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I'm so fucking done. Just a heads up, don't get into a relationship if you suffered from lonliness your whole life. You will get to attatched and it will destroy you
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>>23890460
don't reply.
don't call.
ignore any future texts.
she'll phone you in a panic in about a week
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god you losers are insufferable. take some steroids and shut the fuck up.
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>>23890460
>hey sorry that you like me but caring about your partner is yucky
Dont worry fren youre better off without her
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>>23890460
women dont want men they feel arent desirable
if you cant value yourself and live for yourself, no woman will want you man

you have to focus on yourself, build yourself, and find a niche you can be happy in. find some guy friends, hobbies, be happy.

that is the only time a woman will want to be with you, is when they see something they cant have and they want.

your dad failed you not teaching you this
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Clingy's fate. Get options.
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>>23890460
sounds like you're both fat with mental illness tbqh
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>>23890460
Reply with "sry, no time to read ur wall of text, nggrs r tonguing my anus rn".
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>>23890460
Send her a pic of a woman sucking you off, her stone age vaginal brain think you arent worth it since you clearly see her as your only option
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>>23890460
Honestly anon it sounds like you have mental issues that you were making her problem. Take responsibility and grow and move on. That’s life.
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>>23890460
Women have definitely started using chatgpt for these kinds of messages.
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>>23890460
>depressed man dates depressed woman
surely this will end well
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>>23890460
have you tried not being a BPDemon?
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>>23890460
>Get told your to clingy and to man up.
>Runs to 4chan to be a fat crying bitch.
She's better off without you.

She needs a man, not a boy.
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>>526194766
Lol
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>>23890460
Just reply with picrel and she'll come right back
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>>23890460
This is gay and retarded
there is no reason to court a women unless you immediately plan on putting kids in her. You are better off being single and doing anything else. Plus you have depression, so that means you should go wage out.
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>>23890460
>Center-justified text message
Wut?
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>>23890460
Take the next day or two for yourself. Plan to work on yourself. Seek a relationship with an approachable therapist. Pick up a hobby that interests you. Put effort I to these things. Build yourself and then if you care about her, share how you've began working throught he things she's called out - so she's off the hook so to speak. Then rekindle that shit, bro. Believe in yourself.
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>>23890460
That was written by a man.
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>>23890478
>the rapist
the word games are played right in front of you
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>>23890460
Making this post on /pol/ just proves her right.
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>>23890461
SPBP
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>>23890460
Fake and Gay, OP just wants to complain about women. Many such cases.
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When will you faggots learn that no one cares about men? You must bear through your struggles alone, always. If you want someone to care about your feelings, bitch to your mom, and then shut the fuck up. If you don't have a mom, go cry in the shower and get your shit together. The only reason women exist is to extract your seed and raise your spawn. If you think your gf/wife is going to be your free therapist you're NGMI.

Get your shit together and deal with your pain. Life is very lonely fren, embrace it.
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>>23890460
>I'm so fucking done. Just a heads up, don't get into a relationship if you suffered from lonliness your whole life. You will get to attatched and it will destroy you
I'm turning 40 and have never been in one, and that's pretty much what I figured would happen, if I did get into one. Which I don't think could ever happen because I've been alone so long and I'm autistic. I just don't know how to live with or be with another person.
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>>23890461
this
fuck her off op

i had the same thing from my ex. she split up with me and i had the worst two weeks of my life then i hit the gym during COVID, found someone who is not a selfish cunt and understands we all go through shit and wanted to support me as i support her. we are now engaged with a white kid on the way.

fuck off your current gf. she's a selfish cunt.
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you'll be all right, cousin, buck up, she wasn't meant to be
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Lots of typos (fuck you, GBoard), but shut your whore mouth, br0
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>>23890460
>in notes app

how the fuck are any of you mouthbreathing retards falling for this
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>>23890460
>>>/r9k/
go be where you belong, pathetic little puppy dog incel
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>>23890484

some mom's don't care either, you may discover
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>>23890460
before you're banished to bant, im going to tell you something important faggot. being sad isn't interesting, it isn't cool, it isn't a style. stop being a depressing faggot, or you're just human trash and you'll be treated as such.
>ive been lonely MY WHOLE LIFE AND NOW SHE LEFT ME
unbelievably fucking queer, seriously
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>>526195026
Actually they solved the shrinking testicles thing, it's just acne now
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>>23890460
>The constant feeling that you're going to hurt yourself if I don't respond
Op, just stop being a drag
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>>526194766
Don't be a dick. At least try to make a good impression with her.
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>>23890484
>If you want someone to care about your feelings, bitch to your mom
>>23890491
I realized mine doesn't really care recently, never has. She cares only that my problems might mean that I'm unstable and one day she won't be able to rely on me to pay her mortgage or medical bills.
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>>23890460
Gpt just broke up with u?
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>>23890460
Women don't wanna hear about your personal problems. Doing that gives them the ick.
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>>23890460
bro imagine being such a little bitch that a foid breaks up with you because you are so needy and need attention LOL
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>>23890460
Sorry. She's right though, you need to be self reliant enough to have faith in your partner and realize when you're hurting yourself and her with your insecurity. People who are really insecure tend to exhaust their partners. You're a man and the world is not a kind or easy place but the world was built for men to succeed. Know your value and be confident and if you need to, get therapy or counseling for the fear and trauma that maybe you feel, or work out, or try and build healthier habits and set good boundaries for your time and for others. She's not your therapist and she doesn't know how to coach you through your mindset because it's unique to you and your insecurity doesn't apply to her. She doesn't know what you've gone through in life or how to help you with everything. Maybe you and her were not ready to be together or maybe with time you'll get back together but for now try and do some self reflection and have some faith. God bless you both and personally I always hope that true love never dies but that's just me.
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>>23890464
/thread
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>>23890489
Op here, I got banned after posting that, but this was a Snapchat message. Look it up
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>>23890496
>I realized mine doesn't really care recently, never has. She cares only that my problems might mean that I'm unstable and one day she won't be able to rely on me to pay her mortgage or medical bills.
I know that feel anon.
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>>23890460
>I'm going to hurt myself if you dont pay enough attention to me
did you say this op? if you did then she was right to leave you.
stop being a needy fuck, that will gurantee that you stay alone forever. women lke a man that appears as if he doesnt need them, at least at first, theyre retarded like that.
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time for the gym
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>>23890500
Women are never right
Post holes slut
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>>23890460
Just had the same like you a month ago. Dont listen to some shit from others youre not a boy. Me im a grown ass man, good job, visited insane places, did insane things good education, made a fourtune... and still happened to me too...

The worst you can do is try to get her back. Dont write or contact her for at least 28 days. After that you can write something but casual like inside joke i saw made me think about you. (Only if she dont write first) Nothing about you miss her. I did it my ex just visited to get something. I could see that she misses me. I stayed friendly and neutral said i feel good and didnt talk about past or how i miss her. She couldnt stand that (positive way) and i saw it worked in her. Its 3 days now and again i dont write her. I guess she will contact me the next days.

Dont give up for 1-2 months but distract yourself and dont show her you miss her or contact her. Do things you like. The only chance you have. Move on after 2 months, i will too but who knows.
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I am this losers depressing tears
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>>23890484
> If you want someone to care about your feelings, bitch to your mom
Most depressed men have mothers who don't care, either.
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>>23890460
You must be 18 to post here.
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>>23890464
wtf I thought women always choose the best mate. Like survival of the fittest and all that? Did my schooling and my friends lie?
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>>23890503
I suppose, it's not like she is callous, but I realized I always imagined that she at least wondered about or questioned the life I live, but recently I had a somewhat of a break down and opened up to her some only to realize that she's probably never imagined what it is like being me or what it has meant or cost me, not even once. That... is a hollow feeling, but at the same time I do suppose I don't feel guilty for having never given her all those typical first born son milestones.
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>>23890461
This. But ignore her call and tell her you are happier without her. Then, in another two weeks you will own her for life.
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>>23890506
>women are never right
>woman makes the right decision by dropping OP's faggot ass
seem you were mistaken, nigger
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>>23890466
I miss when pointlessly spiteful posts like this would be the norm, this place is too much of a hugbox now
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>>23890511
/pol/cucks are gen x bluepillers. All the smart dudes are on incel forums or groyper discords. For ex blackpiller RehabRoom recently destroyed politics-copers and wignats with facts and logic
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>>23890460
>k bye
It's that easy. No further responding to her. If she keeps pestering you after, block her after a couple days. If she approaches you in real life, brush her off and ignore. It'll drive her insane.
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>>23890461
This worked for me 5x with a girl.
Then she stopped.
Then 5 years passed and she started again lol.
Women dude...
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>>23890460
I highly doubt this was actually sent to you, but nevertheless the text message does reveal a harsh truth: If you care too much about a foid, she'll get the ick and drop you like a bad habit. The only way to get women to like/respect you is to not care about them. And you have to TRULY not care--if it's just an act you're putting on to try to appear aloof, you'll eventually let the mask slip and she'll sniff it out.

This is why I retired from dating years ago. It's too frustrating and tedious.
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>>23890484
This is harsh but it is true. If you are lucky and have a loving mother you can perhaps bounce things off her, but to be one hundred percent crystal clear NEVER EVER SHOW EMOTIONAL WEAKNESS TO YOUR WOMAN. The only time you should ever be weeping or talking about how difficult things are is when you lose a loved one. If you act weak she WILL leave your ass or at the least want to, I promise you. That doesn't mean be a stoic autist all the time, you can always show your emotions to your wife when you're dissatisfied, annoyed etc. But you have to deal with your own instabilities and weaknesses yourself, do not attempt to work through things with your woman like a friend.

Don't fuck this up fellas, you can solve your own problems internally, it will make your life with your woman better. Don't treat her like a man, treat her like a female. Women do not like weakness, they will always seek to undermine it, don't test it you will lose every single time. Remember this when you're wavering, be strong. You're a goddamn man, stand straight and figure your shit out.
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>>23890460
bro, she cares enough to center her breakup letter
you fucked up
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>>23890511

sexual selection is not uniform/simple

>The sexual struggle is of two kinds; in the one it is between the individuals of the same sex, generally the male sex, in order to drive away or kill their rivals, the females remaining passive; whilst in the other, the struggle is likewise between the individuals of the same sex, in order to excite or charm those of the opposite sex, generally the females, which no longer remain passive, but select the more agreeable partners.
https://sourcebooks.fordham.edu/mod/1871darwin-desc3.asp
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>>23890460
It sounds like you're a loser with no friends or a life outside of whatever piece of pussy is currently taking pity on you. You have no self value beyond pussy. Fuck the 'I'm not your therapist' shit cause that's all men do for women so fuck that hypocritical shit but everything else is a completely valid reason to break off a relationship.
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>>23890460
Why do people like to have other people decide their feelings for them?...seriously
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TOP KEK
stop being a bitch
fuck her
dont cry on her shoulder
maybe use this advice next time
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>>23890461
This right here!!!!
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>>526194766
Do this and then don’t talk to her for a few days. If she comes back you can do what you want. If she doesn’t it wasn’t meant to be. Do not crash out I went through this exact scenario years ago and I promise you it sucks for a year and then you’ll be over it. I thought I’d never forget her, I go months to years at a time without even thinking of her now. When you’re depressed it is worse because they are your whole world, but I promise you there is another side to this. Just don’t crash out.
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>>526194766
he wont he is gonna cry and simp. pleeease take me back. IM SORRRRRRY!!!1
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>>23890470
Except it would not make those grammatical errors she made. It is already to developed too do that.
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>>23890460
>telling a woman how you feel
Classic mistake.
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>>526194766
This is best response because either
>she was lying about her reason and wont care
>she will see you werent broken by her response and regret her decision and be mad
Either way guaranteed lols
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>>23890506
As a woman, I'm always right, and I will never die. Women are supposed to be as upright, strong, reliant and capable as men. A good woman is defined as a woman who works with willing hands, laughs at the days to come, buys land, is upright and honorable, wise and good, and men and women are supposed to love one another as themselves. Your disrespect to me is meaningless.
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>>23890467
Kek. Replies like yours are still the reason I frequent this vile shithole.
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>>526194766
Fpbp

>1pbtid

Kek. Just be Chad.
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>>23890520
buttplug
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https://youtu.be/0X-VzNAkhJo
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>>23890460
bruh there's already a meme exactly for this
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>>23890460
Stop being so dependent, faggot.
1pbtid
Sage
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>>23890460
Are you a faggot or something?
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>>23890460
she was 100% fucking someone over that winter break. stop being a needy little bitch. t he fact you ran to 4chan to post this shows how pathetic you are, lmao.
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>>23890461
>she'll phone you in a panic in about a week
kek

No she won't. Ignore this at your peril:

She doesn't want you. That sucks. We've all been there. You have two choices. You can get started right now moving on, or you can delay that in favor of the detour that a lot of men make, which usually comes with consequences that range from humiliating to life-destroying, up to and including getting themselves imprisoned or killed.

Whatever the nature of your relationship, no matter what happened, no matter what happy or sad times, no matter what you did or sacrificed for her, no matter your plans, no matter what she said or didn't say, the only thing you will be remembered for in this relationship is how you behave right now.

You have an opportunity here. Don't blow it just because you're mixed up right now regarding what is and what is not important to you.
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>>526195355
Checked. Damn right!
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>>23890537
I'd unironically send her that.
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>>23890532

lmao no
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>>23890544
Yes. Men and women are both supposed to be very strong and very good, good for each other and good to one another, and capable of resilience through stressful times. It's called faith. Get some.
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>>23890466
They're just fat losers, everyone isn't mentally ill, they're just pieces of shit
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>>23890461
Haha yeah, she’ll call me any day now haha those crazy redheads
>it’s been 11 years
>tfw her social media shows she still single
>shes 29
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Shit sucks man. You just realized how evil women are. They are insane braindead parasites, nothing more.
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>>23890541
This is also good advice.
NGL she started to see OP as weak and he can't come back from that.
So his best bet right kow is to just be done with her.
She's done with him.
But .. going incommunicado is good REGARDLESS. If she was ever gonna come back, she will if he's silent. If she wasn't, then there's nothing he was ever going to do to change it.
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>>23890460
everyone in this thread should kill themselves
fucking retarded faggots
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>>23890460
go back to /r9k/
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>>23890460
Sorry brother.

Never, ever, rely on a woman for your own emotional wellbeing. Not your girlfriend, not your wife of 40 years. You need to be able to exist with and without them.

Never let this happen again
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>>23890545

I have faith, but your understanding is faulty.

your insistence on virtue is good and commendable. but women are not on the same level as men. that is where you are wrong.
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>>23890460
lol get monkey branched nigger, she already with someone else
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>>23890484
Fuck off retard. You get friends. Men care about men.
You get MALE friends. Men evolved to look after each other.
Degenerate boomers annihilated friendship and became cuckolds and simps.
We must rebuild friendship. I speak from experience. My darkest days have always been brighter when shared with a friend. My companions have pulled me from my lowest point more than once.
Friends are the key to every social problem we face today, unironically.
Breeding alone is the only problem male friends can’t solve and even then they can give advice and sometimes have sisters.
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>>23890535
Wow...I've seen that webm about a 1000 times but never noticed that. Great eye Fren!!
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>>23890532
>Women are supposed to be as upright, strong, reliant and capable as men.
They most certainly are not. Look, I don't know what worldview you subscribe to, but an actual great woman that most men dream of is composed, gentle, loving, and obedient. A man wants to raise a family with a woman that will be there to take care of him and the home, his children, and himself when he cannot do so himself, and he wants her to be kind and gentle when he faces difficulties in the harshness in the world. Many men also prefer women to have a spine and thoughts of their own, but they are by no means emblematic of the ideal woman.

In the same sense that an ideal man is strong, capable, upright, brave, and worldly, an ideal woman is beautiful, soothing, docile, and lovely. Men are boulders, and women are flowers. This is our nature. You don't have to fall into it but you do have to recognize what our basest desires entail, and what most of us want.
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>>23890541
good advice.
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>>23890553
Women are on the same level as men when it comes to everything that is good and innocent about life. It's not my problem that you don't understand that or value and cherish women. Some people do, and their children are upright, respectful, and deeply loved by both parents. I truly hope that you experience love, goodness, grace, mercy and everything that is beautiful in life if you have not. And I hope one day you understand that women are just as sensible, strong, capable and virtuous as men when they are supported to develop in that way - rather than being projected at with hatred, fear and violence.
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>>23890535
I...never noticed that, and I've stared at her ass every time I've seen the webm. Nice catch
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>>23890553
>>23890545

>Your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you.
Genesis 3:16

>In itself of course the [feminine] is just as important as the [masculine], but the attribute of devotion defines the place occupied by this primal power in relation to the [masculine]. For the [feminine] must be activated and led by the [masculine]; then it is productive of good. Only when it abandons this position and tries to stand as an equal side by side with the [masculine], does it become evil. The result then is opposition to and struggle against the [masculine], which is productive of evil to both.
I Ching, chapter 2 (Wilhelm translation)

>A woman should follow a man her whole life long, but a man should at all times hold to what is his duty at the given moment. Should he persistently seek to conform to the woman, it would be a mistake for him.
I Ching, chapter 32
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>>23890460
Boo fucking hooo, you're just sad about having to hunt for a new hole
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>>23890532

There’s a reason every society since the beginning of time independently discovered the treacherous nature of women and excluded them from leadership.
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>>23890460
I never been a relationship before is this how people actually text, I thought they just ghost and fuck off
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>>23890545
Why are you bitches all clueless idealists? You sound like someone who likes communism and never lived in a communist country. It's called reality. Live in it.
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>>23890555
Based and friendpilled
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>>23890557
There are many different kinds of both men and women. Your tastes are fine. I was only speaking to what I like, and I like when men and women are both strong, good, self reliant and honest. I like delicate, gentle and lovely women too. I just think people should be kinder to one another and if people focused on developing those qualities within themselves they would not feel so insecure and desperate towards their partners.
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Just respond with "wow", then cut contact for a week
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>>23890541
ok Chad
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>>23890460
TLDR
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>>23890541
it's refreshing to see honest quality advice
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>>23890460
There's nothing you can do now. Drop her and move on. Don't be a bitch and cry for her to come back. If she sees you not caring/fucking with other girls, she may contact you since she'll assume she was wrong and want validation. If that happens, tell her to fuck off and continue ignoring her. That relationship is beyond repair now, even if she said she wants to get back together. This would be my advice if this was a serious post, but...
>1pbtid
Fuck off nigger.
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>>23890568
>then cut contact for a week

This but forever
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Don’t be such a needy faggot.
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>>23890461
This.

Also OP, you cant fix yourself by finding someone. You need to fix yourself by yourself and for yourself. It's selfish to expect someone to shoulder the burden of your own being. It took me a lot of time and breaking a few hearts to realise I needed to fix myself, because otherwise a relationship is never going to work.
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>>23890460
Never show your real emotions to a woman even if she is your wife. She will lose all respect for you. I went through a rough patch and almost lost my marriage of 10 years over it. Find some bros you can talk to about serious stuff but never a woman
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>>23890559
>value and cherish women
i value women at 2 sheep and a sack of beans. fuck you bitch
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>>23890555
You have to be 18 to post here faggot. Friends will backstab you the minute your life becomes a modicum better than yours. There's a reason why in many languages there is a very specific word for "friend", because true friendship is RARE.
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>>23890460
I thank dear God i have a schizoid+compulsive personality disorder.

Thank dear God.
My wife complains many times that i like to be alone, that my happiness is at the pc, is at making money.
Thank God im an Affectless Schizoid, that im autonomous.
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>>23890460
Why the fuck is it formatted like a poem? I call fake and gay. Also you are clearly a fag, go work out, take some mdma and fuck some hookers, you will feel much better.
>>23890468
True lol, women hate this one easy trick!
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>>23890559

I value and cherish women, women are not on the same level of men, see >>23890561

mentally and spiritually women are not the same as men. women are followers, the moon reflects the light of the sun. it does not originate light. light/energy/male and darkness/gravity/female are complementary opposites, like yin and yang.

>The wife must always be guided by the will of the master of the house, be he father, husband, or grown son.
I Ching, chapter 37

>women are just as sensible, strong, capable and virtuous as men

they are not.

>I found one upright man among a thousand, but not one upright woman among them all.
Ecclesiastes 7:28

>you don't know what love is
>You just do as you're told
-The White Stripes
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>>23890461
This is some cope kek, she's fucking over him. OP sounds like a massive pussy and a huge pain in the ass to deal with.
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If you are manipulating a partner with I will off myself if xyz that is narcissistic manipulation tactics and is akin to coercive control. Might want to take a personality test, go watch Prof Vaknin and try to get a good therapist. If you say there is nothing wrong with me, there's your first sign. You know exactly what you are doing.
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ACK!!!
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>>23890567
That is fair anon, I can certainly agree with that. Well said.
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>>23890578
Then you are different from me and my family and you don't belong anywhere near people like me. The women I love and admire are strong through a crisis. They build and fly planes and cars. They work side by side with men. They have willing hands to work. They submit to good authority and loving leadership. They're strong and good.

Since you would sell a good woman for sheep and food, you'll have the life you deserve, and you'll be remembered as someone who prefers the company of animals to women.
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>>23890460
Stop being so attached then, faggot. You sound like a needy child in need of a mother, not a gf. Also
>to
>not too
Dodged a bullet.
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>>23890569
Very juicy BBC she looks so happy!
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>>23890460
why are you opening up to a women you supposedly have a sexual relationship? they dont want that
>BUT THEY SAY THEY DO
stop listening to what women say you simp retard.

Look on the bright side, she is probably breaking up with you out of respect and doesnt want to be technically cheating with the guy she fucked 8 minutes after sending that text, faggot
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>>23890460
She ain't worth it and you're broken and this isn't your blog nigger
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>>23890460
Women will bitch about anything and everything under the Sun and without missing a beat expect you to take them seriously. 40 years ago, all you'd hear from women is that they aren't getting enough attention, now it's like they don't even want you around for an afternoon before you're supposedly an incomprehensibly massive burden to them.

I'm so sick of women's meandering, directionless utterly meaningless bitching about nothing. How about you shut the fuck up for a change, you stupid shit?
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>>23890560
its just a water splash dude
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>>23890587
>someone who prefers the company of animals to women.
i bet 5 sec of google search would yield scores of quotes from the greatest men in history about precisely that.
vs.
a mutt bugman in 2026

ofc youre clearly a foid since you didnt realize that posters here dont value a woman's mechanical competence (lmao), you should have said they birth white kids (but you cant cuz they dont lol)

which is a paradox u cant escape (if white women are so great, then their refusal to produce more white women cancels it out)
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Threatening sudoku to get your way in a relationship should get you instabanned from society. Maladaptive manipulators like that need to be flogged.
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>>23890541
100%
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>>23890460
nothing wrong with wanting to be a romantic, anon, if someone doesn't like that you are openly interested in them then you should cut them out of your life
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All of this just to have used BBC pussy.
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>>23890583
You were raised by a single mother.
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>>23890460
Stop being a fucking spazz
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>>23890460
Dunno your actual situation OP, I truly hate whenever the phrase "emotional labor" or any form of it slips out of their mouths, but it sounds like you're both kind of fucked up and you might be more fucked up then her. Man and woman are meant to support each other in our weakness, but not to live like that.

Take what you can take from this and learn. Realize what you can affect and what you can't, let go of what you can't because our attachments are the source of our suffering.
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>>23890584
This.
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>>23890578
Was that supposed to be black pilling? You are like a baby.
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>>23890460
Time to post revenge porn anon. And if you don't have any make some with ai.
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>>23890555
You're both right and wrong simultaneously.
Yes it's complete horseshit than men are suppose to stand on their own or die, camaraderie isn't a novel concept. The problem though is that the judeo-matriarchal system has already done so much damage to our social fabric that you're unlikely to find a man who won't backstab you for a bit of pussy.
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>>23890460
Start boxing or jogging. Women are a bottomless pit when it comes to time/money.
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>>23890601
>our attachments are the source of our suffering
It's amazing how every wisdom tradition in world history came to this same conclusion, from Stoicism and Christianity to Buddhism and Hinduism.
There really is a perennial philosophy, and this is it.
Attachment is the cause of suffering. Do not count on worldly things. To gain everything you must lose everything.
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>>23890601
>I truly hate whenever the phrase "emotional labor" or any form of it slips out of their mouths
"emotional labor" means the resentment they feel towards their boyfriend for falling short of their ideal partner. They twist their neurosis and envy as some sort of virtue.
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You should read some Cioran. Men are inherently nihilistic because we understand the futility and absurdity of existence in the face of overwhelming pain. The fact that we are imprisoned by this and aren’t allowed to seek appeal makes it more hilarious. Embrace the void and find something that passes the time. Suicide is for chumps.
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>>23890460
If that is real I hate you too, as should everyone.
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>>23890587
>>23890594
Whites are just a simp race, objectively. Maybe that can be explained as some beneficial adaptation to a world that no longer exists, but it's one of the defining traits of whiteness to simp. The Muslim game of chess was turned into a simp joke when Europeans made the queen the strongest piece.
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>>23890608
that's "UNPAID emotional labor", chuddie
>>23890611
based fresh take, chess is haram (depicts the horse, woman moves freely)
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>>23890612
>woman moves freely
well yeah it's tiled like a kitchen floor
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>>23890460
Maybe stop being a depressed baby?
Women literally aren’t equipped for your mental problems, that’s what alcohol is for.
She would probably respect you more
If you beat her and then blamed the depression.
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Now you can build yourself and don't spend time and energy on that kind. Lift weights, eat meat and drink raw milk and don't watch porn. You'll forget this in a month and move on. I hope you don't take any of the jew pharma drugs, if so get off them
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>>23890460
Women always lose to send these long break up text, to fool you into thinking she cares and it must be so difficult for her. Then a short while later she is already on the next man's dick and its like you never existed and if you text she either ghost or tell you to fuck off in short sentence.

I've been there, you will never get her back, she was never yours, just your turn. Best thing is to delete the number and move on
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>>23890603
What country is that ?
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>>23890617
Tvrkiye
muslims have NEVER CLAIMED our women are any better than others, only to the extent we can force them to
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>>23890460
I used to talk to others about my feelings and then I found Jesus. Now I just share my struggles with Him and get insight. Best thing I ever did. I still sometimes share with others but only 5% from before because I don't feel the need.
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>>23890460

you didn't get enough hugs from mommy
so now you're transferring your emotional needs to your girlfriend as a substitute
most girls don't like guys who are emotional and clingy
it's just not very masculine
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>>23890611
You have to go back.
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That's far too many words to be a real message from an ex-girlfriend. "Closure" is not a female priority during or after a break-up.

You were dating a tranny? Women don't care about explaining things and then look at the structure of the explanation...

>sorry? (women don't feel sorry because they never take accountability)

>that's not healthy? (psychoanalysis time)

>coach you through (this is like a supervisor talking to a failed employee - masculine vibes here)

>Oh shit, you're a suicide boy? Deep in your feelings? Sorry bro, that's too gay for me.

>the formatting into paragraphs seems masculine as well

OP IS A FAGGOT and his gay lover is tired of his shit.
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>>23890607
I am a Stoic myself, it's one of the most profound lessons you can learn in your life, though it often still is hard to let go even with the knowledge depending on the situation.

>>23890608
It's that but also I just truly hate how selfish and cruel women can be emotionally. Not even in a where it is expected to be reciprocated, I just mean entirely devoid of being able to provide any emotional support in the first place. The hatred becomes even stronger when you know, a truly good hearted woman. And I don't even mean as a lover necessarily. It's important as a man to also not let that hatred control you, but realize you were put here on this bitch of an Earth to harness that anger for yourself to filter out evil women.
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>>23890461
this is 1000% the correct move but you know op is already blubbering all over his texts to her while she enjoys her "me time" with a pack of bbcs and her doggo
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>>23890460
That text explains what men go through with dating modern women.

Save it and reuse it in your next relationship.
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>>23890460
>I'm worried you might hurt yourself if I don't call
>so I'm just going to dump you
Standard woman logic. I hope things get better for you 1PBTID OP.
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>>23890460
you’re looking for a mother not a girlfriend
go to therapy
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>>23890628
btw it’s insane how many people here are on OP’s side instead of calling him a faggot
now I’m nice and I’m gonna tell him it’s ok and to get help but
definitely closer to faggot than justified
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>>23890460
I'm female. A while ago a guy did this to me, we weren't in a relationship, I considered us friends. He would constantly berate himself every other sentence, call himself worthless, the likes. Really bad depression, vocally lonely all the time. I'd have to spend hours talking him out of suicide. Since I spent hours every other week or so trying to make sure he didn't stand in front of a train, he got attached really quickly and started lovebombing me, then begged to get together. I declined and became distant. My intent was to help this guy feel better, but it became apparent very quickly he was latching on to me to the point of worship. He needed help I couldn't handle or provide.
He is a tranny married to a gay furry now. I wonder if I caused it some days.
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>>23890630
I blame xenoestrogens. put him out of his misery femanon
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>>23890460
You will grow older and realize most women are nothing more than a warm cock sleeve.
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>>23890460
Ahh I see. so she's a selfish stupid cunt. Got it.
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>>23890630
Nah. Its his mother's fault for destroying him and his fault for not overcoming. You were doing a nice thing for a person that was too far gone.
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>>23890630
I'm a female too. On this board you have to prove it with a selfie so they know you're aryan.
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>>23890461
He won't take your advice but hilariously it is his only winning play



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