One of my coworkers asked if he could speak to me and I thought it was about work, instead he told me his wallet was stolen and asked if he could borrow $300 and pay me back the next day. I loaned him the money and now he's doing the whole ducking routine, what should I do about this guy?
>>62176225just say no wtf
report him to HR for stealing and then open a small claims suit gainst him.
>>62176252he's an assistant manager, I'm a manager but we're in different departments, I could probably get him fired for behavior unbecoming of a leader.>>62176239usually I would, he caught me off guard really.
>>62176225Invite him to your minecraft server. Don't forget to drop your map out of your inventory and make sure he does the same.
>>62176225>he gave a drug addict money
>>62176225-300
>>62176225Wtf? Do you work at McDonald's or something? If any of the drug addicts I worked with asked me for money I'd tell them to fuck off.
>>62176380lol no, I work in an office, if I worked with known drug addicts I wouldn't lend them money in the first place. Maybe I should tell HR though, this guy could be dangerous.
Does this nibba not have a credit card or something? Surely he has $300 of credit available.
>>62176391Oh even worse he's probably a fan duel American, he's not even cool enough to do drugs.
>>62176263>>62176252>>62176239Don't help coworkers in that way. Once, I helped vectorize a skiing company logo and gave it to his friend on a usb stick, he said he'd pay me $50. Never got it.
hug him from behind the next time you see him and whisper in his ear "i forgive you". Never speak to him again after that.
>>62176424Topkek
>>62176225poison his food and then eat his liver, justice served
>>62176414Ohhh I bet you're right
>>62176424this
no one need 300 dollars juste because they lost their walletwhat did he mean by that, let me go to get sucked in vegas before i go back home to take some money?btw op, can you lend me 3,000 dollars? my ledger is not working right now
>>62176391Go to HR tomorrow before he does, he might make up some bullshit about you harassing him or something and now you're the one who looks bad first. Say the whole unbecoming of a leader and theft of an associate etc. and if they still doesn't work, tell the guy you are opening a civil suit against him if he doesn't pay by the next day
>>62176456If he eats the poison then won't the poison be in his liver?
>>62176225Technically without an authorized third party witness and no contract no one has to give you back the money you give them. Kill him or shut up and go cry in the corner little dumbass nigga.
Gullible fools always lose money.Many such cases.
>>62176865Getting fired for stealing 300 usd is NOT a win for the other guy you fucking cretin
>>62176225He'll pay you back eventually. Just remind him that letting interest build up is not good for him and never ever go authistic or threaten. Just keep that smile and say "where's my money?". Keep knocking on that door. After a couple times he will pay you just to avoid getting charged everytime he runs your path.If after 1 month he didn't pay what he was supposed to pay back the next day, it's game on.
>>62176879Where is the proof of his 300 retard? No wonder Normgroids slaughter each other by the millions for Jeffery Epstein
>>62176225plant images of child pornography on his work computer and make an anonymous tip to HR
>>62176865Stop making splatoon worse
>>62176225Just accept that you lost $300 and that you'll never get that money back."If you want enemies, lend them money."- Fernán Caballero
>>62176225why didnt you let him sign a piece of paper. write something up, print it out. let him sign it, even make a video of signing it. that would have been a very first instinct the moment a random person (at work) would have asked me for something like that. you only have yourself to blame here.
>>62176901I have screenshots
>>62177005thought I was dealing with a decent human being
>>62177012you dont know him. treat the whole situation as a learning experience. you paid 300$ and gained the wisdom of not trusting other people. its worth something I guess. (yes thats mild cope)
>>62176865kill him? over $300? why would I do that?
>>62177018I didn't trust people before lending him the money, thought the guy was in a fix, didn't think someone in management would make up such a bold lie and ruin their professional reputation with a coworker over $300. But now I know that at least
Did OP admit to being a third worlder yet?
>>62177039I assume you withdrew the money from your bank either physically or digitally because no sane person runs around with 300$ in his wallet. show that and your screenshots to his boss and see how things go from there. at the very least you make the fuck nervous for a few days/weeks, that would be at least some kind of payback.
>>62177045and why would I be a third worlder exactly?
>>62177048I transferred it to his bank acct, posted the screenshot with the transaction in the chat with him and have another screenshot with him saying he will pay me.
are you a woman, why are you so petty over 300, can't you find a way for him to owe you later, you know, delayed gratification and all, what the fuck happened to men that posting this kind of retarded stuff is normal
>>62177055It's not about the money, a real man would understand that, I shouldn't have to say it.
>>62177054ok you have all that. why dont you tell him that you are going to escalate this by telling his boss. tell him he might end up losing his job over this. you cant tell me you didnt at least do that.
>>62177060nah I would never tell someone who would do this kind of thing ahead of time what I'm going to do, you never know what they're capable of if they'll lie so boldly, I'll just do it.
>>62177057then why are you complaining to us if its not about the money, go hash it out with him, you know like a real man, what you are displaying here is peak feminine behaviour, holding grudges and allowing things to fester like a person with no agency who is used to reacting instead of making things happen
>>62176263Probably don't be retarded instead>>62176225You basically never give anyone money ever. Also why the fuck does someone even *need* $300 cash for a day in the year 2026 besides shady shit? My credit cards are stored with online vendors and my phone has my cards and that'll be fine at grocery stores, I could easily go a day without cash and certainly without $300.
>>62177065ok I believe I have the full picture here. you might unironically be autistic or have asperger, not that there is something wrong with it. the other guy probably just assumes you dont care about the deadline because you never bothered to bring it up.
>>62177066A real man pays his debts, but that's not even the point either. Keep trying to figure it out though, seems you're the woman. Post another reply and I'll tell you what the real issue is here from the masculine perspective, Man (me) to Woman (You)
>>62177071the deadline was "the next day" as I mentioned in my first post, that's passed.
>>62177075not bringing the money up on your own is basically the same as "dont sweat it, I can wait". thats unironically how it works.
>>62177072lmao, you are afraid of approaching him, so you come complain to 4chan like a woman, its even more pathetic that you actually can't tell-- like the guy above me said you are likely autistic-- how to separate work from banter, you actually don't know how to talk to him without resorting to escalations about getting him fired, and all this for 300 dollars, 10 posts to tell everyone you are too afraid or incompetent to assert yourself to your colleague, how the hell did you even become a manager, this is a huge larp
>>62177087afraid of what exactly? If I was afraid I wouldn't be the one ducking like I said in my first post
>>62177093or rather, I would be the one ducking
>>62177093you must be afraid of something if losing 300 does this to a mf, we are in a board where people lose hundreds of thousands of dollars in single trades but you can't handle losing 300, so you are lying about something here
>>62177087>>62177072>>62177066> t. women
>>62176225Go to HR.
>>62177098lol what is there to lie about?
>>62176393I'm not sure if meth dealers accept credit cards.
>>62177126Do those gambling sites accept credit? It’d be funny if they did
I’ve been a weed addict before. At one point I was spending $800 a month on weed. Never asked to borrow money.
>>62176225he 100% gave it to an only fans girl or a twitch streamer. just forget about it
This is new level of toxic friendship you can get
>>62176424Do this with your shirt unbuttoned OP
>>62176225You just ask him for the money retard.He'll either pay you or not.If he doesn't, then next time you ask him about the money in front of your coworkers.Tell him if he shouts the whole office beers on Friday you'll let him off with it because you're such a nice guy.
Forgive it but never talk to him again
>>62176225You were the dumbass that gave someone $300. Never give more than like 50 unless you're very close to someone.My policy is they can get away with stealing from me once, shame on me, but then not only does their reputation with me take a permanent negative hit, I'll never loan them a thing ever again.
>>62178737that's gay>>62178907ah yes I am what's wrong with the world, never have any faith in humanity, got ya
>>62176421hahahaif he was a friend I would vector for free. fuck graphic artistsmost of you deserve ai taking your job.I don't need graphic artist anymore, I just ask chatgpt how to do X in photoshop or whatever.
>>62176225Be grateful that you 1. Got off cheaply and 2. It only happened to someone you don't care about so not much of a relationship was lost. Congratulations anon, you've learned a valuable lesson.>t. Loaned $1500 to my ex who never gave me back my money
