understand with all sorts of perverts, furries homosexuals, trannies, pedos, fat fetishists etc but I will never tolerate hagchasers, they need to be shot on sight Never post on /bant/ again OP.
>>23881987t.
>>23880283Just make the decision to talk to her about how you feel. After that regardless of the outcome you'll feel way better than you do now. If you're not gonna be able to do that then might as well pretend that she rejected you and "move on", however that would be
>>23882013this probablylove is a thing to be honored, otherwise it may as well not exist
>>23881827She'd probably call me a clown, or tell me I need to find a girl my own age. Honestly that fact just makes me love her more, she knows we're in two different places in life and we don't belong together. But I can't help how I feel it drives me crazy>>23881846Tell us about her, anon>>23881885You would be surprised, anon. A man may be thinking about you like this right now>>23881987Opinion disregard, Brazilfag>>23882013God give me the strength to do this
>>23883229>She'd probably call me a clown, or tell me I need to find a girl my own age. Honestly that fact just makes me love her more, she knows we're in two different places in life and we don't belong together. But I can't help how I feel it drives me crazyhmmm..you mentioned how you feel & what she's like, but you haven't mentioned how close you two arebut if she's shown you affection, i doubt she'd make fun of you like that, i'd be more worried about making her uncomfortable or nervousbut if you go in with good intentions & say it the right way, maybe she'd appreciate you telling her, and you could continue talking normallyi don't know the best advice to be honest, all i can say is i've never made any confessions & it's never ended well>Tell us about her, anonwell we met online, in a technical space actuallyi think she liked my sense of humor, and i found her very soothing to talk towe used to wish each other goodnight & send each other landscape/sky photos we'd takea few times she could tell i was anxious & reassured mei recorded a piece of music for her but never sent it, i didn't want to be overwhelmingwe've reached out to each other a few times the past few years, but i have some avoidant tendencies
>>23883262>You haven't mentioned how close you two areWell we've only known each other for about 6 months, we're not intimately close but I know she thinks about me when I'm not around (she told me that) and we're very playful with each other. The way she smiles at me is enough to know she at least likes me, but again I think it's more of a maternal affection. She's always trying to give me advice or scolding me for decisions I make.>i recorded a piece of music for her but never sent it, i didn't want to be overwhelmingLol I did something similar, I've written her several poems and letters but never had the balls to give any of them to her.>we've reached out to each other a few times the past few years, but i have some avoidant tendenciesIf she's reaching out to you, she at least likes you as a friend. You should just tell her how you feel, anon. If you do that then I will too and we can come back here and see how it went
>haglovergo back
>>23881987What if she is literally a year older than you faggot
>>23887877Still gay and retarded and opposes nature and everything good and beautiful in the world.
>>23881838FPBP
>>23883818>Lol I did something similar, I've written her several poems and letters but never had the balls to give any of them to her.aww>If she's reaching out to you, she at least likes you as a friend. You should just tell her how you feel, anon. If you do that then I will too and we can come back here and see how it wentif i do i will let you knowit's a good idea, and i am grateful to have talked to you
