This IS business related, it impacts job prospects and my financial statusTLDR I've blown off three coworkers in 2026 so far and I'm wondering if I should stop being so uptight and create these psychosexual relationships with coworkers.1) I feel like the drama wouldn't be worth it, and I could be negatively impacted since I'm a man2) I work at a huge firm, the people I'd tap would have no overlap with my role, meaning they would have no incentive to rat me out in bad faith3) I do feel like life would be more entertaining if I fucked around4) I do want a long term relationship, a competent high earning parrner doesnt sound bad at allDoes anonymous of biz have any cautionary tales? Or any words of encouragement? I don't mind it if you just call me a retard, that's valuable input too.
>>62177163No, don't do it. It can be extremely stressful. I fucked my way through nursing staff in my 20's and the kind of people who do this are usually.... Not the most mentally healthy or emotionally mature people.
>>62177163id OovNkDoo, dog picture? Are you scooby's horndog cousin?You shouldn't shit where you eat. Measuring their worth as a potential long term partner is another matter, though if they want to sleep with you right off the bat they're probably not a good candidate. I think you're right to avoid it.
>>62177163if you're a wagie working some bullshit service industry job yeah whatever go for it. if you have a white collar career track job, don't do it. you'll probably get fired and the job market is horrendous.
didn't read tbqh but yesyou can always get a new job who gives a fuck
>>62177163There are so many things that could go wrong.
youre gonna catch feelings and cry like a bitch in a year when she fucks around and cucks you HARD. joke of the floor you work on. stick to friend zoning them. you still get the validation knowing you can fuck them, and you actually cuck them by fucking other women in front of them. ( i mean chatting up and pulling these hoes when out with your female coworkers.) dont shit where you eat anon, that drama is what women live for, you have no idea, things you dont give a fuck about are everything to them...
>>62177163>>62177177People (used to) get married to coworkers at "white collar" jobs all the time.In fact, work was the second most common place to meet your partner, for people out of school. Just out of school, and older.Before everyone became a smartphone zombie, that is.It's your job to judge whether the opposite side is worth it, or if they are out of their mind and have the brain of a moody teenager.PS: The real logistical problem is actually working in an environment with enough women, who are worth the attention.
>>62177163Yeah it'll fuck you over. The minute it helps one of these crazy bitches she'll claim assault. Or she'll blackmail you for it. Even if she doesn't you'll have to worry about it at one point or another. Not worth it.
i kind of remember what it was like to be this horny that this is how you think and what you think about constantly quite honestly it's fuckin hilarious that you're this screwed, literally enslaved by your own brain
>>62177177I work in an office environment in finance, Im young and in a low level position, shouldve mentioned that. >>62177190I was thinking about this too, I dont think Ill have trouble finding my way around, plus I have savings>>62177198I'm not so worried about that... the drama part is scary, I dont trust women not to spill the beans on the office floor. But what is the worst that can happen?
I regret not fucking the older tall leggy blonde who wanted me to creampie her when I was 22 and working some bullshit low tier office job.I am 41 now and still think about it often and regret not doing it.
>>62177213Not much I can do about it pal. I am young. I ended a 4 year long relationship where we had great sex every day ~10 months ago. I cant wait for my sexdrive to go down but until then, what else can I do but enjoy the ride?
>>62177215where else are you going to meet women? Everyone is always so 'busy' and in their own world. And fuck being a slave to your workspace. At worst you'll have a funny story about how you had to find a new job.
1 and 2 dont fit really, either its drama because you would see/work with them or its not
>>62177163sure why not. imagine the whole world being the same company. would you still restrain yourself then? this is the same, just a bit smaller scale
>>62177163Don't do itIf/when you get separate jobs, and/or new hires show up she's going to size them up in the exact same way she did to you. And (from her pov) if its good for her now, why can't it be better?It'll feel like magic until the show stops and the lights come on
>>62177823BTW>t. Got married to a girl from my job, just to get accused of assault when she got 'involved' with a new job (that I regrettably set up for her).Now divorced and sold to the state for feminist support slavery
>>62177163I have fucked 4 of my staff, there are 2 more that I am probably going to as well but I am talking to someone outside of work for the first time in years.No issues, no impact on my job or life. Just bee yourself (if you are an attractive man).
>>62177163Why are you making up stories again Jamboy?
People say "don't shit where you eat" but that's advice from the age of lifetime employment to a single company. As long as you are solidly able to switch jobs if needed go for it. Don't fuck around with married women though.
What's it like knowing women want to have sex with you?
OP here, phoneposting>>62177670I suppose that's a point in favor of going for it... still, rumours are rumours, I dont want to be known as the guy who sleeps around with coworkers.>>62177823I am a pretty attractive and successful man, I dont think these women Im thinking of would want to leave me. I am sorry to hear you've been so brutally mistreated, hang in there.>>62177917>>62178350Thanks mates>>62178359It is as with everything else. If you haven't got it, you crave it, if you have it you realise it is rather meaningless. Albeit I dont want to gaslight anyone into thinking that sex is not wonderful.
>womenHe's talking about gay sex retards.Yes, go and let them fuck you since your're already sucking them off.This is the starting path into real wealth.
From my experience I would say it depends on your relative importance at work compared to hers.I have regretted showing even small morsels of interest to female coworkers of similar title / status.I have also regretted not chasing after girls with technician or similar titles
>>62177163personally i don't do it, i wouldn't like having awkward situations at the office and i like my job
>>62177832Sounds like ya picked wrong, what a cunt>>62177163Do you have good crazy-dar? If so, go for it but be sure to be very up front about it either being a fling or long term. If you fool a woman who wants long term, that could lead to problems even if she isn’t crazy. Definitely don’t sleep with multiple at once unless you’re on the same page about not being exclusive.
>>62177163Never had a good experience doing it. If it doesn't lead to a relationship, they start going fucking crazy at you.Better to just not dip your wick in the company ink.
>>62177163don't shit where you eat, have you dealt with women before? Do you know how petty and fucked up they can be when things go bad?
>>62177163don't be a pussy like 99% of the thread, fuck your coworkers every chance you get. there's nothing that can go wrong.
>>62177163sexing your gay coworks always works out well. Go for it.
>>62177163women dont work so they cant be coworkers
