Im pretty short, and have been trying to get back into dating, but I think the way I've been dressing might make me come off as younger than I am to grown men my age. The only time I've been approached is when I've highlighted my boobsI know a lot of people recommend wearing highwaisted pants to not look so short but I think it creates the opposite effect and accentuates my height even more. Basically I want to dress like Im atleast above 21 and an eligible age for datingSo /fa/ how would you dress up someone that petite in height?
>>18541518I also semi forgot to mention that my lack of fashion sense comes from having to wear a uniform all throughout my schooling and that I spent most of my college years doing online/hybrid learning, so I have no idea how to dress for myself
>>18541518Men don't care how you dress, as long as you take care of yourself and aren't socially inept
Bit of dark academia like my 4’9 lawyer exShe looked good youd never be able to tell she was a mean whore
>>18541522the latter 2 don't matter either, someone will look at you and say "i can fix her"
>>18541518It doesn't matter how you dress. Go to church and find a good husband.
>>18541518Height doesn't really make a difference. Maybe for you personally you'd rather wear platform shoes and heels or one piece dresses but it's not a huge difference.Fundamentally, the advice of creating a good silhouette and natural sight lines applies as always. Right in the OP looks better because:>It naturally draws your eyes to the waist>It makes the waist look relatively thinner, and the legs longer>There's a variety of colour rather than just a single blob of greenIf you find an outfit which does all of that then it's going to look good on you, even if you're petite.If you think your boobs look good, then create sight lines which naturally emphasise your chest as well. That doesn't have to be boob windows, but it usually means well fitting clothes that aren't too loose.For women emphasising their waist nearly always makes them look better as well, so almost universally you want a tight waist (either from highwaisted pants, the fit of a dress or a tight shirt). If you don't have a thin enough waist to find clothes that fit well, then my best advice is gym and diet.
>>18541518>>18541633 (cont.)Oh, and the advice that has generally worked best for me is to look for outfits that you think look good on other people and try to emulate them. Maybe you end up with something that only has niche appeal, but it's actually likely to come out as an intentional aesthetic rather than a disjointed mess of clothes which individually might be well fitting/well made
Being short isn't that bad, ironically the women that tend to have problems with dating are very tall. Wearing high-waisted pants is a step in the right direction, long skirts are also good>>18541522>>18541557Yeah this isn't true, most men in real life have some standards. Luckily most women don't have completely shit fashion taste, but the ones that don't do not get very far.
>>18541518Height is one thing, but your face is the big indicator. You can dress more mature but it could come off as larping. If your face is round, underdeveloped, youthful, it will be hard to guess your age.
>>18541518Post tits or gtfo foid no one cares
>>18541518man, how neurotic are you?
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Hi I’m also a petite woman as well at 4’9/4’10! It’s a personal thing but I don’t like American fashion styles. I really like Japanese minimalist clothing on petite women. It looks more flattering since obviously Japanese women are short lol. Popeye City Boys magazine or Fudge magazine. I really @Umi_Fudge on Instagram who is an ambassador for Fudge. Who post their outfits online and where did they get it from. Shop at stores that’s in your price range. Mango or Artizia are great top brands for petite women. An affordable option is like Uniqlo, Primark, or Talbots - which is also great. Or even ordering from Japanese clothing stores like Lowry Farms on a proxy site.My next advice is to be at a great weight range and in great shape. I had the same problem as you when I look too young but it was because of me being underweight. Now I need about 10 lbs to get my desired weight and get into the gym. Look into petite gym influencers though. Also remember that you’re doing it for yourself - to be a better person. Not because you need to change to get into dating.
