Dress in such a way you seem like a man despite being dirty and messed up. If you dress prissy needing it all to be clean, you're fucked. I go with simple clothes from some name brands and brands from local stores like Wal-Mart, and still look good with them. I match the look as had someone with down syndrome worn them looking good with it as opposed to an NT, given I am an autistic. Actually those with down syndrome are geniuses more that I look at it, why do people think they're dumb? Anyway, just go for simple clothes that don't make you look douchey, and build from there.