I would like to join a run club but I am really ugly and I am scared that nobody will actually want to socialize with me and I will be sidelined while everyone else has fun. What should I do?
>>76637289>run clubSounds terriblejust run by yourself
>>76637289I joined a run club with total babes and I have sex with like 5 at the same time after runs and I'm ugly They heard about my ai prompt skills and after that it was in th bag
>>76637293most run clubs in urban areas are just speed dating events for both sexes. One of the few ways to meet girls that doesn't involve alcohol or academics.
>>76637293I have zero friends and zero family. I need some people in my life or else I will kill myself from the isolation.>>76637339I don't care about babes, I just want to make some friends.
>>76637373what are you waiting for then?
>>76637289you are right, i joined a boxing club for similar reason, no one ever spoke to me even after 2 year except a lesbian who was very nice with me and some new comer who would quit after a few weeks, it got to the point i wanted to tell new comers to avoid me so the "main group" wouldn't exclude them by association with me
>>76637373> don't care about babes, I just want to make some friendsLmfao faggot kys what are u 5
>>76637289Don’t know where you live, but see if any of the run clubs are “trail running” specific. Nice people and dicks everywhere but in general trail runners are really chill and friendly. Also, general rule for run clubs, it will be tough the first few times. Lots of people show up once/twice and then never come back. If people see you more than a couple times they realize you are sticking around and will be friendlier. Also check on the /roon/ general.
>>76637410Lmao fucking pathetic what do u want to shoot the shit and hold hands playing with Lego blocks Jew trash the Jews did a number on u go watch more Jew sitcoms it did u a lot of good Faggot
>>76637398Nothing. I keep postponing it always thinking>I am not ready yet>I need to get in better shape>I need more muscles>>76637411How good of a physique do you need for a run club? I am ok at running (20 min 5K, 44 min 10K) but also only ok at the gym, like I only have 15 inch arms. My biggest problem is that I am ugly and I know nobody wants to talk to ugly people. I am also only 5'9", so not tall either.
>>76637370I seeMy first date was a running date, but I did that as a 15 year old. I can't imagine doing it in my 20s. Not to mention running in a group feels gigacucked
>>76637289Just go there, run for a while and see what happens. Maybe they'll ignore you, maybe someone there will want to be friends with you. You have nothing to lose
>>76637461It's also giga gay Imagine needing to hold hands with people 24 7 in everything you do That's some protocols of Zion shit They want to kill white men We are the only ones who have the balls and ability to go it alone and to be heros All the lesser races are always all in communities only we have the ability to be strong differentiated Individuals while also being a part of and loyal to our groups
>>76637470>You have nothing to loseIf nobody wants to talk to me then I lose the opportunity to make friends which will mean I have to live the rest of my life alone.
>>76637477That's why me existing short circuits the kike pea brain, they can't imagine someone not wanting muh friends They keep for years and years throwing subhumans at me in an effort to control me But it will never work The only thing I need is a wife, and I'll find her when the time is right, and I'll find her easily without kike masonic "help" Now give me the CNC Job I don't hate Jews and love boats
>>76637483I'm not an anti semite btw
>>76637408did you try speaking to them?
>>76637481You already "lose" (read: never have) the opportunity by refusing to join the run club in the first placeYou have to put yourself in situations to talk to people if you want friends, the only thing that guarantees being alone forever is not talking to anyone
>>76637481>If nobody wants to talk to me then I lose the opportunity to make friends which will mean I have to live the rest of my life alone.might want to double check your logic there, bud
>>76637477It's gay if it's a gruop.If OP was going with some athletic lady that would be fine albeit if it's your gf you should do that max once per week since you are going to obviously be faster without her
>>76637488no, they would prefer to talk to a literal retard then have anything to do with me, yes there was a literal retard in the group and it wasnt me (shocking). i noticed there seem to be 1 real retard in every boxing gym in my city lol.
>>76637511probably because downies are usually nice. take a look in the mirror and tell me you're not a sourpuss
>>76637447Listen, I’m trying to be helpful here but I gotta be a dick. >Stop being such a fucking loser>Stop being such a fucking pussy>Stop being such a fucking idiotYou’re gonna be top 10-20% in terms of running speed ant most run clubs. Unless you are trying for semi-elite competitive team's, you won’t have any issue with pace. If you are running 20m 5Ks you would know that. Just google local run clubs and look at the pictures. There’s fat people, skinny people, fit people, ugly people, pretty people, old people, young people, etc. No one is gonna give a shit about your height or how fucking big your arms are or that your face looks like a bulldogs asshole. You can either keep making up excuses for why you can’t go, or you can go. Maybe everyone will be a dick to you. Maybe everyone will be nice. Who knows, but there is no secret sauce. Just go and if you don’t like it, then stop going.
>>76637522I honestly don’t know what is a sourpuss, i don’t think there is a french word for it so Maybe I am . Sour puss is a alcholic Breverage with lot of sugar
>>76637550for reference
>>76637550being a sour puss is like being an annoyed (pussy) cat. it's hard to describe the connotation but really it's a child-friendly wordanyway if you're french there's no problem being a sourpuss because as far as I know your whole country has an attitude.
>>76637524>There’s fat people, skinny people, fit people, ugly people, pretty people, old people, young peopleThere are only 2 run clubs in my city and both are only 18-30 years old people. Judging from the pics on Insta, they are all attractive. Guys are all tall and in very good shape, girls are all either cute or hot. I live in a city with 4 universities, so it's mostly students or graduates there.That is why I am actually scared to join. Like if I were in one of these Insta posts I would stick out like some Orc from lord of the rings.
>>76637581They wont take pic or want to include you in anything, i wouldnt go if i were youyou gotta accept that being a male in 2025 is about being alone. there is 0 way for adult male to make new friends, thats the sad reality of life and thats what the jews wanted. just be glad that you can still die because in a few generation, people will be made to suffer forever.
>>76637581See you are just making excuses for why it won’t work. You don’t want to fix the problem, you want to complain there is a problem. Tell me your cities name and I guarantee you I can find more than 2 run clubs and all will have fat ugly people in their pictures. (inb4 I don’t wanna dox myself, if your city has 4 universities then it’s a big enough city that no one will no you) A quick google says Ann Arbor Michigan has 4 universities. Here is a run club from there: https://run-annarbor.com/. Tell me it’s all 18-30 year old modelsHow about Raleigh/Durham? Another city with a bunch universities: https://bullcityrunning.com/events/runclub/. I repeat what I said before:>Stop being such a fucking loser>Stop being such a fucking pussy>Stop being such a fucking idiot
>>76637635>Tell me your cities nameGraz. I am not in the US, I am in Austria, which is in Europe.
>>76637289just run fast as fuck bro they'll be amazed by your speed
>>76637648Look at all these models at the park run in Graz: https://www.parkrun.co.at/stadtparkgraz/photos/All fucking 10s
>>76637289I’m also ugly but being alone is one of the best things about running. Just me, my music, the wind and the sun.
>>76637674Park run is gay I have been there once. Google Graz run clubs and go on Insta, you'll see what I mean.
>>76637648wouldn't austria have some sort of hiking groups or whatnot, seems maybe easier. I dont think being ugly or shorter will keep you from making male friends. I met a chill austrian bro form aorund salzburg, maybe he just wanted to talk to me because im american or whatever.
>>76637711Salzburg is great for hiking because you aren't far from the alps. I live in lower Austria and you have to drive 2-3 hours to get to good routes and I don't have a car.
>>76637289Don't worry, ugly bastards are everywhere. They are the human standard. You'll fit right in.
>>76637711you have not tried to make friends today, if you are too ugly other male wont be to be seen with you because you will repulse girl or make them look bad on IG. male are becoming more girly than girls
>>76637289>What should I do?Continue to live in fear. Beta bitch.
>>76637747That's why I asked how good my physique has to be to offset that. Like an ugly face next to normal people looks bad but what if people went like>who is this ugly guy there wtf>but he has sick arms bro, hell yeah
>>76637289The first time I joined a run club I wanted to impress this cute girl in it so I tried staying ahead of everyone the entire run, my kidney area started to hurt really badly but I kept on, finally got near the end and another girl was about to pass me a water bottle and I projectile vomited on the bottle and part of her hand, never went back
>>76637668based here's what you do strut around like you're walking your cock. once you start SPRINT ahead i mean sprint, get way ahead where no one can see you, then hide in the bushes once they all pass go to the finish line and just chill act like it was no big deal running the 5 miles say you finished in oh idk 28 mins?
>>76637853But anon it was 10 minute warm up !!
>>76637841I laughed really hard. That's a funny af story, if you told that story to a cute runner girl and she laughed her ass off you would know she is the One :)
>>76637841>>76637881hm this is true. Keep in mind, marrying any cute girl is a contract to smell her nasty shits for the rest of your life.
The truth is that social dynamics and social structures are very similar in most situations and a low level loser in one group will more than likely also be a low level loser in any other group he joins unless he makes drastic changes beforehand. So a timid loser from college will more than likely still be a timid loser at work no matter what his workplace is. And a friendly life-of-the-party type guy would make friends in your situation even if that's the first time he ever tried to actually run in his life.So you either have to make extreme drastic very hard changes about yourself from the ground up or accept that you're a low level loser who will always be automatically put on the lowest level of the social hierarchy.
>>76637943100% CORRECTTHE SAD PART IS THAT IT AINT YOUR FAULT THAT YOU ARE LOSER, YOU HAVE BEEN OUTCASTED SINCE THE AGE OF 5 BECAUSE 1 GIRL CONVINCED THE HIVE MIND TO HATE YOU, SINCE THEN YOU HAVE BEEN ISOLATED AND THEY ALWAYS JUSTIFY YOU BEING A LOSER BECAUSE THEY ISOLATED YOU. REJECT HUMANITYGOD WILL NEVER REJECT YOU OR VIEW YOU A LOSER
>>76637289Nobody gets socially isolated for being ugly unless you're some mutilated ghoulGet out of your own head for once then you'll actually be able to be social instead of a reserved person on guard that is hard to aproach or talk to
>>76637901good work projectile vomiting on this conversation
>>76637747bro do you pay attention to female group dynamics women ALWAYS have a hideous friend at least tertiary to them so they can trot them around and look good in comparison
>>76637866you could also just pretend your asleep i used to do that when my mom would check on my at night then id play pokemon
>>76638239yes, but its a FEMALE ugly friend, never a male. if you are below average, and you a friendless, and out college, its litteraly over , and remember that girl rate 80% below average
>>76637289>I would like to join a run club but I am really ugly and I am scared that nobody will actually want to socialize with me and I will be sidelined while everyone else has fun. What should I do?So the first thing you thought what would happen when you join a run club was that you would be isolated at first sight? Anon you are manifesting what has not even happened yet. Stop being a stuckup bitch and go out there and run
>>76637447>20 min 5KThat's elite time bro. With this time you can win local 5ks easy. You are bullshitting us.
>>76639122>That's elite time broNo it's not. Elite time is 17 min or below. Last 5K race in my city I placed 21 out of 280 male runners.
>>76639758>I'm OK at running>claims to be in the top 10% of runnersYou're a gay faggot nigger larper
>>76640116Lmao welcome to /fit/ where guys who bench 225 for reps think they are weak. Dysmorphia is the rule here, get used to it.
>>76640116elite is like top1%
hoping this is a shill demoralization thread but on the off chance it isn't this is sad. anon just go do it nigga if you don't make any friends then try something else or just try and force it to happen. being social isn't some shit you can't improve on like your height, its closer to losing weight or getting swole. think about it like a video game stat for your autistic brain to grind xp on. put yourself in increasingly uncomfortable social situations with opportunities to meet different people until the things like run clubs seem less intimidating and more in your zone of control.
>>76637627>there is 0 way for adult male to make new friendsI made friends in prison and psychiatric ward, but nobody lives close to me.
>>76641466You are right, autists would actually glow up in prison
>>76637416Mindbroken mutt
>>76640116bruh even I am 20 min 5k and I barely been running for half a year or so. Does that mean I have potential?
