How do I, as a 30s+ boomer, manage to overcome all the innate advantages that younger guys have on the dating scene? Are there particular scents and skincare products to help 'disguise' me as a younger man?
>>18648985yes, the scent of money
>>18648985>their skin is so softDisgusting old whore preying on young boys.
>>18648989it's ok when girls do it
>>18648985Women never mature.OP is a "Psycho" tier faggot larping as his own mother and jerking off to the fantasy.
>>18648985I mean, I guess it's true what she's saying about the essence of youth being part of the appeal. Youth = beauty. Goes for both sexes. But it's really not that difficult to be fit, healthy, and fuckable in your 30s. If you were a late-bloomer and kinda twinkish in your 20s, you should only be more attractive as you get a more mature face. Even if you aren't, and look your age, lean into it. Be the wise, mature daddy type these younger women crave. Ultimately though, the real advantage younger men have is their social circles. It's so much more difficult to demonstrate value when you don't have people that can vouch for you. So much of my getting laid in my youth was just: knowing people who knew people, them talking about you when you're not around, building a reputation. Nobody is talking about that lonewolf Unc at the bar. I was with my ex for 9 years, and so much of the courting process involved subtle interactions with women from my past that piqued her sense of jealousy/rivalry. She once met my old situationship (though we didn't call it that back then) at a concert, and literally started crying because she was too attractive. It made our bond even stronger. That happened a handful of times, meeting old friends and lovers in public settings, showing my partner that I had (and continue to hold) value as a man. I shudder thinking how the FUCK am I going to recreate those experiences as a 35 year old boomer? That's the element that is missing for the older crowd. We probably have WAY more going on for us at this stage, but there's no one out there to vouch for us (that will create that desire for women.)
>>18649136You can't.The reality is that men have lost all advantage since women are free to roam and see and be courted by all the men in the world on social media, etc. There is no non-abusive/sustainable way to maintain a strong loyal bond to you, even if you are an attractive well-to-do guy. There will always come along a more handsome, taller, richer, or interesting man she will randomly stumble upon, or whom stumbles upon her.Before, 1) this was much less likely since women were shielded from society--housewives, small town, etc. and 2) women were slut-shamed from pursuing such random leads or fancies.Now both of those conditions have been eradicated, so a woman is a free bird who will follow her irresistible natural feminine impulses to whatever stimulates her whimsy at any given moment, or whatever fits the current social zeitgeist.If society does not "force" women to be loyal, they by nature will be constantly exploring "better" options. Better is subjective and may not even make rational sense to you, but it's whatever her feelings or interests are at the moment. Maybe she's on a K-pop kick and wants a Korean guy. Then next year that's passe, and trad-masc white men are back in vogue, so she wants a rugged cowboy with blue eyes now. There is no such thing as a "forever man" anymore now that the pussy's been let out of the bag.DESTROY HUMANITY NOWGLOBAL NUCLEAR HOLOCAUSTGO OUT AND MASS MINECRAFT ALL HUMANSDO YOUR DUTY AS YOUNG MEN
>>18648985>Muh bedgeeeeeeYeah mentally she should be dating 20 year olds.True 30+ year old boomers have realised that satisfaction in bed is overrated.Your woman should just help you aura farm whenever you two are out together.Having the time to sex multiplie times per day, unless you are the big Stein or something, just means you are an unemployed sloth.
>>18649415All these words just to say you never go outside. Crazy.
>>18649103No, it's not.
>>18649728Yikes, foid got defensive because she knows anon spoke the truth.
>>18648985>men are behind on maturityI know a girl (21 years old) that had never made pasta before.
>>18648985Mens fashion is like onionsOnions have layersMens fashion has layershttps://youtu.be/iJgjzrUUt4M?si=kNbb469fAqKhPoOr
>>18648985Rizz and dick size.Fake it till you make it brudda.
>>18650979Modern women are like perpetually 14 years old mentally.
>>18648985tldr but being 30+, in my experience at least, only helped me bag under-23-year-old women.
>>18649731Whoosh
>>18649728Ha! Good one! Next tell him he lives in his mom's basement!
>>18651144Errm, sweaty... it's 2026 and if you as a man feel sexual attraction towards a woman more than 6 months younger than you that means you are a creep, a pedo and probably also a rapist.
>>18648985Assuming that you are physically healthy, not ugly, and have a stable job with decent income, it shouldn’t be too hard. I am 31 and met my wife when I was 26, but it was through online dating. Sometimes you just get lucky on the apps and meet someone that is really compatible with you. If you can’t curate a profile that attracts women, I would honestly just go do stuff you love and find a community around that while maintaining a good career and healthy lifestyle habits. If you manage to build a social circle or friend group around your hobbies, then you naturally just end up meeting friends of friends who happen to be women. People make it seem so difficult to make friends when you’re older when in reality it just requires that you actually go out and do stuff. I don’t really hang with any of my friends from my early 20s, but now all of my friends were formed from the social circles of the band I play in, with extensions of friends and acquaintances coming from the other bands my band mates play in. I work a day job as a civil engineer, hang with my wife, work out, play guitar and write music, go to band practice, play shows with the band, hang with people at our shows, and then go to my bandmate’s other shows and hang with people there. I’m not saying what worked for me will work for you, but if you’re not getting any action at the moment, there’s no reason why you can’t just enjoy your time doing the things you actually love and building friends around that. Women come swooping in as a secondary outcome, it should not be the primary focus
>>18648985Go to bars. Not old people bars. Places near a college campus that don't start getting crowded until late. Find places that have events: trivia, karaoke, open mic night, whatever. If your entire MO is to pull then you can go alone but it's better to bring a friend either way. Just go have fun. If a girl is interested, you'll know. Godspeed.
