when was the last time you had a crush on someone?like a genuine crush where you randomly think about them and then get a little frustrated or fluttered
>>24052657doesnt matter kill yourself
Like 2021 or something
>>24052682lol why? its just a question>>24052683how did that go? was it one sided or mutual?
>>24053093She wanted me to get her pregnant, but we had a falling out, and now we don’t speak anymore.
>>24053096my whole life basicallyi've had like seven at this point
>>24053096I'm a little confused, was the baby stuff something that made you lose interest? or was the crush on you?>>24053108damn you guys must be studs, i've only had one bpd girl who just lied to me about being pregnant because she wanted to fuck with me
>>24053118idk why i tagged the other anon, i meant to tag your OP loli haven't had seven crushes on me, i meant it the other way
>>24053122you've rejected all 7? heartless. or did you have a reason?
>>24053167i was too nervous to confess each timei tend to get paralyzed & avoidant the more i like someone :/love is a thing to be honored & i failed to honor it without realizing
i know at least two of them liked me back
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>>24052657It was my crush before my first wife. One noticed a pattern in my life where my lust for someone completely destroys the relationship in a short matter of time. I never loved my long term relationships and they are very successful because of it. I was with my wife for 8 years and didn't love her one bit outside of that family love type feeling that developed over time. Maybe that's what ended up killing things. Anyway long story short this is not a problem I'll be having again since I've decided the healthiest way to live my life is to stay out of the dating pool.
>>24053118The breakup was unrelated to the baby making. I would have probably married them if they were a completely different person. Still the only person I've ever really loved.
>>24052657ummm>>24053178>i tend to get paralyzed & avoidant the more i like someone :/this habbens to me 2
I never have and I never will.
Last year with 2 ladies. Both frowned a lot and looked like mean cunts, just how I like 'em. I was too nervous to ask 1 out at work, and lost my chance when I was laid off. The other lady I managed to ask out after crushing on her for years, but she ghosted me.
>>240526572020. We were together for a few months. It started out great but then she got the ick.Then in 2022 I had another fling but she didn't compare to the one prior and she was unstable.Since then I'm alone. Probably will be from now on. I'm done with women.
