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I do basic bitch workouts on the weekdays, along with reading, and my job.

On the weekend I work on programming a video game, and do meal prep/chores. My family is dead and I don't have friends I hang out with. I'm 30.

I don't have much going on in life. Do you have any advice?
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>>76668372
Seems like a pretty good life to me. What do you need advice on?
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>>76668372
you don't have to work really hard to get that on your tombstone
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Sounds like you are doing surrogate activities for the things you actually want to achieve. Make sure you're actually taking steps to do it. As you get older you should lose your concept of magical thinking. Learning shit and getting strong isn't going to manifest a girl in your room but it will help you once you get the courage to take the first step. Same with work. You can do all the prep and learn everything but if you never signal to an employer you're worth hiring nobodies going to magically find you or know what you're capable of
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>>76668378
lol
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>>76668375
I guess dating and interacting with people. I don't know if this was obvious but this is what I do EVERY week, with few changes, and pretty much entirely in solitude. If I keep doing this I am going to die alone.
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>>76668379
This is pretty good general advice
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>>76668372
Join the military. They issue you friends you’ll have for life.
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>>76668438
no that sounds awful, everyone I know who did this wants to kill themself
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>>76668372
Just say yes anon. Be a yes man and see where it takes you. What have you got to lose?
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>>76668379
OP has a job but lacks pussy/frens. His wishful thinking is that pussy/frens will make his life better because that is what tv makes you believe

>>76668393
Do something where you have to shove yourself into people's faces and interacting with people becomes naturally to you. However, you will find out that interacting with people becomes another chore
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>>76669556
>However, you will find out that interacting with people becomes another chore
To be honest I think I've already reached that conclusion. Now what?

My whole family died when I was like 19, I was homeless since 14. It was a mad dash to reach stability and I don't know what to do now that I'm here.

I deeply identify with the peasant from Leo Tolstoy's "Master and Man" who just wants to die.

What do YOU guys do that makes you feel better?
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>>76669603

I drink, I wouldn't recommend that though. What brings you joy? Just looking for a girl? Lower your standards and go for the fatty
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>>76668372
I'm not good at giving advice, so I'll just tell you want I want out of my life in the next 5 years.
>hit my essential fitness goals (1/2/3/4, 12-15% bf, aesthetic clothing fit)
>want to have strong metabolic health (being able to jog at an easy zone 2 seems mythical to me right now)
>want to be a mangaka and draw some aesthetic manga panels (with sovl)
>want to learn piano and perfect a language
>tied with the mangaka thing but I want to write a novel
my interest in dating/marriage only matters insofar as it addresses/enhances or at least doesn't interfere with the above
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>>76669603
>What do YOU guys do that makes you feel better?
Having gigs with bands.

Have you considered volunteering for the homeless? You'd have company and purpose.
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>>76668372
Demo thread
Hey let me strive work less hard and be lazy
Lmfao said no sane worthwhile person ever
U shouldol nove to the Balkans and sit at a cafe 8 hours a day and plot embezzlement schemes with your spiritual brothers
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>>76668372
>work on programming a video game
Does this not give you fulfillment? Also what kind of game is it?
>inb4 retro inspired 2d platformer on Steam
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>>76668438
Incorrect. These “friends” will come and go. A lot will either get movies somewhere else or get out before you. When you do eventually get out, the ones you keep in contact with will slowly drift away as you learn the only real thing you had in common was being in the same shitty duty station.
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>>76670934
man I already worked hard, now I'm wondering what it was for

>>76671151
it's a 2D platformer but it's more like you are a carnivorous alien species killing innocent animals

>>76671254
what I've seen as well
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>>76672556
>a 2D platformer but it's more like you are a carnivorous alien species killing innocent animals
That sounds a lot like Carrion, haven't played it but you play as a horror monster and kill innocent people. You have any gameplay or screenshots?



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