>used to be fit>am now out of shape>but married and happy>can do, eat and drink whatever I want>wife cooks delicious food>have a cold beer whenever>fresh young pussy whenever you want>make lots of money>fulfilling social lifeWait, was fitness just a meme?
>>76632457At this point you stay fit to spend as much time with your family on this earth as you can.
>>76632463And to keep being able to smash that pussy
>>76632457All the things you mentioned are as temporary as the muscles you build. You're one bad day away from it all crumbling down. Have fun.
>>76632463>>76632477That's a good point desu. I'll hit the gym a bit tomorrow before work for memories' sake
>>76632495>wife is temporary>delicious food is temporary>cold beer is temporary>pussy is temporaryAre you.. American or something?
>>76632457It's a coping mechanism for Asians such like, because they are insecure.
>>76632457I mean, it could work, but being stronger and more sexually attractive has no downsides.
>>76632457why would a list of things that have nothing to do with fitness mean that fitness is a meme?Are you retarded or did you make this thread just to humblebrag about your life to losers on 4chan?
>>76632457>>used to be fitand im still fit lolremained a virgin all the way through my 30s. never lost my abs.i still don't have to watch what i eat because always lean.i don't have any money but also no debt.i have absolutely zero social life.can't complain im an absolute beast and life is good.
>>76632523That's fair. I guess my point was that fitness has very little to do with sucess, happiness, or personal fulfilment. But yeah, if you've just got love for the game, go for it.
>>76632542>i don't have any money but also no debtbased imo but doubt other people here will agreedo you have a gf or wife now though?
>>76632548Whatever level of happiness you feel now would be further improved by doing regular cardio. It's not like you're maxed out.
>>76632550>do you have a gf or wife now though?lol i said life is good. that should be a hint. i have nothing and no prospects to find anything. and at the tender age of 37 im relieved i don't have to preoccupy myself with faggy shit like that anymore. i work half the year on some remote hell and stay with my parents the other half.
>>76632553Maxing out isn't really a normal concept. You always make trade-offs. Right now, I'm getting more happiness by devoting more time to other tasks that aren't cardio. Maybe if I get an stationary bike to work on while I do something else at home I can minmax more lol>>76632563>i said life is good. that should be a hintAha. I figured that life being good meant that you had found love. Being 37 is fine, that's not an issue. But it is wonderful to have a partner who just makes your whole life better in every sense. Maybe you could work half the year on some remote hell and stay with your little qt the other half.
>>76632457>not lifting with your wife and being her personal trainer in your home gym
>>76632569>Maxing out isn't really a normal concept. You always make trade-offs.That is an excuse. Pretty much anyone is able to spare 30-60 min a day. Plus, that beer you're having is decreasing the amount of time and energy you have for other things.
>>76632581>able to>want toFound your issue, skipper.>that beer you're having is decreasing the amount of time and energy you have for other thingsThank god.
>>76632569>that you had found lovemy grandmother loved me that's enough. i have a couple of high school friends i see every other year. they have families. i don't see how im missing anything. i can jerk off in 10 minutes and be done with it. what the fuck do i need a gf for?
>>76632601If it works for you, I don't care. I'm just pointing out that your way of living should not be promoted. It is objectively wrong.
>>76632605Gfs do more than just jack you off, anon.
>>76632463I stay fit to get away from my family as much as possible
>>76632626wouldn't a gun be more useful for that?
>>76632569>proceeds to post goonbait from his goon collection
>>76632463This plus mogging other fathers
>>76632457I think what fat people don't understand is that I also eat whatever I want, I just don't want disgusting slop fast food takeout and a 1k calorie drink from Starbucks every day.
>>76632652Tbf I'm not fat. I'm still buff, and I don't like fast food.>>76632640luv u bby
>>76632457>out of shape>can do, eat and drink whatever I wantyou are gonna regret it in the long run if you keep this up, you don't have to autistically obsess over fitness but a modicum of regular physical activity and of restraint when it comes to dieting and drinking goes a long way in keeping your quality of life high as you age. Getting ripped or whatever is a luxury, but a minimum level of fitness is a basic requirement.
>>76632457Just wait until you get divorced.
>>76632457>Married>Fresh young pussyEither you've got a side piece (good for you), or your wife was looking over your shoulder as you typed this lol.
>>76632619>Gfs do more than just jack you off, anon.i don't know breh, women have never been a part of my life. whats the point of changing that at 38.
>>76632670>restraint when it comes to dietingI mean, yeah. I eat real, nutritious food three times a day. That's why it's neat to have a wife.>>76632697Young is subjective I guess. I'm late 30s, she's young 20s. That's fresh in my eyes.>>76632706Well seriously, what's the point of not trying it? Like say you try it, get a girl, and you end up not liking it. It's not like you lost anything, you're back to square one, but wiser. Might as well give it a go.
Some people exercise for healthSome people exercise to get a wifeyoure in the second camp if you stopped once you achieved the goal. You should start again for longevity though.
>>76632563Don't cope. You can't answer a question correctly. It's obvious the lack of love still bothers you greatly.
>>76632714>what's the point of not trying it?if i've been vehemently rejected when i was young who do you think will give me a chance now. girls are just appearance in my world. that's good enough.>>76632733brotherman, im 38. a lot of things bother me lol. life's short learn to appreciate the little things. don't become obsessed with the past.
>>76632743>girls are just appearance in my world. that's good enough.Aight. Up to you, I guess.I think solid female (opposite gender) companionship can contribute a lot to happiness and confidence. But that's just my opinion. You can't act like you above it or that you don't deserve it. Everyone does.
>>76632765lol anon why are you so emo, do you need to talk? we are here for you
>>76632743>can't complain im an absolute beast and life is good.>a lot of things bother me lolDon't lie to yourself, if you have needs try to get them met, you will burn out otherwise. Your subconscious can screw you over.
>>76632714>I eat real, nutritious food three times a daythen it's not nearly as bad as I assumed>That's why it's neat to have a wifehighly depends on the wife, trust me many women are as clueless about how to make hearty meals as the average dude is. Sounds like you got a good one
>>76632765NTA but had gf’s all my 20’s and early 30’s and it just adds some happiness to your life but it’s not the end goal, for example now I’m 33 and I work and lift hard and I’m devoted to the Lord but when I turn 35-37 I will have to find a girl and settle down with. I was gonna get married earlier this year but it failed
>>76632773I guess you replied to the wrong anon. I'm the happy guy. Thanks for the positivity, though :3>>76632792My wife is Asian. Her keeping me satisfied is like their life's objective. Her family always makes sure I eat enough because otherwise they'd be ashamed of her. They're nice about it, though.>>76632797Alright. Well, if it failed, I guess it was the right outcome to begin with. Better that you didn't get married with someone it wouldn't have worked with, y'know?
>>76632829>My wife is Asianyeah I figured that from the coombait you've been posting lol. I don't really like most asian women aesthetically, but culture-wise they must make for much better wives than the average western hoe. I try to be open minded but damn here even the nicest, most innocent-looking women immediately start whoring around if they happen to be without a boyfriend for longer than a month or two
>>76632829>I guess you replied to the wrong anon. I'm the happy guy.no i know who i replied to. you should whiny. you clearly need women in your life. i have successfully made it to 38 without one. if you ever lifted for a woman you were never really trullu fit hehe
>>76632846I've never been overly concerned with race or origin. Had gfs from all over. But I gotta admit, that pure-bred Asians (born and raised there) do have some attributes that makes for a very comfortable relationship. Not that I need a girl to cook for me, I can do it myself. But who's gonna complain if your wife cooks amazing food for you every day?>>76632848I do need my wife, definitely.> if you ever lifted for a womanI never did that, though.Guess I disagree with you, then, assuming you're not trolling. Having people to rely on that provide support and love is a net positive to me. Being alone only gets you so far, imo.
>>76632658Your wife must be real happy while you goon your brain away
>>76632829> Alright. Well, if it failed, I guess it was the right outcome to begin with. Better that you didn't get married with someone it wouldn't have worked with, y'know?Yeah I’m the guy who was marrying that 30 y.o lawyer if you remember my story
>>76632896Usually we goon together on uppers. Sometimes with another girl in the mix.>>76632906I don't remember. Sorry.
>>76632457loser mentality, no wonder you're not an athlete
>>76632457Sure, until you get old and your body fails you cause you let yourself go. You see those old fucks that look like shit and complain about their bodies hurting or how they can't even do something they used to be able to easily do? You don't have to destroy yourself weight lifting, but staying fit will make you look great even in your senior years.
>>76633228>>76633240holy insecurity
>>76632714>I'm late 30s, she's young 20slmao. lol
>>76632457having a loving wife beats being in the best shape duh
>>76632504You cross over into the next realm alone
>>76632743Some other anon here. I feel very much the way you feel, and see things how you see them. Im 30 though.Now im fit and make good money and I have all these worthless holes eyeing me. Im so content with my life and have found peace and fulfillment with no woman ever next to me. I don't think I'll give this up.
>>76634498That's just emotionally avoidant behaviour.Enjoy your peace and fulfillment for a while but you should probably address this at some point if you've already got your money and body secured.Don't hide behind cynicism and celebrate your weakness as strength. That lone wolf fuck bitches shit is for weak ass men who are scared of a fucking hug and having their heart broken.
>>76632495A fellow intellectual heavyweight, I see.>tips menorahLet me tell you about this website called Reddit, good sir.
>>76632714>>76632937You are going to get RAPED in a divorce in less than 12 years.Enjoy it while you can.
You can have all of those things and still be fit.
>>76634413True, but there's not much I can do about that.>>76633889Satisfaction guaranteed.
>>76634546I doubt it. One man one woman til death do us part etc
>>76634498>>76634526as a khv in my 30s i don't even understand what your talking about. some of us are just not attractive.
>>76635434But you could be. Plus, you shouldn't marry for looks anyway. It should be someone you like to spend time with.
>>76635515>marrykhv means kissless hugless virgin
>>76635568I know? How is that related to my statement?
>>76635575how am i supposed to go from this straight to marriage in my 30s
>>76635599By finding someone you like, obviously? What's your obsession with 30s? I'm in my 30s. It's like.. a very normal age to be. And a very normal age to get married.
>>76632457Clearly lyingI don't get the point
>>76632457Why does every married person HAVE to say they are “happy?”
>>76635613you are clearly trolling. go somewhere else to spam about relationships.
Females bodies are gross after 30. Thats a fact. >>76635629Nta but females collectively have went mask off, i have no idea why any self respecting man would marry.
>>76635626I can't speak for everyone, but in my case I'm happier than ever before.>>76635629???It's literally true. I'm guessing you're just trolling here.
>>76632457Ask me again when you're dying form a heart attack at 60.
>>76635687That doesn't sound too bad, though?
>>76635613Stop being obtuse already. The cast majority of people married don't go from having no experience all the way to their 30s to suddenly just finding their fiancée. Not having g any relationship experience makes that a hurdle, and you do that anon no favors by pretending otherwise.
>>76635767*vast
>>76635767I have no idea what you're trying to say. Everyone goes from no experience to some experience at some point. If you're 15, 25, or 35 when that happens doesn't really matter. Just because he hasn't had a partner yet, doesn't mean that he can't have one now. I don't believe that would make it a hurdle. But being negative or self-sabotating certainly would be a hurdle.
>>76635818Nah bro, the point in life in which you acquire your first taste of relationships absolutely matters. Not just for your own development, but to other people. There's a reason there's such a stigma against men who are still virgins past a certain age. Knew a guy who was 35 and never had a gf at my workplace, and everyone talked shit about him behind his back due to this alone. To this day, he's still a bachelor. Am I saying that any man in this position should never try to find love? No. But it's just silly to view things through such an idealistic lens and pretending there's no barriers to cross that's not putting you miles behind everyone else.
>>76635846>idealistic lensI think you gotta set yourself up for success. Being negative will get you nowhere in life, and is a guaranteed pussy repellent. If you feel self-concious about not having had a gf, then tell a white lie about it while you're out dating. Just say "yeah, nah, I've tried a few dates here and there but nothing has ever really worked out long term".
>>76634413What do you mean?If you read an NDE report it's nearly always "my [dead family relative]/dog/passed on family was there waiting for me" type stuff
