i’m quite short and made to bear children so.. fat hipsglad we’re over that! i usually have to do plus sizes because straight sizes grab onto the curves too much and i like to practice some modesty. i have experience with romantic goth and some trad goth fashion but gothabilly/rockabilly do intrigue me a lot. im open to anything though as far as this fashion goes. also i’m a fucking slut for polka dots. 100% getting anything with polka dots. black background white dots. i prefer semi longer skirts, either to knee or longer.
>>18599271Stop degrading yourself. You need self esteem, not a new fashion style.
>>18599308i’m not degrading myself im being honest with a little bit of humor self esteem doesn’t change bone structure
>>18599271a tattoo of a fly. show butt.
>>18599271>I'm short (negatively)>I'm fat>negatively talks about curves>I'm a slutYou're framing reveals how you think about yourself. Everything is presented from a negative perspective. Saying "it's just humor" is a cope. It's not funny, you're just putting yourself down before someone else can, classic low self-esteem behavior "if I make fun of myself first other people can't make fun of me!". You probably don't even realize you are doing it. Even here >>18599374 you're negatively speaking about your bone structure like there is something wrong with you. So I'm going to say it again -- stop degrading yourself. How you talk about yourself matters, and no self respecting woman calls herself a "slut" about anything, even as a """joke"""
>>18599504honestly you are quite right. i do not like myself very much but not for those reasons entirely , thank you for noticing and calling me out before i even realized how mean i was being to myself. it’s a work in progress. self expression makes me feel like i have a bit of control over the things i dislike, like my shape or my scars or just anything i can pick apart in the mirror.i’m also not a slut i just really struggle with how i say things, i literally only slept with one person and that’s my husband. thank you for being kind but firm anon.
>>18599537nigga just take ozempic bro
>>18599383maybe tattoo of fly .i like all critters
>>18599540i’m part irish my hip bones are wide even at my chunkiest you can feel the bone i’m also unironically a homesteader/farmer so i need the strength
